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Interesting situation for me. Asked this girl out for coffee tomorrow and we chatted an hour or so on FB. It didn't take long for the subject of sex to come up. She's just gotten out of a bad relationship and said she doesn't want to start a new one, she just wants to have sex with guys. .....
At one point I had F-Buddy. The Key is quit all that Facebook talk and get her out to meet you, take her back to your place and let the sex be great. She is already in that sexual mode so anything you do to reduce that sexual energy will only be a turn off for her.
Forget the advises the most of the guys in here are throwing - Show your sexual confidence not by just talking on Facebook - thats lame But in person, and quit the talking part and get to deed.
Someone is telling you they want to buy your car and you talking about your house, dinners, blah blah...is stupid. Meet in person, hand them the keys, make the transaction and
CLOSE THE DEAL
Some things to avoid :
1. Dont call her often or contact her frequently. That puts the girl in a relationship mode.
2. Dont let her talk a lot about her past relation and you too keep things impersonal.
3. Keep the interaction fun before the sex and short after the night.
4. Let her know that you are seeing other people.
5. Whether F-buddy or not, dont make her feel like a slut otherwise after a few times she would get distant - after a few times just tell her that you respect her for her sexual liberation.
Both you and her will have fun for sometime but Man, eventually one of you would move on to wanting something more - It always happens so be prepared for it to end sooner or later.