Date: 25 january 2012

Fuck I'm really pissed off..I have to wait a fucking week to sarge everytime..it's really not a lot at all..I feel like I'm getting out of the zone and when it comes my sarging night I'm feeling rusty/not prepared. I'm trying to find a way that I can at least practice each 2 days.. I was thinking of talking to 3 random girls each day..like indirect or direct when I'm taking the subway to school. Any suggestions if you are in the same situation or if you lacked time and you found a way to still practice are usefull for me so don't hesitate to reply!

Sarging in 2 days! Peace out!

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Why do you think my night game sucks bro... What I am doing is planning vacations where I can cram sessions. I going to florida for 10 days and going to make it count. I staying at a girls house so she gonna hook me up + its spring break so gonna be epic.

But as for currently. Its even harder for me cause in states 18 = No No for bars and clubs.

Hence why I do daygame.

Why stop at 3 approaches a day? Today I was a queer, went to library (I was missing class - but this is an excuse really) so I didnt go up to a chick who was checking me out from my history class. I should had just walked the fuck over gotten a hug n a number then left.

My advice when you have no class and are not doing your work get out if you can. Find someone you can sarge with or interested in this stuff and go to a mall or any populated place and just practice. I have done this shit on my own a lot recently, you get over it. To pace yourself go with a friend like I said. Just do it but like he gets a girl you get a girl (diff sets) in back of ur mind u kno hes there but hes like 25m away from you like he can be on the other side of the mall who cares... It helped me a bit.

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No such thing as being rusty/not prepared when you're going out 1 time a week. You could go out every night and you would still feel the same when you first enter the club. It's called social momentum, master it right when you enter the club. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. You should look at 60 YOC for more information on the topic.

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Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

No..I'm not talking about that..that is STATE...being in state is not a problem for me. And yeah that starts when you enter the club I have no problem being in STATE when I enter the club. But when you're not a pro and you dont do this regularly..its harder to stay in shape. Everyone that I know that became good practiced almost every day. I've only done more than 1 time per week during my month of vacation and my skill got a LOT better in just a month because I went out 3 times each week. It's like playing a sport..try to stop playing soccer for 2 weeks when you're in a profesional soccer team you'll see how it will take some time for you before you "regain" your skill when you'll touch the ball. You don't really understand because you dont really sarge..as you said before you just go out and drink with a friend..for me I'm taking this seriously and I want to improve this skill. All the top players went at least each 2 days for almost a year before they started closing a lot..this shit requires more in my opinion than 1 time each week. As I said..only one month I've gone out 2-3 times and my skill improved a LOT in just a short period of time

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Date: 28 january 2012

Members: Valentyn, T_Rex, Froggy & "Steve"

Location: Café Campus

Sets: 6


NORMAL NIGHT

It's been a long time since T_Rex hadn't come out with us and I enjoyed being with him because he's also my best buddy. First of all I want to state that Valentyn is taking a different approach to pick up..I dismissed all the rules that I learned until now and I'm really creating my own style of pick up. I try different things and I'm creating my method by what works/what doesn't work for me. Of course I use a lot of principles of attraction and all..but I'm just not following step by step any method. AFC Adam inspired me to do this. Anyway, tonight wasn't really a bad night because the more I game..the more I'm capable of disociating my self from responses girls give me. Tonight the outcome mattered even less than usually for me. This is key to inner game..which in my opinion is key to picking up.


Set #1: I'm with T_Rex at the bar and I see a 2 set near us. They're really low energy and look bored so I go in with "cheating girlfriend". We talk about the subject..but her friend looked pissed that I wasn't engaging her. Music is way too loud I couldn't. I tried transitioning but my girl didn't responded that good. Her level of interest was normal. I give a non verbal FTC to disqualify and start talking to T_Rex..after 30 seconds I re-engage in order to go a little further but again..she was way too bored and my transition wasn't really good. I eject without even saying good bye

