So assuming you got this chick's number, but you also see her pretty often. Do you text at all? Or keep all gaming in-person?

Don't text unless you have to or you have something that is *really* worth texting about.

Only text if you are planning on making a date, pretty much if you have plans for the weekend invite her to it.

Example:

Hey stephanie, a couple of friends and I are going to a bar, you should come and bring some friends. We want to have a table.

Something of that variation. But start the text cutsey flirtsy, then lead into this.

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Game in person. There is no 'text game'. its bullshit. You got her number, that is great to aks her to hook up somewhere. And i would do that by calling her. Not texting.

Also, dont try to convey that you are the most funny man in the world through your texts (if you are compelled to text her). Just plain dry, perhaps one little pointer to something you did together, you know, or the 'inside joke', but not all to fancy. it is a text. nothing more.

cheers

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Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

You do both so she feels you're a regular part of her life. Don't intiate her all the time with texts, however, use it to your advantage and be a bit aloof/slow to respond sometimes to keep her wondering.

My text game is pretty decent, but I usually use text for chicks that I don't see regularly. This chick is basically from my course at uni, which I see pretty often so it's whether I keep attracting/comfort etc in person, or whether i shoul drop a text every now and then (more comfort I was thinking) which anyway will all lead to asking her to hang out with some friends of mine sometime soon (soon as in whenever I feel she's ready)

Apologies as my question has probably been answered above, but I just want to clarify...

Are you guys saying that if you meet a girl somewhere and get her number.,. that the follow up should be a call and not a text?...

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what 'text game'?
This i find disturbing. People you see regulary should be gamed in person. Leave her alone when you dont see her. I believe that it wil harm your comfort if you 'drop a line' every once and a while. it is a general rule in seduction that too much aint good for attraction. you would become ever present, there would be no more room for the things that should go on in her mind. If you play it well, there she should experience anticipation to see/hear from you, which will fade if you start texting or giving phone calls.

And also, in my eyes, i would see it a something you are compelled to do, the texting. Like you have no faith that your magic is working when you see her. Like you need a reply from her, so you would feel good.

i would advice not to text this one.

cheers!

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Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

I get the point you are trying to make. What I meant with text game was basically how to use texts on chicks I don't/wouldn't see often to keep her interested/arrange meet-ups, etc. (following guidelines from The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game, B4 U TXT HER)

However as stated this is a different situation as I see this chick on a regular basis and hence why I needed some clarification on wether or not to initiate 'text gaming' (or so called in the above books) or whether to keep it plainly in-person.

Aah, sorry, i understand.

on your last question: as stated in the second post, i would keep it only in-person. For the reason that it might be too much. But that is ofc my opinion.

To cunning_stunt: i hate texting. If i hb would give me her number, 90% of the times, i ll call her. i would only text when calling would be inappropriate.

cheers!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

I do believe text game exists, but it's just like facetime game. All you're doing is being sexual, so you sext. That's pretty much text game. Example:

"I want to eat you out." That's text game. I've used that same line just yesterday.

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I read a really interesting post recently. This guy was talking about a slight adjustment he had made to his game that was really saving him.

He had good in person game, and could have sex with or kiss girls. But after the second or third date, they would stop wanting to see him.

He adjusted to being less available, to saying he was busy often and offering a low-contact relationship. And suddenly he was being swarmed with girls that were obsessed with him.

I text a little, I've noticed girls flake less if they're more invested in texting you, but it needs to be flirty, always with a touch of sexuality. If it doesn't have that spark, just say you're busy and go. It's always better to be busy than wasting your time chatting about the weather.

Very funny line to read simply because I am not that forward. What I am getting at to cut it short, is not everyone is as forward or "caveman" as you, and people (not directed at you chris) you have to make your texting congruent with your facegame-personality or they might think your bipolar or will call you out on that shit it has happened to me before.

So if you are very forward like chris then be like that in your texting, if your a calm relaxed person, and use a different method to daygame/night game then follow that. Any comments on this would be appreciative so we can "crack" this theory down.

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I much prefer humour than your approach which some women will find tactless.

Example:

"Feel like eating out...>;), you available?"

Exactly what I meant by having a 'decent text game'. As pointed out in those books in a nutshell:
a) vary time in between answering messages (sometimes I even may take 5-6 hours to answering a text, even if it's not done on purpose)
b) of course dont be needy texting every day, etc. etc.
c) keep it light, playful, and of course not boring (which 'most men' dont do and bore women with the "how are you doing? how was your day? etc. questions")

I was basically thinking of 'texting while seeing a girl regularly' more like pinging, than having a conversation going on (attraction/comfort should come from in-person, but if could be achieved thru a few texts, then that's good as well)