Thanks..I also forgot to mention how you opened a lot of mixed sets yesterday. I have to practice doing that too man! I don't know I get a little bit intimidated when there's guys in a set..but it seems it makes it easier for you to approach them..build the same value as them and then the HB's are introducing themselves to you. Great stuff!

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Friend the guys first always, disqualify them as soon as possible, then most of the time a AFC will just keep his mouth shut when you are talking to the other girls. Then you work for the friends, then the target. It helps if you have a wing, I am actually getting a flash back of a time I was with a friend, what we did was such;

We saw a table a dude and two girls. Great we enter. My target was a hb7 cute face, nice smile. My wing starts chatting up the guy and girl, I talk then focus on my target sit right next to her. It went bad cause the dude was gay and my wing got very raunchy. Otherwise, I avoided the obstacles (until it went bad that is) just by befriending them, making a small joke introducing myself than chatting.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Liked the reverse role play,but it's a shame that the needy guy ruined everything.

hay man how are you doing... wishing you a happy new year and all that shit from the UK. I was just wondering if you completed the style life challenge in the end and how it worked out for you.. I'm thinking about giving it a go but wanted to get some feed back first.

Freak

My "wing" who was doing it with me gave up at day 6..it sucks..but I don't want to do it alone..I'm searching for someone so we can do it together but listen you dont need feedback to start this. Every challenge can only bring you a lot of experience and I can guarantee you that you'll learn a lot from Neil's challenge!

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I did the call random people thing and ask about movie so funny, people are like what why are you asking me, I just said answer or the world might die and shit. Great fun!

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

alright thanks guys... think I might ask my newly acquired wing if he wants to do it as well.

freak

Date: 9 january 2012

SHORT-TERM GOAL

Last week of sarging before college starts. My goal this week is to go out 3 times and to number close each day! I'll ask the closing line even if I don't feel like I havent run solid game just to improve calibration. Expecting some pretty sick results! I'm hoping I'll have a wing during each day..but I listened to some AFC Adam videos who was speaking about him always going alone and that motivated me...so even if I completely hate going out alone..I'll do it if I don't have any options.

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I always go out alone. Only once I brought my cousin over as a wing, even then he's a newbie wing and did not do much. You can do it!

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If you TRY, you will have 50% chance of succeeding. If you DON'T TRY. you have 0% chance. - jsmyong55

You will always feel 10 times better after you approach.

Having a wing is always good when you're going somewhere which might not be very very crowed. That way, people don't see you wondering around and picking up girls. They see you more "with someone" and eventually picking up girls.

Man, you guys make me fell bad.

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Let change the world
One smile at time

Date: 13 january 2012

SHORT-TERM GOAL UPDATE


I like to always update goals so I know what I have to do and I've been kind of busy lately and with the snow storm here I couldn't sarge at all this week..I cant complete my 3 number closes this week. However, tomorrow I'm sarging and I will number close!

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Date: 15 january 2011

Members: Valentyn & Froggy

Location: Café Campus & Tokyo


ROUGH NIGHT

Allright so I was a little bit rusty..haven't sarged in a week and I come in at midnight. I see a lot of sets..but the first field was really difficult. Usually we do well at Campus, but way too many mixed and big sets. And more than half of HB's were on the dancefloor. Also I had a problem. I recently just bought some cool "peacock" boots..it's way too cold in Montreal so I get in the field wearing them.. and I just noticed that it's hard to dance with boots. I don't know it felt really weird and I did an approach on the dancefloor, it didn't went well..I asked for permission to dance which is not a good idea. The girl said no with a smile on her face but she didn't remove her hand from mine (I took her hand when I approached). I ejected but now when I'm thinking about it..what women say and what they want are two different things..if her body language was telling she was in to me I shouldn't listen to what she was saying and keep pushing. Lesson learned

Now Froggy does some approaches..it's not going well for either of us it looks like we deconnected from the PUA world for the last week and that reflects in our game. I saw myself leaning in a set which is a thing I never do..I slap my face and tell my self to wake up. So I see a two set..HB 8.5 and HB 9. They're sitting down but when we're passing by.. we got a IOI (tossing of the hair). We sit down make small talk and from a distance I check them out..I go in positioning myself to my obstacle. I then turn to her and say: "Hey..I think you guys look really friendly..I had to come say hello". She makes a big smile and taps her friend all excited that I'm talking to them and she introduces herself to me. Now her friend looks kind of pissed that I'm not talking to her and I want to engage..but music was way too loud and she wasnt hearing what I was saying. I quickly get in A2 with them and things are going well....untill Froggy comes in the set (not trying to be mean here buddy ) Well...his body language was really seeking validation from them...he started introducing himself with no reason and basically...the set is ruined..the HB's didn't like that and they quickly find an excuse to leave. Next time..wait till I build some value I was going to start my A2 material and don't face the target with your body if she isn't facing you.

Froggy than engages like a 4 set and he AMOG's me..not a cool thing to do. He opened with how I don't want to dance because of my boots or something like that. He sometimes does this shit and really drove me mad on the spot. One time he told the hot girl of where you hang your clothes that this is my first time that I get in the club without being caught by the bouncer and the girl laughed. Not nice man...pay attention to what you're saying seriously!

So yeah the field was hard...couldn't go on the dancefloor, a lot of girls with their boyfriends and negative momentum started building inside each one of us. We then decided to change fields which in my opinion, was a mistake. Campus field was uncomfortable and that = growth. We shoud've stayed there and push ourselves..next time I will not change venues

We go in Tokyo and that negative momentum hit us once again. This place on the other hand was kind of empty. Big spaces all over the club with a set of 4 girls HBs 9.5. Holy shit this set got approached every 2 minutes by a complete AFC. I wanted to come in being the exception of the rule and not show importance of their beauty, but as I said..hesitation and all that shit from my other field ressurfaced and fucked my brains. Froggy was in the same problem as me..and yeah we hooked like 2 sets it is nothing impressive for the level that I'm at and that I would suppose to be doing but what can I say..you need nights like this to kind of wake you up. This is why I love this game..so hard to play, yet so satisfying when done correctly. Keeping up the good work and tomorrow I'll set up my goals for this year! Peace out!

Short-term goal results: failed (no number close)

THINGS TO IMPROVE

- practice using the 3 sec rule (usually I use it 90% of the time, but 2day it was weird man I don't know what to say)
- open mixed sets!!! (current sticking point for me)
- what I'm going to do from now is before each night that I go to sleep, I'm going to practice in my room some openers and imagine some field situations

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Yo!

I was there tonight! I probably see you!

Still a bit too drunk to read your post. You probably saw me at cafe campus. Almost got into a fight with a jealous amog, and I was with a small blond and a cute brunette with the rest of the time!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Date: 15 january 2011

GOALS RESULTS


Make 50 approaches: Completed


Complete the 30 day Style Life challenge: Failed (because of wing who gives up..I will find a way to finish it)


Have my first FC since I got in the community: Completed (my goal here was to be able to meet a girl, hook up and than being able to be in bed with her. Me not getting hard is something I can't really have control over)


Overall I'm glad with what I did this month. I think this is the first month of serious pick up that I made, because before I was doing more "freestyle". But when I started learning some structure, it definately helps a lot more. I also realized that writing goals is really important so here are my goals for this year!


First of all...because my college session starts tomorrow..I'll sarge each Friday for the next months, even though it's not a lot..I don't really have a choice:

- make at least 4 closes each month (during college)

- bang at least 5 chicks in 2012


I believe I can manage to do this so let's see the results!

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