| As you can see the answers here are pretty detailed. Well, descriptive that is. There is no need to lie about who you are. Are you that insecure about what you have to offer, instead of becoming something or someone else why don't you actually go out and do it. Now I understand you might not be bill gates rich, or even just below the "1%", or even just doing alright, but that doesn't mean you can't live life. Life is a stage, but that doesn't mean your always acting out a scene. The most attractive thing about a person is their personality, unless your a fucking 11/10 and your just bradd pitt ryan gawsling love child gorgeous, then you don't really have that great of one, yet you still have one.
You need confidence mate, go out and be yourself, remember when you were 5 years old and said i want to be a pokemon trainer, fuck it, be that kid again if you need to become confident in yourself, cause let me tell you, if I wanted to catch 150 pokemon right now I would look my ass of for that 150th I'd give up and realize life isnt a video game but still. You have to be yourself, the fact that I just mentioned pokemon in a serious matters shows you my personality does it not?
Be yourself, girls love it. Heres why you shouldnt be someone else.
2am You and a Hb10
You: holy shit I am doing this, I just gotta take her back to my place.
HB: so your fucking cute, funny, and have an awesome job, wow your so sexy
you: Yup I make steve job look like the the winklevoss tiwns, and in my movie they would need george clooney to make me look good.
At your place
Hb: what is this shit hole, I thought you were rich et cetera.
or you peacock like crazy next day on date two your wearing jeans anda tshirt
HB: Oh hey
You: Whats wrong?
HB: Idk I though you always dressed crazy and out there, I just expected... oh never mind. (what she is really thinking... what a fake asshole, he just wants to fuck me)
You loved my scenes I know it, steven speilberg's grandchild what can I say. So yea answer= NO NO NO!!!! Be you, just a better version of you! WAIT, WHAT? This means find out who you are, what are your better qualities, your hobbies, goals. It is oaky to say good shit about yourself, and maybe possibly over exaggerate, but in a cute and funny way. Like lets say your a good tennis player.
HB: Omg I love tennis... so um... are you good?
You: I mean I'm no Federer, but I make the bryan twins look like wilson sisters. (I really wanted to continue this twin reference don't judge me)
Hb: Oh really...
Noe you can flirt with her and even get a second date and play her some time or give her the idea of such a date so she is more comfortable with you.
Long post sorry, but yea No!!!! _________________ Best of Luck
-Raphael
Aspiring Artist
Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html
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