OK guys I want your opinions on this...lets say you go on a 1st date with a girl and you realize that you aren't getting very far for whatever reason. Maybe the most you get is a kiss and because of your work schedule you know it will be some time before you can see her again. I know most guys would be against sending flowers but what about a card? Does either make you look like an afc?
My thinking is that the card is the type of old school detail that is often overlooked. It will also more than likely sit on her dresser and remind her of you which isn't a bad thing.
I have done this at least 2 times and with both girls I later found the card in their rooms on the dresser and taped to the mirror. When I asked why they had it still the answer was no one had done that and it stood out.
I'm 50/50 on results though... one went psycho on me but thats more her than the card I hope.
I'm also not talking about sending the card to a woman that there is no connection with obviously.
As for the card. Nothing mushy just a blank card with my initials on it and a message saying thank you for a fun nigh.

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I personally love the idea it is generic but unique at the same time, also I dont know what it is with woman, but they love cards. Seriously I went to hallmark with some girls once 1 hr, wdf, I have no idea but 1 hr. It wasnt anything special.

I really believe you should only do it to someone special. You had a great connection, you were on multiple dates, 2-3, and are generically looking for a relationship.

Awesome idea I am gonna use this later in my life.

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