Hello gents,

I needed to ask you all a question. A friend of mine hookedup with this guy she was into it. She said that when they were together he asked if they could take off the condom, to which she replied no. He then proceeded to take it off when he thought she didn't notice. She asked him what happened to it, and he told her that it must have came off.

That has never happened to me, luckily, and I don't know how common that is, but she and I both thought that was messed up.

I'm just curious, have any of you guys done that, or know someone who has? if you have would you KNOW that it's uncool and wrong? or would you think it was ok? would you feel guilty?

generally, when you pull a d0uche move on a girl, what is the feeling afterwards?
I'm still in disbelief about his guy

when i do a neg that make a girl feel like shit instead of just joking around or when i tell a girl its over i feel like a douche and guilty but thats part of the game u make mistakes and u break hearts but i would never do anything so fucked up like that but there are guys and even girls who drug their dates put holes in condoms and lie about being on birth control their are just some evil people out there that guy is a complete ass who doesnt care about your friend or her future hes an idiote

Taking a condom off like that is just wrong, but did girls ever stop to think that if they stopped going for douchebag bully bad boys, guess what - guys would stop being douchebag bad boys! Girls bring it on themselves and deserve it for being so ridiculously snobby about social status and social skills.

Serious question girls: why can't you just be friendly and nice and go for friendly nice normal guys, are you freakin allergic to friendly normal people or something?! Just because they're not superstars they're human and still need sex!

That is not cool and anyone even thinking about doing it is not worth my respect. What an idiot.

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You have no idea what the girl the OP refers to is like. Don't be so quick to judge just because those "d-bags" are getting laid and you aren't. Half the time the guys aren't that bad, but kids who can't see their own faults just insult everyone else to justify their being alone.

Well it's quite simple really: if I wanted to avoid fat girls I would go for skinny girls. So if girls genuinely wanted to avoid douchebags (who can usually be recognised by how loud, confident and cocky they are), all they have to do is go for quiet shy guys instead, but oh no they're allergic to sweet shy guys aren't they! So they get what's coming to them!

So no, guys don't feel guilty for being douchebags, because that seems to be exactly what girls want!

Do girls feel guilty for callously rejecting nervous shy geeky guys and consigning them to the scrapheap just because they're not lucky enough to be blessed with superb social skills and massive amounts of confidence and popularity? Didn't think so!

I just registered here because of the stupidity of this post. Seriously, it's like you don't even get the basics of social dynamics between men and women.
What sweet guys are you talking about? The ones who never stand up to themselves and are more likely to cry than try and pick up a girl?
Do you really complain about why girls naturally won't go for weak links in our society and prefer someone who has power in form of popularity, body or wealth? To hell, most of those "nervous shy geeky guys" are idiots themselves who stuff their brain with lots of unimportant stuff while they completely forget what the cock between their legs is for.

I hear stuff like yours every single fucking day, and it creeps me out how people like you cling to the believe that it's the womens fault you don't get laid. Or your shy, geeky friends, I don't know.

It's like going to the supermarket and complain why the groceries aren't magically flowing into your cart. Dude, the groceries don't flow into the cart. The douchebags pick them out of the shelves and put them into their carts. It's that simple; now go and work on your frustration.


And on the whole, completely unnecessary topic:
I don't feel guilty when it helps me to advance.
I feel guilty when I think I made a serious mistake like cockblocking myself.

Dan you're losing it completely. Your posts are getting more and more negative every time. I'd suggest you start looking for your failure within yourself. People who point at others while making excuses for themselves usually don't get anywhere.

Bro, you should tell that chick to go to the docs, if this guy does it with her, whose to say he hasn't done it with other girls, who might have actually had chlamydia or some other STD.

That kid is fucked up though. I'm surprised he hasn't raped someone, or at least a victim hasn't gone public. Flat out said No! and he still did it. Just saying.

