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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 3:39 am 
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My game is based around being cocky and accusing her of wanting me (throwing in little comments like "eye's above the waist" or "stop undressing me with your eyes" etc).

I'm curious, as I have been reading field and lay reports, that direct game can bypass a lot of un-necessary gaming.

Which leads to my question: If you go in direct, you're telegraphing obvious interest in her. Would it still be applicable for myself to accuse her of flirting with me and wanting me, or would I just hit a wall?


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 3:44 am 
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At a point you have to get serious. You can do this in the first few minutes, but then ask her about herself and stuff.

I just watched a video with SashaPUA my personal role-model in the field becuase he too is funny and uses humour, but he taught me something important. Stop being funny all the fucking time, you gotta be serious or she is gonna not make any emotional connections to you.

Talk about serious shit, I been day gaming and getting a lot of numbers, and a lot of flakes. I realize now its because I also end the game after I get her number.

Dont do this, talk to her after, get her number then be fucking serious. I didn't do this as much as I should have. I realized that with girls I would talk to for over 15 mins I would get a date following. Those i got the number within first 5-10 and didnt really get to know I didnt get responses to a call or text.

Just food for thought.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 3:59 am 
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Too true bro.

I guess humour only gets you so far? I guess that's really just to get her attracted enough to you to have a decent and serious conversation.

I'm not in routines, I like natural game. I've found myself to be naturally okay with getting girls, but I've come here to assess why and how to put it into better practice.

So, decipher. Open indirect, accuse her of flirting/start flirting with her to get some IOI's, isolate and start making the emotional connection? Sound about right?


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 8:11 am 
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Dude I am here for the same exact reason, I got girls before, I just want more and to do it with as close to little no fail, I dont care about rejection, I mean obviously I do a bit, but you can;t worry about that bro seriously just who cares.

How I work my game is go into a set and find my target, sometimes easier then others, legit sometimes Icant tell they are all so hott haha. I then begin to disqualify the males and show attentions to the bitchy chicks in the set, and I mean the ones who are the "lets get out of here" or "I am not getting attention I am a cunt" or "I am a twat block" those girls, you know what I am talking about...

I try and get them to be happy, while only giving eye contact to my target, and generally only caring about her responses. I will ask the entire set blah blah blah, but wen I ask her I look at her (eye contact) listen intently and (always confident) I actually respond. I use my wits and humour to make fun of the set and myself.

I went to a bar last night up to maybe 25-28 yr olds I am 18 I look 16, so I ask how they know each other, what they do. The bitchy one says I am a star, Im like oh really so you model or actress, then she looks at me and says your kidding. I say not sure, depends are you. and dead ass straight look at her. I then say I am clearly not 21, lets be honest I look like I can be justin beibers little brother. they ask my age and name at this point. I say 20, cause well come one we all lie...

Point is I take my faults and make jokes about it and then make fun of everyone not just my target. I equally create the sense I am the comic guy. Now what comes next and I am learning (especially with night game) is then isolating and building the serious comfort phase.

So the decipher part of your question (also I apologize for telling you a story about me I was trying to show you what I do to maybe help) I open with anything, I usually open sets, more of a challenge, then I build comfort with the set by making them laugh, I love telling jokes, making situational humour, I actually feel like a stand up comic when I talk to sets, then I would say, listen your friend here is really fucking sexy, like there are probably some guys fighting each other about her as we speak, shes that fucking sexy... think I can talk to her alone.

If you made them like you, they think your alright, then you isolate and build comfort and get to know her. Ask more personal question, and add your humour here and there, dont become dr. phil on her.

Have fun with it, and let her see you are just having fun, she will love that.

I think most of my sets go off amazing at the start, and they never are reluctant to give me a number is because how "fun" I am. In my anthro class today (I told the hottest two girls too sit next to me. I knew one of them, the other I met the day before) I then introduce one of them to the class, specifically not by her name. Everyone who knows her is laughing everyone else thinks im crazy, she is smacking me, the other girl is getting jealousy rage but loving that I am calling her by a different name. (girls bro fucking mental)

Point is I have fun and they want to be in this world.

So please do me a favour and have fun, and just mentally be aware of PUA. The hardest part for me was to relearn everything from scratch but it has helped me so much. I dont think I have AA I went to a bar that had 6 women total. I got two girls to give me #'s thats 1/3 of the women that sounds awesome but it wasnt that hard cause I was having fun and they even said ur so fun. I also when I get a girls number and you should do this every EVERY time, is save her contact as something unique... One of the girls was helping me find a bar that was more populated that didnt card 18 yr olds... I saved her as my jesus, cause she was my saviour, she thought it was hilarious, the other girl I saved as drunk ass pool player, again funny and if you call them later you can be like Hey your that really drunk ass pool player who kept trying to be my partner, I had a good time blah blah blah lets meet up again...

I know this post is long as fuck but I think it can help you a lot. Give me pointers, its 3am so its a bit everywhere, but I tried to give you analogies to relate and deliver a good point for you. Excuse the grammer and spelling, its 3am so fuck you if you judging me on that. with that said, if you dont understand something I wrote because of it just tell me to clarify and I will :P

DONE!

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