Bro you have it in the bag just put your phone in their hands... also theres no such thing as cockblock. just think of it as they are hitting on you. Theres a girl you really like talking to you, you are attracted to them, then some other girl comes up but isn't anything, you would say excuse me and talk to the girl you want to get with right???

Cock blocking just means you failed somewhere and gave her a chance to eject. If you are talking to a girl and she is bothering you and someone interrupts you are secretly thanking them 1000x times for getting you out, but if you really want to be in that convo you would be in it still... best bet is just walk away and do what styles said in the Game, or you can even say are you going to introduce me or should I just leave? something like that...

Also 30 day Challenge is hard to do everyday, I dont always go out and its tedious to do, I am stuck on day 3 haha just cause I have been home relaxing Ill go out tmrw and try and do it

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-Raphael

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Date: 24 december 2011

Members: Valentyn & Froggy

Location: Thursday's and another weird bar


WEIRD NIGHT

The reason why I'm calling this a weird night is because I got "approached" by a transexual

So at the beginning of the day I wasn't sure if I was going to sarge because it is the 24th of december and all families are together..but I really though some sluts would get their asses out of their houses. Looks like I was wrong. At the first bar..there were people but really mature ones and it was kind of like a restaurant..hard to game everyone was sitting down. We stay there for about an hour till midnight because we thought more people are going to show up. So I'm drinking my beer and suddenly 4 transexuals come out of the club (the bar has a mini club in the basement) and sit not so far than us at a table. Imediately I'm fucking disgusted because you could see the G-string of one of the dudes because he wasn't closing his legs. Now I go to the bathroom and when I come out I pass near their table and I see this one transexual checking me out and touching his fake hair like 3 times. Wow.. I didn't knew guys would give IOI's like women even if their hair is fake wtff haha I don't know why that makes me laugh Immediately I'm like holy shit I hope this creature doesn't approach me. Later on me and Froggy are speaking and this guy/girl comes near me and from a distance he gave me eye contact. One of my strong points in gaming is eye contact..I just don't give a fuck so to make a challenge I just look back at him/her staring. He comes in front of me than he makes a big wink and blows me a kiss. I'm like dude wtfff man!!! What is wrong with you people?!?!?! We imedeately left that place there's no way I - Valentyn am going to enter a club with 4 transexuals in it and one of them wanting me. Happy holidays!

After that we go to another bar because the clubs were empty and we get in...we see a big cock fest..guys everywhere and 1 girl only in all the bar.. bye see you next time!

So my night pretty much sucked. I didn't do anything besides this and I really wanted to approach..I'm 90% sure I turned AA into AE by now. Anyway..what can I say..shit night but the 26th I'm going to do day game all day than night game at night Looking forward to that! And Froggy is my new wing with who I will complete the 30 style life challenge. Gamon backed off...too bad people with potential actually don't have the guts to get out of their comfort zone..but what can I say..stop bitching and start gaming!

Peace out!

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Awesome, Journal Valentyn . Keep it up

Thanks man..looking forward to meet you!

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Hey man,

reading your journals and it's nice to read. Seems you're becoming better each day. I could really learn from you when you describe your sarging with your friends.

this porn challenge is so true porn is indeed destroying your game. If you cannot stand it, wank 1 time a week without porn. Use the rest of the time to sarge and invest in your personal growth.

Date: 27 december 2011

CHALLENGE RESULTS


Thanks MotoRosevelt I forgot to post the results for the no more porn challenge. Here's the thing.. you talked about ruining your game and I don't know about that maybe you're right. But it didn't ruined my approach. I first did this in order to increase my chances in approaching and after 5 days without wanking and going in field..I approached 8 sets..the next week..I didn't follow the challenge on purpose and I still approached 8 sets and I really didn't feel any difference what so ever. With that being said..chances are it ruins your game state I think..because it gives you the opportunity to being "satisfied" sexually without getting contact from a woman. But on approaching, it didn't affect me at all...andd last but not least 2night is sarging night Looking forward to close at least a set!

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What porn does is affect the final stage of MM... by watching porn you are creating a mindset of what you want. Try this, dont watch porn for a week than the next week do it. The first day see what gets you off. I can ensure by the 7th day you would be watching very different styles of porn than the first day. The reason is because of your dopamine levels. It's like an addiction, you need more of something to give you the same feeling, so you watch "stronger" porn - rape fantasy, bondage, etc...

