Figured she was leaving tonight, if you have longer, time to play some push and pull mate, and just rent out an apartment, or kick out your fucking parents, are you kidding me, tell them straight up I only have a mom, Im like mom get the fuck out, go buy something pretty, I love you she looks at me and says wear a condom, my mom thinks I am a queer if I am not with a girl... they love you and want the best for you, let them know you are using protection and they are happy. Also, you telling your mom to buy something pretty and handing her some cash say happy new years it a gift, she will love you... (commuter school - you learn shit )

All in all, if you did what I said and mentioned a store or a movie, this would be a perfect Day 2. Take her to pizza, then walk around, go to a shopping center, shop for an hr, then go back to your place, and do the whole music shit. The truth is if you do a long date your parents might still be home so ask your mates who have a free house, whats a bro if he wont let you shag in his house? haha I say take her out again, she wants your dick, have a good time, no stress, this is your day of fun not hers, and just remember push and pull until you get home and fuck.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Yeah I'll follow your scenario..thanks a lot. I think she leaves in 2 days so I have to do this..I'm kicking out my parents for the night haha lol. Thanks for the music logistic though I didn't thought of that one..I'll try it out. I'm just hoping she doesn't have buyers remorse from too much making out..I shoud've calm the fuck down.. I just couldn't..anyway..we'll see what happens!

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Yo Valentyn, can U maybe tell excactly what u are doing?

1. Opener.
2. What do u say to the girl to keep her interested.
3. How u get lot of kino from her.
4. Etc.

Sorry for my writing, I am not an English man.

Gustav Here's what I'm doing.

#1 I use an opener (usually indirect but each field I like to use at least a direct opener when I think the girl is attracted to me)
Ex of indirect opener: "Hey guys quick question I have a small problem here...I saw my friend's girlfriend kiss another guy 5min ago..do you think I should tell him?"

#2 Now you focus on their reaction. Are they frendly? Is one girl more in to you than the others? Are they all bitchy? Now usually a good opener like the one above will get you and your set on a nice conversation. Most of the time they will change the subject. If they have a bitch shield, I always neg the target so I show her she's not that hot that she thinks

#3 If you think your target's in to you qualify. See how she responds. If she responds, isolate and just build comfort.

* I know a lot of canned material, but I'm not using it all the time. Only when I ran out of things to say. I recommend you learn some simple lines that help you if you get stuck*

To learn really good strcture, I recommend you learn the M3 Model..Mystery's model. It's been 3 weeks since I started really gaming with that model and I just became better and better with each sarging night. Hope I helped!

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Thank you Valentyn, I really like that u put everything you say and do in this "From AFC to PUA" really helps me. I hope ill be confident enough to talk to every single girl in the room, but I need to practice. And ur "blog" helps me with that. Thank you.

Date: 2 january 2012

LOST MY SET


I feel...like complete shit.

I never experienced this before. An HB that rubs her pussy on my dick...and that flakes me. I do not know what to say...I'm really upset/let down by this. I mean...I had my f close in front of my hands...the girl even told me she wanted to fuck but the hotels were completely full...and there were my parents and my uncle in my house. I didn't close the deal when I had the chance because of this problem, but I thought the next day I could still see her and close at my house (told my parents to go out). Now I texted her about 1hour and a half ago "Hey I'm getting a little bit busy after tomorrow..I would like to see you 2day". She didn't respond..if it takes that much time to answer this question..what can I say..I lost the set..damn it man...

Next time, less kissing. I was doing foreplay in a club. What I did was perfect for fuck close that same night. But I didn't so now I think the most plausible answer is she has buyer's remorse and even though she's attracted to me.. she just doesn't want to seem like a slut in front of her friends. Wow..what a slap in the face..seriously..expect the unexpected. This is complete bullshit..I'm more than pissed. Anyway..


LESSONS LEARNED

- Always have available for you a C3 location

- Opportunities go away...grasp every chance you can get. You may think you will have another one but the odds are..you may not

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Nooooo!!!! I was like somebody gonna get fucking lucky tonight, and now that broke my heart, have you ever had a male cheer you on to get our dick wet before, I think not! Anyways, you know how I love to comment and give tips so I will. Perfect, everything perfect, but your texting game make it more flirty... you shoulda been like...

