I've been texting with a girl I've never met. We made plans last week to hang out today, but the subject of who I live with has never come up. Things have gotten really sexual also, and will likely come to a head tonight. BUT, telling her at the last minute that I don't live alone could kill the mood (and everything else I've built)

How do I tell her this without losing value?

Please avoid all the "Why didn't you tell her before now?" questions until AFTER giving me a solution. Thanks!

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I speak about the things I know, and ask about the things I don't.

Tell her your parents live with you! that way you look like you own the house, and it shows your responsible! lol but this will only porbably work if shes isnt anything longterm

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

Yeah, but then why wouldn't I be able to bring her inside and bang her brains out?

It's MY HOUSE, but my actions are all still indirectly controlled by my parents? lol I don't think she'll buy it! lol

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I speak about the things I know, and ask about the things I don't.

lol then idk guy sorry :/.....

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Hey look at that!
What?
That! You dont see it?
No not really....
Oh come on theres nothing i just wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?

Just be honest, you are a man and can live where ever you want. Tell her you are currently at home because your waiting to get your own apartment. I don't know how old you are but if your like 18-20 just say you rather not pay rent, you did it before (lie who cares about this though) and you were just wasting money so your waiting till you get a real job and then moving out.

If you are that age and in college doing commuter, just say you are finishing up school and need to focus and such. It can even become a good conversation and let her see an emotional and sophisticated side of you.

If you are older just say you are staying at home for a couple months taking care of your folks, say they got sick and you were worried about them and lead into how family is really important to you, that its the #1 thing you think about.

Then you can converse and make her qualify herself and ask what she thinks about family. Again this will show an emotional side of you and such and a great convo.

I hope this helps. I live with my family too but im 18, I fucking hate it ahha, I used to live with a friend when I was in hs fresh-senior yr so yea living alone rocks.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Thanks, man. Wish me luck! She's on her way over now.

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I speak about the things I know, and ask about the things I don't.

Keep your cool and don't rush also beware for LMR, show her your room, then go out and say lets grab a drink bring her to kitchen, that way she is comfortable with your room, then when you return it will be easier as she is familiar with it. Second, have a music playlist ready so you dont waste 30 mins getting some songs on. Logistics buddy!

then just swag it out and condoms condoms condoms!

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Well...

We DID have sex.
It WASN'T at my house.
There was NO type of music.
And we DIDN'T use condoms.
(True story)
lol How'd I do?

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I speak about the things I know, and ask about the things I don't.

bad... wear a condom or make sure she is the pill, dumbas!! hahaa At least you got it in.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html