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Well for me it just seems to entail girls ignoring me because I'm evidently not good enough for them. And then I see all the spoilt tall pretty-boys on this site whining "Ooh this girl keeps staring at me, do you think she likes me, how should I go and game her?"

It basically works like this: girl selects a tall pretty-boy she thinks is good enough for her and stares at him until he notices that she's interested in him. Then the guy walks over to her, says hi and they talk for a bit. Then they kiss and have sex. It's pathetically simple, if the girl stares at you, she likes you and bingo, you've pulled.

Now, where's the girl who's staring at me? Oh wait, apparently I'm not allowed to enjoy being lusted after - maybe that's what has caused my depression, hmm...
I mean sweet romantic guys who aren't bullies and are nice and friendly to people. What's wrong with them eh girls? It's not their fault they're not confident smooth-talking alpha males, so why do snobby girls have to constantly punish them by rejecting them?
Strange, I thought girls were supposed to be kind, generous, sympathetic, charitable, caring people who had consciences and actually cared about their fellow human beings. :S Wouldn't they love to save a depressed guy from suicide? And what better way to do that than by taking his virginity by giving him some pity sex to repair his broken self-esteem? Or are they just evil selfish cunts intent on destroying inferior guys and going crazy over tall handsome bad boys?

They didn't forget what their cocks are for, snobby girls just won't let them use it! Ooh aren't you lucky that genetics blessed you with good looks and smooth smart-arse social skills and that you didn't have your confidence utterly destroyed by bullying and girls ignoring you? Spare a thought for hopeless losers like me eh?
Well they reject me by ignoring me, and could get with me at the click of their fingers, so it's clearly their decision and hence their fault. Or maybe it's my fault for being a useless fucktard, sadly I don't see any way out of that though
All I ask is that girls like me and stare at me to invite me to approach them, just like all the lucky guys on here get all the time.
I wonder how you'd cope if you were constantly cockblocked by every girl ignoring you!
Losing what? I have nothing in this useless torture called 'life'. The failure in myself is that girls don't like me.

Dude, you are aware that only 13.1 percent of men over the age of 22 are virgins right? I don't know if you could consider 87% of the male population lucky? That just sounds like a poor excuse for being pathetic

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The failure in yourself is you being unable to look at yourself in a proper way. The only correct self-analysis you've made is you're going through a serious depression. I hope you work your way out of your own head because every day you're getting further away from ever getting laid (or more importantly enjoying life).

haha, i love how this thread when completely off-tangent

Basically, to clarify on some of the stuff I've read: my friend isn't into jerks. I know the guy too and I didn't think he was a d0uchebag and I was shocked when she told me this. He actually comes off nice, but self-absorbed. But most of the time he comes off like a genuinely nice guy.

But now I find myself scrutinizing him a lot more. She said he hasn't apologized and she doesn't know what to do. She doesn't think bringing it up to him will make much of a difference.

good point. i think she already said she's going to do that.
still don't get why ANYone would do that but i guess what you're saying is true.


follow up question: so the NICE guys who are bastards: do THEY feel guilty and know when they're being bastards?

I want to make a change, I just don't know how. You all ignore my questions. :S

Well I obviously am weak and pathetic if I can't manage to trick a decent-looking girl into wanting to fuck me and love me!
Unfortunately the only way I can see myself getting out of my depression is by a decent-looking girl wanting to have sex with me. That would cure me instantly, but oh no, apparently that's too much to ask, all I get is the occasional super-ugly/obese girl who's probably just 'attracted' to any man who talks to her.

Why can't pretty girls just give pity-sex to cure depressed people?! Would that really be so damn hard?! I'd have sex with an ugly fat girl if she really begged me to, if it would cure her depression, even if I could also get pretty girls! Pretty girls have plenty of time for both attractive-guy-sex (their real sex life) and pity-sex (their charity contribution)! Girls are meant to be sweet, kind, caring, generous and charitable, surely they'd want to save the lives of depressed people? :S
Wow lucky them. Well I'm 25 so I guess that statistic makes me even more of a pathetic loser eh!