Have you ever experienced an hr orgasm in canada before? I dont know where she lives figured US,

Then follow up, Cause I just kicked my mum and dad out told them ot go for dinner, why dont you come to my place, I promise I will fuck your brains out.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Yes..I am heartbroken too But failures are learning lessons. Logistics are really important. Right now I'll plan my logistics much sooner and will be prepared. Quick fact..I counted the approaches I made untill I got that far..so it took me 61 approaches since I started cold approach to be able to go 95% of a fuck close. When I think about it..61 approaches is not a lot and at the beginning I was doing 2 sets each night. Not enough. Since I started doing the M3 Model..I approached 34 in like 3 weeks which I gone out 2 or 1 time each week. And it took me 34 approaches from the moment that I stuck with just one model to go to an f close. Of course it takes a location to have sex so that messed up my close but still it's interesting to see a lot of progress being made. I can only learn from this stupid ass mistake I made. Next girl in line please!

* By the way a HB that goes to the same college as me invited me to a "date" with her. She has a boyfriend but we've been always flirting..let's see where it goes *

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HAHA She had a phone problem that's why she couldn't answer..she just texted me..fuck yeah omg new lesson learned: wait a day or two to confirm flakes!

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Damn right lesson learned, so now what, think he rents gonna let you kick them out of your house twice now haha or if you have fucked her by now that strange notes of music you hear is actually the sound of organized trumpets tooting the french national anthem to your success, why the french, cause lets be real the best part of montreal is the french part.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Valentyn, what's happening to you bro is like a movie: it gets more awesome as we read through, and then there's slight down point which results in an even more awesome point right afterward.

Raphael, S+A is a good tip. I'll admit that I haven't had the balls yet to try it out. From what I have read, when you do have the balls, it's a pussy magnet.

Keep us posted, as always!

Date: 3 januray 2011

FIRST LAY REPORT


Jacob if you thought that was a movie..listen to this man. Guys..you have to read this

First of all..you guys know I thought she flaked me so I fucking wanked like 5-6 hours ago because I was saving myself for the lay so when I learned that she "flakes" I fucking wanked...still it's supposed to be enough time for me to catch up and be hard again. But let me explain how the "lay" started

I'm at my house she texts me "Hey I'm sorry my cell was having problems" I'm like allright "I want to see you you're leaving 2morrow" She directly goes "Come to my hotel" I'm like wtf hell yeah. But she tells me at 3 AM I'm like allright I'm getting laid tonight yes. So I started being really happy and eating two bananas (random shit but I don't know it's funny). Made some push ups to pump up and went to her hotel. Now I come in and I see 2 guys (who thought they picked up the chicks) coming in with my target's friends. They're like 23 and they think I'm the friend of the girls. I go like: Nah man I'm crashing here tonight. He goes: What? Seriously? *one of them was interested in my target* So I'm like bro you don't know shit I'll let you DLV yourself and I'll take control. We get in the house the guy starts hiting on my girl being a really complete douchebag.. he doesn't let her pass in the hallway stuff like that and I have a smurk on my face laughing under my chin. I just go over and take her from the guy giving him the power stare from the body language book I read. He was pissed but I dont give a shit..so she leads me in a big room.

We sit down and start talking..I'm adding more DHV's right now and I see it turns her attraction even more. Suddenly I go: Hey you wanna kiss me? She goes: What? No why do you always ask me lately?! Just do it I go: allright cool..I look down.."Now you want to kiss me??" She laughs and says say something in french I think it's hot so I tell "Do you want to kiss me?" (in french) She says: what that means? I go: "Do you want to kiss me?" Haha we just laugh and after I just say like: Nah I'm just teasing come here... and I make out.

The makeout is really nice she puts herself on me and I can see those nice tits she has so after I make out a little bit I take her and slam her against the wall..starting to really get in to it. After that I close the light and jump in to bed with her. Now this is exactly the sentence that went in my head "Damn this is a girl I actually picked up in bar ..pretty cool can't wait to write my lay report"

We start the foreplay and I just wow I'm surprised by how good I was. Don't want to brag but it looked like I knew what I was doing the hole time and I never hesitated. A big turn on was her neck as soon as I was kissing it she was moaning. So after that I don't know how to remove her bra I'm like: "Get over and take off your bra right now" She complies and I see her nice tits I'm like damn Ok I take off my shirt too and I can see she likes what she sees. Now I'm going on her removing her pants and all and I'm in my boxers. Now I start fingering her and wow to my surprise what the hell it looked like I've done this many times. I quickly find her g spot..tease the shit out of her and she starts to become reallyy fucking wet. She started moaning and than she said something really funny she goes: "Ah yeah baby speak dirty in french"

