i have a boyfriend, but hes gone for a while?



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 20, 2012 4:27 am 
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They talk nonstop about their boyfriend who is in jail and they are waiting for him because they think he will be reformed when he gets out. Its a false sense of hope.. usually these are GOOD girls not the dope smoking losers nobody cares about.. these types of girls always seem to show iois to me but i dont know what to tell them.. is there any guides that cover this area? they always get asd when i call them out on the iois or try to advance.. this also applies to boyfriends in the armed services.. which doesnt make me want to fuck them any less.. sorry boys no disrespect. Oh. And i have quite a few female friends with "jailbird boyfriends" and they always fuck other guys and when they cry to me i tell them that i dont feel symapthy for them.they are still my friend and respect me for being honest, which is okay to me. I can have female friends that give me boners. Some guys cant. But anyways which is the most effective comeback to i have boyfriend? Would it be "my hirlfriend does too, do you want two, thats okay with me, ask them where he is at, i have a goldfish..?


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 20, 2012 9:11 am 
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Her:"My bf is in jail, I can't wait for him to get out"
Me:"Oh, you're one of those..."
or simply put your hand over your face and shake your head while letting out a sigh. As though you are either disappointed or dumbfounded by her foolishness.

For the record you are treading thin ice though. In jail they call guy like you Joe Grinder. I don't know why the term. Those military boys might come back from war and go ape shit on ya. lol


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 20, 2012 9:33 am 
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to be honest I have found that girls that talk about having a boyfriend, or being sexually interested in others guys, usually are not at all interested in you, and asd has little to do with getting this objections off escalation, do something incongruent after being indirect and remove the probable deniablilty and the incongruence will be tested, simple as that, if you don't escalate smoothly so that you remain congruent, the congruence gets tested, you can start full blast, some girls will blow you out easier for it depending on how attracted to you they are, but what is important is that no matter what happens, you stay in your reality, what she thinks and wants is not as important as what you think and want, there is no point in having the mind set you have, pay attention to social cues and what is being said and done and use your common sense, but other then that, what you say should always be the right thing to say, there is no right thing from her end, say something that doesn't go over well, look at her like she is stupid and test her congruence, be more confident then her that you are the cooler person of the two, you don't have to agrue with her or prove points to do this, just be sure of what you know, you don't have to prove anything to her, nothing said is a big deal they are just words, if she tries to make a big deal of them, challenge her reality and see how congruent and sure of herself she is in respect to her reality, most girls... not very sure of themselves and easily fall in line to follow, it is their nature, and right now you are on the path of following, rather then leading

so after that big long essay, lets get to your question, and give you a stalk answer

what do you say when a girl says I have a boyfriend?
well what do you want to say...

cool, does he know you break my heart every time you bring him up?

there are a fuckkilllion more stupid boyfriend one liners, and I think they are stupid cause why you would even want to fuck a girl with a boyfriend is beyond me when there are so many single girls out there, on top of that if she doesn't have one it is a clear sign of dis-interest,

and then you could also just not even address this issue and change the subject


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 20, 2012 2:40 pm 
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The best boyfriends are the ones that are never around or so it seems


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 22, 2012 2:02 am 
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I tried boyfriend destroyers and one liners for a while, it just didn't seem effective. I mean they worked at times, but it was similar to "direct game" in the sense that she had to make an "instant" decision about me. It didn't give me a chance to create MORE attraction first and just let the guilt of a preceding relationship fizzle away.

So now, I just say

"Oh...I guess I technically have a girlfriend..."

I'll usually get a laugh out of them, and then I game regularly from there. It let's me casually brush it off, convey a bit of pre-selection, and to let her know that I'm not thrown off by her jailbird hymns. 90% of girls who complain about their boyfriends being in jail are advertising their own sexual market value *Yah, I date a guy in jail..he's tough* I don't even get it, what's so tough about taking it up the ass and occasionally having to toss a salad or two?

But on a side note, I've learned it's a bad to game girls with ex-boyfriends either in jail or in the army.

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 22, 2012 6:57 am 
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.....But on a side note, I've learned it's a bad to game girls with ex-boyfriends either in jail or in the army.
Lol ! Seems like someone had to take it up their Ass ! :lol:


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