Hey guys. If your going to class would smiling as you enter be a good thing? Do alpha males do this? Thanks

I bright smile is better than a depressing frown. I always am smiling and laughing, why cause I have fun. So have fun and smile and laugh!

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I heard about some studies that said that girls find broody, moody male faces more attractive than smiling men, possibly because they look less available and hence (through retarded women-logic) more desirable. Do you think these studies are wrong? I hope they're wrong, because I think my face looks less bad when I smile.

I smile always when I am out, cause I am having fun.

Well girls always comment on my laugh and smile, how I look like I am always happy and having fun. Also apparently I have a good laugh never knew what that meant, I always thought it was loud and obnoxious, just comes to show you doesn't it.

So I say smile and dont change yourself because a magazine called seventeen tells you so (or any magazine in that matter). It is a general statement probably with a shit survey team so don't worry.

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I usually have trouble smiling when I'm not hanging out with people I know. I'm not sure why. When I approach sets, I have to try to force myself to smile, which rarely works. I eventually start smiling once I get comfortable with my target. Could this be hampering my game? If so, how can I improve this?

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Practice looking at yourself in the mirror and smiling. Think of something happy or recall a joke or situation that was really funny which made you rolf and try to replicate how you look in front of the mirror. More often that not, that smile you had when you are having a good time is natural. Say to yourself "I am having a really good time and I don't care what others think of me." Practice that everyday on the mirror and see if you still have trouble smiling after.

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You will always feel 10 times better after you approach.

Sometimes, I do not get this "alpha male" stuff. Try to be yourself instead of thinking what an alpha would do/act/say etc.. I am not saying guys should act like AFC's but I think if you force something (smile, good mood, whatever), people will notice.

I'll try this. Thanks alot.

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You don't smile or they see it's fake? Try smiling with one angle of your mouth slightly higher than the other, for then it's harder to determine whether it's a fake smile or a real one. Also try to smile with your eyes, practise smiling with your eyes without your mouth.

It's more that my facial muscles seem to lock up and prevent me from smiling. I always try to smile before the initial approach. once I first make eye contact, but nothing happens.

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It's more that my facial muscles seem to lock up and prevent me from smiling. I always try to smile before the initial approach. once I first make eye contact, but nothing happens.[/quote]

Okay this is true your eyes say a lot, if you can smile with your eyes she can read that as well. Also you seem to have a medical issue, maybe you should see a doctor, cause I have never heard someone can not physically smile. Watch a comedy or something.

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yea that seems pretty bull shit. you shouldnt pay attention to stupid survey like that. If you smile and laugh, a girl will percieve as someone who is fun, or knows how to have fun, or can give someone a fun time and that your not boring. This is my opinion.

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I think it depends. If you're laughing/smiling for no reason, and doing it often, you might well come across as a bit weird/goofy. But as long as you're not over doing it, smiling certainly helps more than it hinders.

A trick I usually do at parties and things like that, is to make eye contact with someone as soon as I get into the room - it's better if you know the person, but even if you don't, it doesn't matter too much. Make eye contact with someone across the room, and warmly smile your hello so to speak.

Everyone else sees your smile, sees you're a warm, approachable person, but you're smiling AT someone, not just smiling like a loony!

Okay this is true your eyes say a lot, if you can smile with your eyes she can read that as well. Also you seem to have a medical issue, maybe you should see a doctor, cause I have never heard someone can not physically smile. Watch a comedy or something.[/quote]

Thanks for the response. You should definitely fix your quote. I think you accidentally misquoted me . I have the ability to smile! My nerves just get to me when it comes to the first steps of approaching. As I said before, once I lock in, I do much better. Most of it might come from me shielding my emotions alot when I was younger. I'll try to let my eyes smile more.

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