Set #2: I'm again with my dinosaur at the bar and I see a HB at my right. To sound authentic I always talk with my wingman about the subject I'll open. So I yell "Bro what should I buy I want to try something new" Than I turn to my target and open with "Hey I'm trying to figure out what drink to buy..do you have any idea of something good?" She engages me right off the bat in a great way. It takes me 2.5 seconds to notice her level of interest in me is high. She says "Buy a pussy juice shot" I go "What? What's that" she says: "That's pussy juice" I'm like "No really is it like a shot?" She says "No it's pussy...juice!". It's been 30 seconds that we're talking and she's already sexualizing the encounter..I'm in. We talk for a minute and after I did a really nice move that I thought on the spot. She was looking away for a moment so I quickly brush something off her shoulder for like 3 seconds. She turns to me and says: what? I go "Nahh don't worry you had lint on your shoulder I just removed it" T_Rex started laughing because my authenticity was really good lol! After I said that she immediately gives me IOI of flcking of the hair. I then say "Hey don't be mean and introduce yourself..your talking to me without saying your name" We exchange names and I shake her hand and when we are supposed to let go..I just keep my hand on hers and I don't let go. 60 year challenge is gold..we just kept talking with our hands continously shaking for a long time lol. She then says "Would you be my valentine for valentine's day?" (in a fun way) I go: "Listen I would love to but you have to show me you're a good girl tonight!" She smiles and then 8 or 10 girls come around her yelling and shit. I shoud've negged her to introduce me..but there were way too many girls..we said we will see eachother and talk later. Here's the fucking problem and I'm tired of this shit happening to me.. I didn't find her afterwards. This has happened so many times to me..I'm getting sicked of this scenario seriously..what can I say..next time if we seperate..I will re-open in 5 minutes..I must not wait more than 10 minutes because after that it's almost impossible.

Set #3: I see 1 fucking hot HB sitting down and her friend dancing near her. I started to think about excuses to not approach and then I remember that the outcome doesn't matter. I approach with "Hey guys you look really friendly..I had to come say hello" Bad response...she said: "Really? Ok cool" Than she turned her back to me..I don't know if I coud've done something..maybe neg? Anyway I don't have time to waste so I eject

Set #4: I'm alone looking for my wingmen and 2 HB's come near me. Proximity Alert because they just stayed near me with their cellphones in their hand. I give a tap on the shoulder to one of them. She looks at me. I wave at her without saying anything. She says "Hey!" Yep..opening is not a skill..I never opened without even saying something..I was surprised I did that. I then say: "Fuck I lost my friends!" She says: "Us too! We can't find them" We talk for a little bit more..I multiple-thread quicly in "cheating girlfriend" Again her friend looked pissed for me not talking to her but music way too loud.. so I'm almost transitioning for exchanging names..when Froggy jumps in my set between me and my target yelling :" Heyyy" having a loser near him looking drunk. Both targets ejected after 3 sec he did that.. dude..please do not enter my sets without permission man..I beg you!

Set #5: I want to try something new and I see a girl alone standing against the wall. I go in with: "Hey I know this sounds random but my friend gave me this challenge for today..I have to get at least a hug from a really adorable girl" She looks at me and than gives me a big hug. This is a great way to even build compliance momentum.. I talk for 10 seconds afterwards and I see she is nott good looking I'm like fuck lol Eject

Set #6: Again I wanted to try something I never did before..so I approached my first mix set by approaching the big AMOG of the group. I go in with "Hey man where did you bought your watch? I can't seem to find good ones in stores" He engages me but looks really pissed and he just brushes me off quickly. I eject the set

Those are my sets..I also had fun with my boys and I gave a lot of advice to what Froggy was doing in his sets. His common problem is showing too much interest


Current Sticking Point: Closing - it's not really that I can't close..it's just I'm losing opportunities when we tell each other to talk later in the night.

Solution: I'm going to re-engage really fast..after 2min-5min I'm re-opening my set and closing her ass


Quick note: Just started gaming a hot girl in my college classes that I opened..her level of interest towards me is sky rocked! IOI's through the roof.. and I already heard friends saying she finds me attractive. I'm gaming her ass starting today.

Peace out guys!

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hay man, sounds like you had a good night....

you said "what can I say if we separate". Why not just go in for the number close then. You can say "cool I'll come find you later. what's your number".. you can pull it off as a simple way to meet later. If you don't find them you can either call them then or have the number for the future.

