So I am trying to get this girl to go on a date with me, possibly a relationship. I have no idea whats up with her, shes a bit mental.

She used to reply to my texts all the time, but in the past week or so she hasnt. I would normally take that as a hint okay what ever no worries, but she likes my statuses, retweets, likes my photos, comments on them, apparently there is this thing on facebook called poke, she does that to me daily, Ill comment on it shell reply with a wink or smiley, then thats it. I don't want to go off and say this is a one-itis, but I do want to be with her, so maybe it is?

I really need help with this one, what do I do to get her to go out with me. I have asked her to go to a party, she said she has worked but loved to, she even asked me to take her out on a marvelous date, I described to her one that I have done just in some conversation we had, so yea. I have been as direct as I thought I can be, I am starting to get more sexual to the point I am almost saying i want to fuck you. I believe she is a virgin so I dont think that will do it.

So yea help! thanks

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You want her? Ignore her/freeze her out. She probably sends you a sigal emoticon and you take the bait sending her a bunch of text. Cat String Theory at work; you're the string, she's the cat and she can get your attention whenever she feels she wants to; you're always there, that's the point.

You know you've come down with a case of One-nitis. So I prescribe a Freeze-out and a couple of dose of reality. Your mind is clouded on this one chick, go and create opportunities with other girls, and if anything you'll have a more confidant air about you and she'll take notice (and if she doesn't you've gained some other options). Riding yourself of your One-nittis is honestly your best bet in winning her over. You're just coming off as too needy and to women that's a MASSIVE turnoff.

Great analogy of the cat-string theory definitely didnt see think of it like that, well said mate, I will now be more conscious of it, and I havent been replying to all her messages, I guess a break will help.

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Since she's obviously voyuering your FB frequently, make your status updates more interesting like you're out and living it up, the life of the party etc...

Also, throw up a few photos of you and some other girls (just 1 or 2 because a whole bunch will send off player vibes which women detest). You can easily use FB to your advantage since she's obviously following what you do on there.

Touche... you might have given me a very winning hand (im playing texas poker makin money, so I am in the card mood hence the lingo.)

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Careful.

You've never even hung out with this girl and your talking a relationship? How could that possibly make any sense?

You're thinking like a woman and that is not going to land you anywhere but the friend zone.. I don't care what she says on facebook and twitter. She's just using you for entertainment at the moment.

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Yea I went to school with this girl, she and I were gonna go out but she found out I was with someone, we were very very close. Like people would comment on us being a couple and she wouldn't say no. That's why I fear the one-itis being true because it was a girl I never got.

Thinking like a woman haha mate thanks for that, really makes me snap back. I really appreciate your comments you say good shit.

But yea, we were very tight, we got deep, I just was a bit pussy and never pulled the trigger, then she left school for a year, and when she came back she was into me again but I was a senior and at college parties every other week, or just other shit, I also went to small private school and hated going out with girls in my school it was horrid.

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-Raphael

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