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PostPosted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 12:01 am 
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So I was chatting to this girl a couple weeks ago about pancakes, and how to make them, the convo was actually quite pleasant and entertaining, as one can assume it was about pancakes and later pizza, but my point is, today is her birthday so I sent her a message of course on her wall which would stand out from every other boring ass one to which she replied "Very Clever" so what can I say next? I am thinking, well in case you have a hard time searching for the perfect place Volta makes a great pancake/crepe. My message will be below.

Message : Happy Birthday, I got you a present... its a "you can take me out to pancakes" coupon, I prefer crepes just a heads up.

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Hey Raphael,

How about you try this.

'Can I have your phone number?'

Once you have her phone number, pick up the phone and call her and don't waste another second of your life trying to escalate through facebook.

Game does not have to be this complicated. A lot of guys like yourself try to turn every seduction into a mindgame and end up confusing yourselves and her in the process and in the end you just end up coming across as totally weird and she hooks up with a normal person instead.

It doesn't need to be a mindgame, you can just show her that you're interested in her and then take it from there, men have been doing this to get laid for millions of years.

This fixation with crepes and pizza's is just going to leave her thinking 'wtf does this dude want from me?'

And you asking her 'to take you out' well that just makes you look like a cheap pussy.

How do you think that Brad Pitt or Jack Nicholson would ask a girl like this out? They would get to the point and assume a manly role in the relationship, that's how.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:27 am 
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Thanks mate that was good ass response. I will do just that. With that said I know thinking to much, but should I post on her wall # or message. I would do wall but if its worse since social pressure of others reading I rather not.

Still over thinking it I know but its little steps that count.

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Thanks mate that was good ass response. I will do just that. With that said I know thinking to much, but should I post on her wall # or message. I would do wall but if its worse since social pressure of others reading I rather not.

Still over thinking it I know but its little steps that count.
The wall...

Inboxed comes off creepy... The wall takes balls..

Think of it as, sending your friend to tell a girl your interested( inbox) or Going up to the girl yourself and telling her your interested (Wall)

The both have a shot but one of them seems a lot more respectable and bold.

and yes... Bold gets your pussy..

Maybe your should write in bold letters too :)

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I am so over thinking this shit, but should I go direct or indirect? I don't know why I am flpping out but yea... thanks!

Fuck it I am just asking for her number, and yea balls on her wall. touche fuze glad to see your semi-back :P
"What's your number, I'm taking you to this amazing Gelateria and Crepeteria."

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Thanks mate that was good ass response. I will do just that. With that said I know thinking to much, but should I post on her wall # or message. I would do wall but if its worse since social pressure of others reading I rather not.

Still over thinking it I know but its little steps that count.
The wall...

Inboxed comes off creepy... The wall takes balls..

Think of it as, sending your friend to tell a girl your interested( inbox) or Going up to the girl yourself and telling her your interested (Wall)

The both have a shot but one of them seems a lot more respectable and bold.

and yes... Bold gets your pussy..

Maybe your should write in bold letters too :)
I like Fuze's idea but personally (and this is just a matter of personal preference) I would get her number in a chat just so I can get an immediate direct response.

In all honesty most girls wont just throw it at you right away you might need to talk her into it and she will probably give you a bit of a shit test. eg.

'Yo whats your digits?'
'You want my number?'
'You bet, how else am I going to call you?'
'Why do you want to call me?'
'So you can fall in love with my silky smooth voice'
'lol Yeah right'
'Only one way to find out'
etc.

Most girls will want to draw it out and play with you a bit before they give it up just make sure you have some fun with it and keep it light hearted if she doesn't give it up straight away, there is no harm in playing the role of the confident male pursuer. Not to be confused with the obsessive supplicating puppydog.

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Thanks mate that was good ass response. I will do just that. With that said I know thinking to much, but should I post on her wall # or message. I would do wall but if its worse since social pressure of others reading I rather not.

Still over thinking it I know but its little steps that count.
The wall...

Inboxed comes off creepy... The wall takes balls..

Think of it as, sending your friend to tell a girl your interested( inbox) or Going up to the girl yourself and telling her your interested (Wall)

The both have a shot but one of them seems a lot more respectable and bold.

and yes... Bold gets your pussy..

Maybe your should write in bold letters too :)
I like Fuze's idea but personally (and this is just a matter of personal preference) I would get her number in a chat just so I can get an immediate direct response.

In all honesty most girls wont just throw it at you right away you might need to talk her into it and she will probably give you a bit of a shit test. eg.

'Yo whats your digits?'
'You want my number?'
'You bet, how else am I going to call you?'
'Why do you want to call me?'
'So you can fall in love with my silky smooth voice'
'lol Yeah right'
'Only one way to find out'
etc.

Most girls will want to draw it out and play with you a bit before they give it up just make sure you have some fun with it and keep it light hearted if she doesn't give it up straight away, there is no harm in playing the role of the confident male pursuer. Not to be confused with the obsessive supplicating puppydog.
Alright for the future I will do that, I normally play and have fun when I get numbers off facebook if I need them, I usually get them no sweat, but will try this and learn form experience thanks kieran

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