Freak

Date: 19 january 2012


I can't do daygame this week..too many stuff to study + soccer game..it sucks balls. Next week I'll do my best to have time for sarging during the day.

Thanks for you comment Freak..I don't know why I never thought of that..I'm going to field test it

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I agree with field... it happened to me once and I was just like fuck um whats your number lets do this again... I was cock blocked as you stated, but I just took control for 2 mins and then left after I got the number.

Why I dont believe in cock blocking :p Sure it happens where u really lose full control but if you just maintain your cool, get what you came for and then quickly bounce then bam!

Best of luck with your future sarging

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Okay, I get what you're saying about being rusty and all, but I would like you to clarify something.

What do you think is Pick up? I would like to hear you're own definition of pick up.

In my opinion, pick up is the art of seducing women. Yes, this is very vague. The best pick up artist I've met in my life (a friend of mine, actually) has absolutely no idea that this whole community exists. He knows NOTHING about pick up. But still, he slept with more than 50+ girls (Including Models, mothers, coaches) at the age of 19. He is a pick up artist even if he doesn't really know anything about the whole community? I think he is.
What I'm trying to say is that there are hundreds of different PU styles, that doesn't mean that one is sarging and the other is not.

From what I see, you are taking this very seriously. And I respect you for it, but could you tell me what is your main goal with all this? I doubt you only what to *develop* a skill... You could be the best pick up artist and still be unhappy in your dating life, or you could just be a normal guy with no pick up style, be lucky or whatnot and have an amazing girlfriend that would make you happy. This is all philosophy, check out Socrates and his cavern theory for more details. What do you REALLY want? Fuck 100 girls, find an amazing girlfriend, have a couple of fuck buddies?

One more thing, I don't really appreciate when you say that I can't understand you because I am not sarging. I may not use the same methods, but I still consider what I do as sarging. In fact, I've been hitting the clubs 1, 2 or 3 days every week for the past two years, constantly trying to pick up girls. From my PERSONAL experience, I've learned that the less effort I put into pick up, the better the result. I just focus on being a fun person to be around, sexual and I get the girl. To be honest, I don't remember the last time I went out without making out with at least one girl. But......


I can't understand you, because I am not sarging.

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Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

MrMatt.. I apologize if I offended you. My intention wasn't that all and I appreciate you reading my reports. I'll explain to you my definition of pick up. For me..it's understanding social interactions in a way that you can turn situations in your advantage. Picking up yes it is the art of seducing women..you know what would turn off a woman or make her more attracted to you and to be honest. I'm not in pick up to fuck girls! Really...so many other areas of my life have changed. First of all,I would like to state I was never a nerd or someone with no friends..I've always been really popular surrounded by good people and great friends. But since I started sarging..I discovered mindsets that I didn't knew before. I discovered that failing is really nothing bad at all..before I used to get so mad and pissed on little things that made no sense..and realy just this little small detail makes you live life so much better.

I believe in self-improvement

My main goal in this? It's actually having the tools and skills that when a girl that is my perfect type passes by in the street or anywhere else, cofee shop, mall, club..that I can engage her and see her later on to either have a relationship or have some fun. I just want to be the guy with balls who doesnt just wait around with his friends saying "Oh look at her I would so tap that ass" I want to be the guy who says that and actually does it.

And yes, lately I'm not following any method at all..I just try to engage and discover what style fits me better on my own..I learn from my own mistakes and try to improve every time. I don't even think in terms of theory..I just go out there and as you said..not hinking makes you much more relieved. In the last field reports..I seriously didn't though of anything before I opened the set..I improvised on the spot even my openers. Also, I strongly believe I can get this skill because during my entire life I really attracted so many girls after me..it pissed me off that I just sometimes let other things get in my way and not be able to close all of them..but things are changed now..and believe me..I'm the last guy of giving up. You will see this journal go for a longggg time trust my word! With that being said..peace out and I hope I meet you one day man we live close enough to see each other!