I mean if you wank off to much you actually drain yourself and have anxiety issues because of the same reason, theres no need to interact with people because you gain more joy from clicking on a link. There's also an endless supply of woman on the internet you can 100% get some benefit out of, whilst in real life there isnt.

Have fun sarging!

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

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Date: 27 december 2011

Members: Valentyn, Froggy & Oz

Location: Foufoune Electrique


BURN ALL THE COCKBLOCKS

Ok this is it man..I'm fucking over the edge right now..there should be a police warrent for cockblocks and they should be put in a pua jail. Here's what happened tonight..some good stuff but definately some bad..

We get in..there is fucking 2 million people waiting in line so we pay the bouncer some $ to get in. We get in and the place is just huge..gigantic..multiple mini bars and a huge dance floor with multiple floors. Immediately I think to myself that I want to make 10 approaches.. the night begins.

I'm locking in and I see two emo girls on my right..I decide to have some fun..I approach with I don't remember what opener..fucking emo doesnt give a shit - I dont give a shit I just want a fast interaction during the night so I eliminate any possibilty of having AA. Now every guy there is really and really AFC. The status AFC should be printed on their foreheads..they dress worse than ever..no clue at all at what fashion is..so when I came in the field..I was a lot like a peacock..I was drawing attention to me and people will look at me a lot. I'm not use to this kind of pressure so AA started increasing but I would say it was 10%..not so much and for stopping me to approach again.

I open again kind of a warm up set with a HB near me she was with a guy..I talked with the guy making sure to befriend him but it didn't went far I wasn't into it. Eject

OK now this is where things started going incredibly good and incredibly wrong..

I see this fucking cute girl...red head...for me she's an 8.5....totally my type..I'm like FUCKK dudeeee here's my chance of direct opener. She was also in a 3 set with 2 HB's who looked protective. I started to fear the approach...waited 5 minutes when I realized I was letting my AFC resurface. Fuck that...I do not have that status. I approach instantly from a distance and I go with purpose and deliver this brilliant opener!

V: "Hey..Listen..don't be mad or anything *wait 3 seconds* I'm not trying to be rude *wait 3 seconds* (intense eye contact) but you looked like a really interesting girl..I had to come say hello" - 60 year challenge opener

Wow what can I say? She was so surprised her mouth was wide open and she loved it so much!! Now I'm like allright man she feels me..I introduce myself and do not remove my hand until she does..now she starts touching her hair..but her friends are there. I notice them..we flirt a little bit and they want to go on the dancefloor. So my target doesn't really know what to do she looks at me and then immediately I engage the obstacles: "I'm sorry me and your friend like eachother are you ok with that? I'm just going to talk to her here don't worry I'll take good care of her" - Mystery Line *big props*

Both obstacles look at me with a big smile and one of them says: "Omg yes..you're fucking hot..of course we will let our friend hang out with a hot guy" *I'm like yeahh man who's the boss??!!

I'm like ok cool she then goes: "OMFG your eyes are just so gorgeous!" *She takes my head and starts to stare at me almost kissing me* "They're really nice..you get complimented a lot on them I bet" I respond like is nothing: "Yeah haha allright I'll be with your friend right over here"

At this point of the interaction..I'm in fucking C1..I past A3..her friends DHV'd me in front of her..pre-selection all the way her friend was hot too who told this. I'm isolated but the music was too loud I shoud've taken her to another place quiter.. but I didn't. So we start flirting..I don't know why the fuck I made an ESP trick...it was too late to back down I already initiated the gambit. She picked 2 I'm like fuck soldier recover..she asked my age..I said guess giving her a hoop for compliance. She guesses 19. I'm like damn girl you have magical powers or what? And I find out she's 21..I ran out of things to say man I was kind of blank in my head and another friend comes to her. Now I'm like : "introduce me to your friend it's the polite thing to do" She introduces me and her friends think I'm hot too she gave me 3 IOI's in about a sec that our eyes met..I'm like ok this shouldn't be a problem she will leave. And to my surprise..she takes my target just drags her away from me??!!!!! WHAT? We just exchanged a fast goodbye and she just went away. What the hell did I do wrong??!!! I can't really believe this is happening. By the way my target gave me more then 10 IOI's per 10 seconds..it was impossible for me to not close. Her 2 HB's that I befriended came to me and said: WTF she leaved you??! I'm like yeah she's not really polite you know..then they both look at each other and they're really surprised. Not a problem I say thank you enjoy your night and eject.

