So I really like this chick, like definitely one-itis. She is mental has major issues and I know it, probably the whole need to fix her scenario. Be a man and fix shit, you know how it is????

So she is publicizing that her mom is disowning her and shit, and I know its none of my business, but we are close and like as a person I want to tell her to fucking stop and dont do that shit cause I care about her. As a PUA I dont want to come off as needy.

What the hell do I do? She can't afford professional help, so she really does rely on her friends, and a lot of times she talks to me. I am so mindfuck, what the fuck do I do.

Seriously I am need help. Am I caring too much? Should I shut the fuck up and ditch the chick? Just help her as a friend and stop trying to game her? What do I do? I am more fucked up about this than lindsey lohan's lawyer.

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-Raphael

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As a friend is your "job" to have talk with her. And try to see that her behavior isnt nice.

But if you think you can change this girl you are wrong, and if you trully believes YOU can change her, you are in for a treat. You will be sucked in to her madness. She wont change because of you.

Like you said SPAM she is mental, you shouldnt game her, she is ill.

Try and be her friend. Support her through times. See if it get better.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

I dont think she is actually mental- just very depressed and has told me she is bipolar, does that mean she is? Honest question.

I really dont think I can change her I just hope I can help. I told her to stop and she will she said she will and she listens to me and will stop. But what do I do from here. I know this might be deep and heavy stuff but I appreciate it, especially the quick reply.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

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I have been with two girls who said they were bipolar... is just her way of excusing her behavior. Never seen anything to back them up.

Only a Phd Doctor can evaluate her situation, and determine if she is or isnt.

Mate to be honest... she wont change or will be really hard

If she is depressed then she needs help, depression at younger girls never is a good outcome, well it never is.

Im going out on limb here and probably tell you that this girl is just looking for attention.

Have you ever seen signs of her depression?

Cant you find a free doctor, in portugal you can go to hospital and have an appointament or talk with the school pyschology no charge.

If not be with her and try to change her minds on certain things that she might be wrong. And perhaps talking to her parents, if they have enough intelect.

But go game other girls, you need to help her not game her.... and this girl is probably just going to hurt you if you continue down a bad path. try and separate your emotions, she is friend help her.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Yea you are probably right, and no she is depressed like I have known her for a year + now and yea depressed all the time, but smiles and fakes being happy to everyone, but people know.

I dont feel like its my (cant think fo word ---- business?) to go to a doctor and talk about her.

I want to not game her but I really fucking like this chick ahah like I said we have been very close for a year +

Fuck! Hahaha gotta swallow my pride and help her out as a friend, your 100% right.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

get her alone try to make out with her, works or it doesn't, if it doesn't go for other girls but talk to her from the sidelines, just never put shit on hold for a girl who isn't going with the flow

No man she is the one going to conselling not you...

But you could make an appointament to her.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Yes you r right

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