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Hahaha your finally doing what I told you to do months ago... lmfao seriously read what your responses were to my shit long time ago... you hav changed I can tell you that 100%... I getting bored of this site, I like to chat to a few friends, you included, but like I said then its not about a style or system that someone else created, its what you make of your own scenario. Styles became styles because he created his own style from his learnings.

Seriously bro I can tell your dedicated as fuck, take on a newbie trust me it will help you. Just look at someone and you can tell he needs the help, why not help him.

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Members: Valentyn, T_Rex, Froggy & "Steve"

Location: Café Campus

Sets: 6


NORMAL NIGHT

It's been a long time since T_Rex hadn't come out with us and I enjoyed being with him because he's also my best buddy. First of all I want to state that Valentyn is taking a different approach to pick up..I dismissed all the rules that I learned until now and I'm really creating my own style of pick up. I try different things and I'm creating my method by what works/what doesn't work for me. Of course I use a lot of principles of attraction and all..but I'm just not following step by step any method. AFC Adam inspired me to do this. Anyway, tonight wasn't really a bad night because the more I game..the more I'm capable of disociating my self from responses girls give me. Tonight the outcome mattered even less than usually for me. This is key to inner game..which in my opinion is key to picking up.

Like we had discussed, its quite simply the key to living a happy and fulfilling lifestyle. Your approaches are no longer automated, and they no longer serve a superficial purpose. Your approaches are more natural and come from a genuine curiosity in other people. Good work mate.


Set #1: I'm with T_Rex at the bar and I see a 2 set near us. They're really low energy and look bored so I go in with "cheating girlfriend". We talk about the subject..but her friend looked pissed that I wasn't engaging her. Music is way too loud I couldn't. I tried transitioning but my girl didn't responded that good. Her level of interest was normal. I give a non verbal FTC to disqualify and start talking to T_Rex..after 30 seconds I re-engage in order to go a little further but again..she was way too bored and my transition wasn't really good. I eject without even saying good bye



Set #2: I'm again with my dinosaur at the bar and I see a HB at my right. To sound authentic I always talk with my wingman about the subject I'll open. So I yell "Bro what should I buy I want to try something new" Than I turn to my target and open with "Hey I'm trying to figure out what drink to buy..do you have any idea of something good?" She engages me right off the bat in a great way. It takes me 2.5 seconds to notice her level of interest in me is high. She says "Buy a pussy juice shot" I go "What? What's that" she says: "That's pussy juice" I'm like "No really is it like a shot?" She says "No it's pussy...juice!". It's been 30 seconds that we're talking and she's already sexualizing the encounter..I'm in. We talk for a minute and after I did a really nice move that I thought on the spot. She was looking away for a moment so I quickly brush something off her shoulder for like 3 seconds. She turns to me and says: what? I go "Nahh don't worry you had lint on your shoulder I just removed it" T_Rex started laughing because my authenticity was really good lol! After I said that she immediately gives me IOI of flcking of the hair. I then say "Hey don't be mean and introduce yourself..your talking to me without saying your name" We exchange names and I shake her hand and when we are supposed to let go..I just keep my hand on hers and I don't let go. 60 year challenge is gold..we just kept talking with our hands continously shaking for a long time lol. She then says "Would you be my valentine for valentine's day?" (in a fun way) I go: "Listen I would love to but you have to show me you're a good girl tonight!" She smiles and then 8 or 10 girls come around her yelling and shit. I shoud've negged her to introduce me..but there were way too many girls..we said we will see eachother and talk later. Here's the fucking problem and I'm tired of this shit happening to me.. I didn't find her afterwards. This has happened so many times to me..I'm getting sicked of this scenario seriously..what can I say..next time if we seperate..I will re-open in 5 minutes..I must not wait more than 10 minutes because after that it's almost impossible.

Why the fuck do you eject? Your tired of losing sets... then stop ejecting uselessly. Its like getting in the car with the intention of going to the supermarket and pulling over half way through... GO TO THE FUCKING SUPERMARKET (thats code for closing btw). Why undertake something if you wont go all the way?