This moment just ruined my night. I was beyond pissed..I was really mad I wanted to throw my beer bottle at a wall. This happened to me 3 nights in a row.. to get cockblocked like this. I could close at least 2 sets in each night and I guess this was the limit..I cant stand to be CB again. Negative momentum started building inside me. I was really negative and mad on everyone I was talking. That was just a perfect approach well done and all ruined because of one little bitch. Go fuck your self man seriously!

I approach again..not getting good results. Fuck pissed once more. I then open a girl with a weird piercing by commenting on it. She didn't give a fuck..bye bye. I then walk on the dancefloor I see a set of 3. One of the HB's points at me.. and says something to the other 2. When I pass near them, one of the HB's grabs my shirt and pulls me towards her. Two dudes AFC's entered immediately the set and with my negative momentum and frustration all build up inside me, I just leaved the set. I'm walking and I see a HB that looks at me with a coy look. I wait 30 seconds than she walks away..I go from the back like a beginner (why the hell did I do that?) and approached her from the back. She just didn't even listen. Objects in motion stay in motion she didn't had time to lose. Negative momentum fucked my brains once again


OVERALL

Didn't close once again..not because I can't but because of idiot people that live on this planet. I'm pissed to death right now and I want to go to sleep. I made a perfect direct approach and the girl really liked it..the fact of not closing her made me really frustrated and all my gaming has gone down the sink..what can I say..if anyone has some advice to give..please leave a comment

POSITIVE

- Approached directly
- Approched multiple sets
- Went into C1
- I was really aware of all the phases during my interaction
- I didn't really gave a shit about rejection

NEGATIVE

- Let a cockblock getting in my head and mind fuck me
- Didn't close once again
- Letting negative momentum get the best of me

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Dude, that sucks, but don't let it destroy your game. I also experienced it a few times, that the SPAM was really peaking between me and an HB. Perhaps her friend just could not stand it. These girls see everything.

Pro is; you could practice again that same night with approaching but I know the feeling that your flow is crushed instantly. When it happens I'm giving myself a real hard time. Use it to make yourself stronger next time it happens. Not everything seems possible to control, because your dealing with people.

What could you do? They both gave you multiple IOI's, and they were planning to leave, perhaps just take a risk and ask an opinion about sexual stuff, like a threesome. Ofc not too obvious, but in an interesting way.

What I do when I feel like shit, is changing pub or club or room. Because my value feels so low when it happens. I like to begin with a clean slate, it helps to break the negative thoughts. I also (try to) ignore it, it's just like poker; 'losing' sucks but you learn from it. There might be a change you'll run into her again.

Thanks man..you're right. But usually I would not give a shit if this happens. It just happened too many times in the last days and that just made me want to punch the hell out of that girl lol I never let my self down..but I just don't understand what the fuck happened..you know like..why she did that??? I also tried doing the same thing as you..I changed rooms but it was always in my head. And the thing is that her friend wasn't even in the same room when I approached..she just appeared of out nowhere and boom next thig you know: gone.. anyway..what can I do..I'll just maybe qualify to her a little bit faster? Dunno..mayber her friend was just jealous?? Anyway..keeping my head up..

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Bro your stories always end the same way for the same reason. Someone doesn't cockblock, if a girl wants to be with you she will stay with you, her friends said it themselves. Its girl code! She wanted to leave, because you weren't showing dominance in kissing her. She wanted to fuck you silly but you didnt do it, just grab her when its noisy, draw her closer, and say I am trying so hard not to kiss you right now, I guarantee she will say why if she is giving that much IOI's, then you kiss her. Fuck her mouth with your tongue, IDC what you do just do it. Her friends probably didnt see her since she left you, so they assumed you HU with her already, and thats why they were confused. Come on bro just grab her, be a man, and kiss her.

