| to be honest I have found that girls that talk about having a boyfriend, or being sexually interested in others guys, usually are not at all interested in you, and asd has little to do with getting this objections off escalation, do something incongruent after being indirect and remove the probable deniablilty and the incongruence will be tested, simple as that, if you don't escalate smoothly so that you remain congruent, the congruence gets tested, you can start full blast, some girls will blow you out easier for it depending on how attracted to you they are, but what is important is that no matter what happens, you stay in your reality, what she thinks and wants is not as important as what you think and want, there is no point in having the mind set you have, pay attention to social cues and what is being said and done and use your common sense, but other then that, what you say should always be the right thing to say, there is no right thing from her end, say something that doesn't go over well, look at her like she is stupid and test her congruence, be more confident then her that you are the cooler person of the two, you don't have to agrue with her or prove points to do this, just be sure of what you know, you don't have to prove anything to her, nothing said is a big deal they are just words, if she tries to make a big deal of them, challenge her reality and see how congruent and sure of herself she is in respect to her reality, most girls... not very sure of themselves and easily fall in line to follow, it is their nature, and right now you are on the path of following, rather then leading
so after that big long essay, lets get to your question, and give you a stalk answer
what do you say when a girl says I have a boyfriend?
well what do you want to say...
cool, does he know you break my heart every time you bring him up?
there are a fuckkilllion more stupid boyfriend one liners, and I think they are stupid cause why you would even want to fuck a girl with a boyfriend is beyond me when there are so many single girls out there, on top of that if she doesn't have one it is a clear sign of dis-interest,
and then you could also just not even address this issue and change the subject
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