Set #3: I see 1 fucking hot HB sitting down and her friend dancing near her. I started to think about excuses to not approach and then I remember that the outcome doesn't matter. I approach with "Hey guys you look really friendly..I had to come say hello" Bad response...she said: "Really? Ok cool" Than she turned her back to me..I don't know if I coud've done something..maybe neg? Anyway I don't have time to waste so I eject

You couldve also pulled a really sick magic trick! lol does it really matter mate? Once you are centered in your own reality, there will be very little sets that are closed to you, but it takes work, and it takes time. Dont stress over shit you cant control.

Set #4: I'm alone looking for my wingmen and 2 HB's come near me. Proximity Alert because they just stayed near me with their cellphones in their hand. I give a tap on the shoulder to one of them. She looks at me. I wave at her without saying anything. She says "Hey!" Yep..opening is not a skill..I never opened without even saying something..I was surprised I did that. I then say: "Fuck I lost my friends!" She says: "Us too! We can't find them" We talk for a little bit more..I multiple-thread quicly in "cheating girlfriend" Again her friend looked pissed for me not talking to her but music way too loud.. so I'm almost transitioning for exchanging names..when Froggy jumps in my set between me and my target yelling :" Heyyy" having a loser near him looking drunk. Both targets ejected after 3 sec he did that.. dude..please do not enter my sets without permission man..I beg you!

Actually, keep entering his sets without permission. Life will never give you what you want on a silver platter. Be prepared to deal with anything.

Set #5: I want to try something new and I see a girl alone standing against the wall. I go in with: "Hey I know this sounds random but my friend gave me this challenge for today..I have to get at least a hug from a really adorable girl" She looks at me and than gives me a big hug. This is a great way to even build compliance momentum.. I talk for 10 seconds afterwards and I see she is nott good looking I'm like fuck lol Eject

Set #6: Again I wanted to try something I never did before..so I approached my first mix set by approaching the big AMOG of the group. I go in with "Hey man where did you bought your watch? I can't seem to find good ones in stores" He engages me but looks really pissed and he just brushes me off quickly. I eject the set

Those are my sets..I also had fun with my boys and I gave a lot of advice to what Froggy was doing in his sets. His common problem is showing too much interest

Keep pushing your boundaries mate, its very good!

Current Sticking Point Closing - it's not really that I can't close..it's just I'm losing opportunities when we tell each other to talk later in the night.

Solution. I'm going to re-engage really fast..after 2min-5min I'm re-opening my set and closing her ass

I have a better solution... wait for it... STOP LEAVING YOUR SETS. I dont give a shit why, just stop. When your game will be sick and youll have to juggle two or three sets at once, then you Ill accept your excuse, til then STOP.

Just started gaming a hot girl in my college classes that I opened..her level of interest towards me is sky rocked! IOI's through the roof.. and I already heard friends saying she finds me attractive. I'm gaming her ass starting today.

You better not post on this board until you get her fkn number. IOIs through the roof? WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

TheMack[/b]

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The_Mack Thanks for taking your time to help me. It means a lot to me to have feedback from someone who actually has real skill and doesn't just talk bullshit. So far, your advice is gold! Keep going and good luck in life

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Date: 4 february 2012

Memers: Valentyn, Froggy & T_Rex

Location: Diable Vert


BAD NIGHT

I haven't had a bad night like this since long time ago. I don't even want to write this FR but I will. We first don't know to what field to go so we were kind of a last minute decision to go to this Diable Vert club-bar. There wern't many people..but the girls were hot. I have to be honest..I got intimaded by their looks which I know is bad..but it's something hard to just forget about looks when your talking to a girl you would fuck the shit of..

So basically, I didn't stayed in sets more than 1min30 sec..what the fuck..my mind was just blank. This didn't happened to me since really long time ago but I just went fucking blank all of a sudden. I had trouble transitioning and the openers got all my targets interest really well..they smiled or played along. I know I shoud've just fucking stayed in the sets and not eject..usually I don't eject it's either them or if some friends take them away. But the girls were hot and it just..when my mind went blank..I just felt pressure on me and then I'm waking up that I ejected. I don't know what to say man..I'm trying to see this night as something positive..the only good thing is that I approached just hot girls..it took me more time to decide to approach but at least I did. That's the only thing I'm glad I made..anyway..keeping my head up. Peace out!

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