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PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 2:46 am 
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The truth is I dont think any one can tell you your opinion is wrong and thats it final. Simply because the whole point of this forum is to share your opinions to help others. Even if 99.99% find it false that .01 might use it and help him score.

So just remember life aint a picnic you wont always be liked, trust me at times I want to punch you in the face, but I still would never ban you, you are a part of the forum, your just that brother everyone kicks the shit out for no reason. We still "love" you... "like" you... ok we just "recognize" your presence... :p

All seriousness dont quit cause some people are a bit pushy, just make your point, and if people disagree fuck it, like a PUA would say its just beta to argue and make yourself look stupid, anyways who are you trying to get attention from us or the chicks that suck your dick?

There job is to moderate -which means to keep in reasonable or proper limits. They just need to make sure this shit runs right, so yea. Hope that helps. Don't leave and be a lil pussy, make ur balls drop and well be okay!


Also DJ I tried looking for that definition in webster wasnt there, hahaha mad funny though just laughed a good minute.... Clearly 40yrov u pissed off some people, and you stole a name from a really good movie, id say cool down a bit with posts, even make a new account n start fresh. Just chill n forget about the drama we aint 8th grade girls we are men who need to get some pussy

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The truth is I dont think any one can tell you your opinion is wrong and thats it final. Simply because the whole point of this forum is to share your opinions to help others. Even if 99.99% find it false that .01 might use it and help him score.

So just remember life aint a picnic you wont always be liked, trust me at times I want to punch you in the face, but I still would never ban you, you are a part of the forum, your just that brother everyone kicks the shit out for no reason. We still "love" you... "like" you... ok we just "recognize" your presence... :p

All seriousness dont quit cause some people are a bit pushy, just make your point, and if people disagree fuck it, like a PUA would say its just beta to argue and make yourself look stupid, anyways who are you trying to get attention from us or the chicks that suck your dick?

There job is to moderate -which means to keep in reasonable or proper limits. They just need to make sure this shit runs right, so yea. Hope that helps. Don't leave and be a lil pussy, make ur balls drop and well be okay!


Also DJ I tried looking for that definition in webster wasnt there, hahaha mad funny though just laughed a good minute.... Clearly 40yrov u pissed off some people, and you stole a name from a really good movie, id say cool down a bit with posts, even make a new account n start fresh. Just chill n forget about the drama we aint 8th grade girls we are men who need to get some pussy
U make an whole lot of sense really, i'd listen to you above some of these "pros"

far as the name, u know when u first sign up, u dont think u are going to hang around a long time. I signed up to ask a few questions and give some insight to life as I see it. Then I figured i;m online anyway, how much effort does it take to log in here.

exactly, most people wont like u for any reason they can find, if its not one thing it's another.


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U are just a coward anyway, u wait until a thread is locked or when somebody else is on your side before you talk shit.

Typical pussy who cant get any.

I got messages from supporters so just blow it out your a hole.
I don't want to reply to but I guess you are pushing some of my buttons.

First off, once a thread is locked no one can post replies. lol

I have some one by my side? Possibly your ex wife but thats it. I only write responses to you cause you fight with people like you are 17 years old. You crave to be disliked? Maybe your father didn't pay enough attention to you as a child?


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As I am a moderator on over 3+ tech based forums I can tell you that a moderators job varies based on the site.

On a site like this? They SHOULD be here to OFFER advice, and make sure no one is breaking any of the main Toa's.
Now I've been browsing this site for months on a friends account before making my own. But I have noticed the moderators are a little bit pushy on this site.

But you can't expect a forum as such to be like most other forums, mainly because this forum is not based around the same material as many.
It's based around strong opinions on potentially life changing subjects.
So if they feel that they should be a little pushy to possibly help someone in the long run then I see nothing wrong with that.

Not taking any sides of course.

Have a nice day gents.

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U are just a coward anyway, u wait until a thread is locked or when somebody else is on your side before you talk shit.

Typical pussy who cant get any.