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Usually I would agree with you but you are wrong here. My set was not girl coding any girl during the entire time and even when my obstacle came she didn't girl code not a single bit. I even looked at them to see if they would code each other. They did not..it was just a spontanious drag away. My target didn't at all want to leave believe me I would notice this I'm an expert in body language. And really man cock block exist there are people who will purposely come in and destroy your set..I think anyone knows this. My wing yesterday went into a set and after 2 sec he approached a guy came in and just AMOGED the shit out of him because he was speaking with his target. Maybe this doesn't happen to you a lot and you don't understand where I'm coming from..before, this shit happened rarely. And by the way when you say if a girl wants to stay with you she will stay you..not really true..in fact it's not true at all. A girl can want you so fucking badly but reject you in front of her friends like your a piece of shit..because of social and peer pressure. If also her friends drags her away she's not going to say NO leave me here with him..that rarely happens. Usually they will listen to their friends..Gambler was talking about this stuff how guys we dont give a shit about our friends when we speak in a set and girls how even if they like us..don't have a choice but to go with their friends. It's not that easy as you think it is when you're in this situation

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But a girl who really likes you will quickly give you her number. I am not saying a girl will not leave with her friends, but simply if she wants to continue the conversation she will do it.

Has a girl who had to leave never quickly given you their number? The truth is you gotta kiss as soon as you can and the moment is right. That's something you learn to do faster as you as a PUA advance. You might disagree with me now but wait till you get better and you will see.

Also Amoggers, just need to be Amog. I have had it happen to me numerous times, and I neg the target for not paying attention when I was talking to her, try to include the Amogger, and make him feel less usperior by me taking the conversation.

What is he going to do, tell me to shut up in front of his target????

Cause then you say, wow I would love it when someone tries to impress someone by being a complete douche to others, you seem really tough and macho now, a girl will defend you if she likes you... its simple as that. You can't lose a set if you don't let it go away and she is interested in you.

Why do you think her friends were so shocked that she left you?? She shouldn't have simple as that! But you let her go, be a fucking man and keep that woman on a leash... I say with this with total respect for woman. I am being metaphorical of course.

Next time you get cock-block, use your awesome cocky-humour and make her regret leaving you for an instance. Basic human instinct to want to be wanted, show her that she just lost you without being an asshole, and she'll return and work to get you to like her again.

I know you might disagree with this post, but you got to trust me, try it the next time you get Amogged, you will see, once you show Alpha over him by aligning yourself with the females, you will achieve victory as well as create a bond between you and your target, you just saved her from some douchebag/asshole. You deserve a token, that token is found in her closet door by her spare condoms

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Thanks for the tips but I know all theory and what to do. I know how to handle AMOG's and I already handled with no problem..but as you know..gaming and theory is not the same thing. You think I don't know that you have to kiss the fastes possible?? Hell yeah but once you're in field only experience can teach you those things. In field you forget a lot of your material and you're kind of lost sometimes (because of lack of experience). Different patterns occur in human interactions and it's hard to predict each and every one of them..I wasnt expecting at all that shit to happen..I even said to my self: "Ok this is it I'm closing this set I just cannot lose it what could possibly happen for me to not close?" I shoudln've thought like that but anyway..shit happens. I'm learning from it. The only thing that bothered me is that you told me there's no such thing as a cock block..which you pretty know they exist and they try to fuck your sets man. There are specific technics for this shit so of course cock blocks exist..it will be really basic of you to tell somebody: "Ah man don't worry cock blocks you'll never have a problem they don't come around" ...that's not true..but I agree with the rest of what you said

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Completely agree in field you lose shit, but like practicing for lines for a scene it just takes rehearsing, but seriously, cock-blocking wont occur if you show dominance, I even am fairly confident in saying that somewhere in 60yoc that theres a chapter on cock-blocking, I don't want to misquote it so if you have time check it out.

But I appreciate our little banter I am learning a bit from it as well not trying to just be a douche and knock your game haha. But I can honestly tell you I really have not been cock-blocked. Twat block maybe but no other man has interrupted my set unless its a bf, cause well I aint a homewrecker, but I have continued a set for practice(once), and I did exactly such a week or two ago it was brilliant but not so much for him. I simply dragged him into the conversation with us, made attraction again in a no homo way and then talked to her, but then I bounced and took in critiques.

As for twat blocking, what I have been doing is somewhat starting over, instead of her pulling her away, I pull the new girl into the convo, and she becomes the one I slightly neg and make the other girls or single girls drag her in with us. So you can try that and tell me how it works so I can get other opinions on it. Pretty much socialize even more and bring them in.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html