I'm like: "What??!"
She: "Just speak dirty in french I love it"

I just laugh a little bit wtf I thought they only said lines like that in movies hahaha

To my surprise I said like 2 words in french and she started moaning like shit man. Damn..women are fucking weird man

After like 25min of fingering..I wanted to give her the most possible orgasms she can in order for penetration. So now I reach in my boxers to feel a fucking not hard cock. Immediately this goes through my mind: Fuck man bullshit get up soldier! He didn't listen. I tried putting her on top of me and grind on me but I coudn't get my dick up. Then she says something really sadly I go : listen this is not your fault. She just gets up and says oh my god..I'm sorry but it's 6 am my friend has to sleep we leave in 3 hours. I get up...start dressing up and I say I'm sorry..she says she doesn't care like 4 times in a row. And then I go..no you do care don't lie. She says: Ok yeah I do care...what can I do??! *sad face* I put my shoes on and she comes to the elevator with me. I look at her in the eyes: listen this is not your fault. And she just replies something that really broke my heart. She goes: "It's ok babe..I'm not hot enough for you..I cant even make you hard..it's ok.." Now I just kiss her a lot..and tell her this is a guy thing and that she cant understand this. Finally I told her that I'm coming to New York in a short while and I'll text her when I'll be there. She smiles and say yeah of course..call me when you get here. And then I walk away..head down..feeling really badly for this poor girl..she's like a minimum 8 on 10 and just..it pissed me off for her to think that it was her fault.

By the way all of this foreplay thing happened for like 2 hours man. I waited and waited for my dick to get up but just couldn't manage to do so. Anyway..

I wrote this down in the lay report category becaues you know..I didn't have control over this..and I pretty much ended with the girl I picked up in the same bed her wanting to fuck me. Fuck masturbation. I really think that if I didn't wanked..I would've got hard. What bad luck man. I save my self for one girl to fuck..then I think she leaves so I wank..but then she comes back again and when I'm in bed with her..my dick doesn't want to serve it's purpose. Wow..anyway. Just like to give a big thanks for all of you who helped me until now. I've grown a lot man..peace out guys!

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Date: 3 januray 2011

MESSAGE TO ALL THE SKEPTICAL PEOPLE


Now if somebody tells you that Mystery Method is bullshit or that PUA stuff don't work, just show my journal. I think I pretty much just showed you guys that this thing is possible if you believe in it and work on your skills. Since I concentrated on only a model, it took me only 34 approaches for a lay. I think it's a pretty good ratio for a "beginner". So all of you people who always doubt everything..have really nothing to say. My sticking point before with women was that even though I was building attraction and comfort really good..my seduction skills (sexually escalate) were not that good. I thought attraction = seduction..but it's 2 total different things and now I clearly see the difference. I really hope I inspired some of you to take action and not to rely on chance or looks. With that being said..Valentyn keeps improving and keeps pushing the limits..I want to bang a ton of chicks in 2012 so enjoy your reading!

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Yo bro those trumpets were going off for you!! Only thing, cause I studied this n medicine for a a semester. The reason you didn't get hard is for multiple reasons, masturbation is one, she said she isnt hot enough for you, this might be true in a sense, you are so used to watching intense porn that this normal thing was nothing for your mind to find exciting. So porn = bad. Second you might have been to nervous, and tense, you need to breathe, a boner is blood flow, and being tense is bad for blood flow, hence when you work out you must breathe or u get knocked the fuck out haha. But otherwise, damn bro sorry, but yea you are right you worked with this method and you got action so good for you, now when you come to NY we are partying, just remember its 21 in the states, and if you aint 21 gonna be harder to get into a club.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Valentyn, I can only feel for you.

The same kind of crap happened to me the first time brought back a girl I had picked up during day game. I was my first time with a "stranger", e.g. not my girlfriend. I'll trust Raphael on the porn information, I'm far from being a doctor or even studying medicine, what I can say though is that stress is a HUGE factor.

Anyhow, as you said, only 34 approaches to get to a lay is pretty damn good! Congrats'!

Hope to read from you soon again.