I got messages from supporters so just blow it out your a hole.
I don't want to reply to but I guess you are pushing some of my buttons.

First off, once a thread is locked no one can post replies. lol

I have some one by my side? Possibly your ex wife but thats it. I only write responses to you cause you fight with people like you are 17 years old. You crave to be disliked? Maybe your father didn't pay enough attention to you as a child?
If somebody is 17 here, they shouldnt be. And most guys here dont show what their age is. But if your old enough to drink, and talk smack, and not care how old anyone else is (I havent seen one person actually give a shit that I was older than they were in terms of respect). I assume most are 21 and over, and I know there are guys in their 30's.

If u are 17, I appologize, I simply wont talk u no more, u already know everything anyway.

But nice try, u are still a lamer.


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As I am a moderator on over 3+ tech based forums I can tell you that a moderators job varies based on the site.

On a site like this? They SHOULD be here to OFFER advice, and make sure no one is breaking any of the main Toa's.
Now I've been browsing this site for months on a friends account before making my own. But I have noticed the moderators are a little bit pushy on this site.

But you can't expect a forum as such to be like most other forums, mainly because this forum is not based around the same material as many.
It's based around strong opinions on potentially life changing subjects.
So if they feel that they should be a little pushy to possibly help someone in the long run then I see nothing wrong with that.

Not taking any sides of course.

Have a nice day gents.
I agree with nearly 90 percent of what u wrote, the part where I differ is the importance of the content here. Guys have been trying to pick up chicks since day 1, a fourm like this wasnt always around. Maybe thats a bad thing, but maybe its a good thing.

What happens if somebody comes here, sees alot of positive comments from other PUA's. but still nothing worls for them? Then the guy gets even worse socially.

Anyway, good post.


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What I find though with your posts is consistent content that is you have an issue with opinions conflicting with your own.
As you had previously stated, you feel as if people who are 17 should not be on this site.
I myself am 17. Newly 17 at that.
And yet you agree with the majority of the content in my previous post.
Open up to others opinions a little bit more.
You show close mindedness not only in the aspect that you don't like other ideas to be represented in a more-so forceful manner. But also in the respect that you make generalizations, even ones based on something as transparent and meaningless as age.

As for some of the methods not working on here, your correct. Not every method is for every person.

But it's the same as physical fitness. Not one diet will work for everyone either.
And although that is the case you should never feel that the point of the other dietitian, or in this case PUA is any less valid.

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What I find though with your posts is consistent content that is you have an issue with opinions conflicting with your own.
As you had previously stated, you feel as if people who are 17 should not be on this site.
I myself am 17. Newly 17 at that.
And yet you agree with the majority of the content in my previous post.
Open up to others opinions a little bit more.
You show close mindedness not only in the aspect that you don't like other ideas to be represented in a more-so forceful manner. But also in the respect that you make generalizations, even ones based on something as transparent and meaningless as age.

As for some of the methods not working on here, your correct. Not every method is for every person.

But it's the same as physical fitness. Not one diet will work for everyone either.
And although that is the case you should never feel that the point of the other dietitian, or in this case PUA is any less valid.
dude, it was smoothoop who tried to use the age card as a way to win an argument. There are plenty of young people that can teach older people many things about life and people.

I still dont think u belong on here with people alot older than u on here, u should be focusing on your life.

But you havent disrespected me, so I dont to you.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 2:21 pm 
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The simplistic truth, age is a number.
If someone of a lesser age can intellectually keep up with a particular group then I see no reason as to why one of said age shouldn't participate in the conversation?

That would be like saying if a group of like minded younger folk made a site similar to this we wouldn't particularly "disown" anyone older on the site. But we would strongly suggest that they didn't belong there.

Which I mean I find it funny truthfully.
Mainly due to the fact that my generation isn't particularly "more advanced" than and older generation obviously. But in this day and age we are exposed to more at a younger age. Which makes us just as valid as someone who is three to four years older than us.

