I will definitely use this, but my only comment is a lot of people will do this then have nothing else to say... I think if you do this also post what you follow up with that way others can see.

Remember the whole point of texting is to get a date so always make that your goal when you send this message. Meaning create some attraction (this message plus a couple more) then if needed some comfort then bam tell her you plan on going to a bar/club/party that weekend and she should join you.

**If you wish to elaborate on the above please do so, that way I can even learn more:p**

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says who?? you? some guru?

I personally disagree.

The whole point of meeting a girl isnt just to get sex (the end result)

So I think texting can definitely be used to simply have fun also!

Each to their own.. Sure some people only use it to be specific about dates, when & where...

But cmon... Young girls these days are ALWAYS on their phones, so alot of plain, simple, fun can be had just through texting without always aiming for a date.

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awesome

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Mate no reason for such a harsh reply. Second when did I state sex is the goal its a date. Sometimes people actually join this community to find the one and not just to get a score under the bed post.

Yes you are right it is healthy to have some fun banter, but why are you talking to an HB9 and sending this, as an attempt to getting her on a date, or do you just wish to chat with someone. If so just stay in the LJBF n make it a point and then have a good friend. I do that all the time, for both having a new friend and so she can hook me up with her friends. Point is, majority of the time a guy (and this is my opinion) on this site texts a girl is to get her to go on a date, so I was just trying to help by saying, remember your goal is to get a date not chat her up and ask how her day was.

I dont even think I am close to a mpua or guru haha, I was just giving my two cents, and I even said "**If you wish to elaborate on the above please do so, that way I can even learn more:p**"

I mean come on what more does that say then I might be wrong and would love to learn more on it.

What ever no need to bicker, awesome reply, and I will definitely tell you my responses tmrw when I do them on both texting and facebook.

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ok and post what you follow it up with =)

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Flipin heck........ I used this on a girl mate of mine who has just accused me of wanting to take our friendship into something more. Telling me to be straight up if that is the case.

Two other girls responses were:

1) I'm partial to the fruity kind, but my all time fav would have to be the Caipirinha

2) OMG ahaha sorry I don't drink! what an egg

I varied it up with favorite cocktail, and a few haven't responded at all. Interesting too see what the rest of you get with this one.

I used this and somehow ended up talking about relationships for two hours and I couldn't get off the topic

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I am doing this but alternating the final sentence to say "Do you think we could ever be more than just friends? Perhaps boyfriend/girlfriend?" What do you think?


HAHAHAHAHAH Just kidding, i'm not an idiot. I am trying the original version though and will let you know how it goes.

I think for some people this needs HEAVY rewrites and personalization.. I'm 24 and I received that text when I was 14/15.. So be careful. It's been around.

I will now ask 15 or more girls on facebook. The girls will be in such categories.

Never spoken to, spoke once or a few times, or really good friends.

Will edit this and give my reports wish me luck If i get positive I will continue and even try and get a date close then I will post the shit

3 Girls responded

1 of each categories. The one I never speak to I actually have a date in progress. She was really busy this week so were makin it later.
convo
her: coke

Me:I think I am going to go with lemonade but thanks
Her:lmfao ur welcome.
Me:it was a very crucial decision some would even say life and death
Her:coke's my life. i'm addicted & obsessed so it's an easy decision for me.
Me:so if I ever took you out
and specifically the pepsi factory
you would hate it immediately
Her:pepsi isn't as good as coke
but it's similar. so i wouldn't hate it
make do with what you have
Me:I dont know its debatable
Nice philosophy arent you optimistic
Her:lol more like the complete opposite if you really got to know me.
Me:So its settled
were going to grab a drink
and specifically pepsi for you
and ill take a coke
or dr pepper cause that trumps both
Her: ew i hate dr. pepper
coke beats all.
Me:right well ur going to have to tell me about it later this week --- this is me asking her out
her: haha kks -----although this doesnt seem like an actual yes, after this we just started discussing the day we will go out for a nice date we will do it this weekend I probably will cancel tomorrow I have no real interest just for the sake of testing

Convo

Tried to change it up a bit I again disagreed next one I will post will be an agreeing.

Opener
Her: hhahahahaha, I like lemonade
Me: Do you now, cause I actually got a coke, I guess we would never work as a couple.
Her: Awe. You are breaking my heart Michael
Me: I'm sorry babe it's not me its you

I will continue this conversation and tell you if I close she lives in Cali now so I don't think so.

Convo

Short convo and I agreed I didn't reply back cause I was busy haha sorry experiment I will rekindle this one soon.

Opener

HerLemonade weirdo

Me:duh
what I was getting
who do u think I am

Her: a weirdo... duh

I decided to just send her a message now

me: Am I? I mean fucking insane, mental, crazy, no regrets yes, but weird, I think we might have to talk about this later.

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I've used this on 1 of my friends and she laughed. Then I used it on a flirt, she laughed and then showed a lot of interest. And then I used it on a HB8 I don't know and haven't spoke to. she now says I'm funny and that she already loves me.

Used this on some girls and got funny responses. This is what stood out to me:

I asked her to pick between coke or lemonade and she picked wine

Her: hahaha I have to say wine! good to hear from you ****!!!!

Me: I originally picked coke but if you really wanna go the alcoholic way, I'm gonna have to say jagerbomb (this girl loves jagerbomb) A couple more questions: favourite day; Friday or Saturday?

Her: Saturday!

Me: Fave time; 9 or 10?

Her: Jacks is good too though! You can veer that way if you stop with red bull!
AM or PM? Who am I kidding... 10pm!

Me: PM does sound good. But wine on a saturday at 10pm sounds better

Her: Precisely! lol


I actually didn't end up going out with her. How would you guys have handled this? I think I may have rushed it.

I did this with a text a few months ago and it worked perfectly. I'd been texting this girl for a few days after meeting her at a uni party, then on the day we were both going to the same party I text her saying,

Me: "I need to ask you a serious question x"

Her: "What is it? x"

Me: "It's really important and your answer could change everything x"

Her: "Ooo really? What is it?! x"

Me: "You sure you want to answer it. Its really important? x"

Her: "Yeah I think I do, I'm nervous now x"

Me: "Ok then here goes...........................


Who do you prefer Sublime or NOFX? :p lol x"

Her: "Haha you had me thinking it was gonna be well serious then, erm i'd have to go with Sublime love them :p xx"


We'd already talked about our favourite bands before and I knew those two were hers but I used it to try and create a rush during a normal conversation a few hours before we were going to meet at a party. Needless to say I ended up getting laid that night. It's a great move and well worth doing. Using more than one text makes it even better aswell, that conversation lasted about 10 mins, with her texting back quicker each time. Try it!!!

Works magic man

Hahaha, great txt Dude!

I was waiting for a girl to come back to me and confirm a potential date.

After sending her the text, just changed the ending (Pepsi or Coke) and some words here and there, she answered immediately!

And after a few seconds she followed up confirming the date

I think this text works perfectly with girls that put on a bitch shield and play hard to get... the ones that don't pick up the phone if u call them or text u back the day after. In this scenario the girl is like wow fuck another mosquito that I'll have to squash my god he's creepy, I just met him and look at the sand castles he's building, oh no... wait! fuck he got me! ahahaha

Rock on!