Nonetheless, it was interesting.
Good luck with tolerating the mods on this site.
Being one on a few other sites I realize that we can be frustrating in certain predicaments.

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Nowhere did the thread ask what was fair, a question was asked what is a mods job
You answered that yourself. I think you failed to tell the difference of a mod given their input or more opinion on a topic in a thread and them being a mod. As while they are mods that doesn't mean they can't post their own opinion on something.
Yes the more opinions the better, but the problem is if for example, I state the truth(accoording to myself, understood), then they say no, that is not how it is, it;s this way. I then come back with no, I dont agree with that,...now suddenly im a trouble maker, but they werent a trouble maker telling me their biew was correct.

And people feel when it's a mod then they have to cave sooner than when it;s somebody not a mod.

I understand mods have a tough time, but they must enjoy it, who the hell would do it if they didnt enjoy it?

I have no problem with disconnects, in fact thats a good way to talk to women, dont agree with everything they say, give them your view and dont cave, and they will respect u more.

I think the general consensus round here is EVERYBODY must be made to believe that in this superficial, me first, world we live in that EVERYBODY can get beautiful women. it's simply not realistic and not true. That doesnt mean we give up hope, and THAT is what the board is about, support.

But whatever one's view they should be allowed to say it. If the mod wants to pm the target of the message and say "dont listen to him, he;s an idiot" as I have wanted to do before, thats fine and understandable.

But dont cut them off from speaking their mind. as long as they dont personally attack the person.
You disagree with what they say, I have done it more than once, your problem is how you go about it. A lot of your posts are borderline trolling if not trolling in delivery. Its fine to have an opinion how you post it is something else.


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The mods are biased because they are human.

I've read some of your stuff, 40 yr old guy, u would be better using ur energy talking to real people outside the forum.

Spending two or three hours a day on the forum is not anyones good use of time.

The mods are unpaid volunteers so do not have the time to read an entire thread so have to make quick judgementgs.

Using bad language just to come across tough has the apposite effect online, anyone can be tough online. Its not real.

U r attracting mods. This is not what u r training urself to attract. Attracting men is easy, all u gotta do is insult them.

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The mods are biased because they are human.

I've read some of your stuff, 40 yr old guy, u would be better using ur energy talking to real people outside the forum.

Spending two or three hours a day on the forum is not anyones good use of time.

The mods are unpaid volunteers so do not have the time to read an entire thread so have to make quick judgementgs.

Using bad language just to come across tough has the apposite effect online, anyone can be tough online. Its not real.

U r attracting mods. This is not what u r training urself to attract. Attracting men is easy, all u gotta do is insult them.
thanks for the tips...mr. "I happened to have read all your threads" LOL

I think u'd be surprised what my day consists of, just worry how your time is spent.


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NOTE: this thread WILL be locked if people continue to flame and insult other members of the forum.


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@Madals
I'm not trying to be a backseat moderator (pun intended).
But I see this all the time over on the forums I moderate on.
When this kind of conversation is brought to light it is just bait for arguments.
You would probably be best to lock it and save yourself further bothersome check ups ;).

Just my two cents.

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Okay personally, I don't feel attacked by this thread since it's just another thread like any other. As a moderator, I don't see where you are coming from. I'm a retired moderator, so I don't have any problems saying what I feel about your recent behaviour Old.

As far as we get a long - a person like you shouldn't be on this forum. Criticism isn't something you are able to handle, and positive thinking around criticism is everything you are not.

The point taking that you actually done some thing which are not according to forum rules, are that what got our eyes fixated on your in the first place. Now instead of altering your behaviour for the better (for yourself, the community and the moderators) you chose to keep on nodding your head with self-centered provocing thoughts that will allow you to feel like god, where we both know.. there isn't a god on earth.

So far that being said, wether you chose to reply to this post or not.. I really don't care. But insulting people or "ambushing/attacking" people that spend their free time in keeping this forum clean for the users.. that pretty much crosses my line of respect.

I've warned you in the past to keep it friendly, now my friendliness is over.

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