OK GUYS... HERE IS ANOTHER SIMPLE TESTED AND APPROVED FB OPENER:
(idk if i have shared this one on this post, but i happened to use it this week, worked again, so here it goes)
The text in red are the things i keep in mind to keep the convo going ... everything else was just normal covo outcome! NOW, the purpose is to open and create confort, throw some jokes, be random, not showing too much interest, so she feels confortable talking with you again.

Me- hey... pick a number from 6 to 24 ... dont think too much, got to be fast
Me- ohh... btw ... no 14
She- lol ... is this a tricky question?!
Me- yes ... i can guess your credit card number based on the number you pick lol ... SIKE... just pick a number NOW!!!
She- ok 16
Me- gracias ... you just saved my life!
She- lol ... how?
Me- i have been staring at this chinese food menu for the past 10 minutes trying to pick my lunch and i couldnt make up my mind ... i was already geting into starvation mode ... my brain was about to stop working!"
She- lol ... i hope 16 is the worst item on the menu! >:D
Me- i hope so too... so i can sue you and make you pay for my lunch for the rest of my life... or even better ... making you my cook! (wait, that might not be a good idea ... you would probably poison me!)
She- hahaha shut up! you wish you could taste my special dishes!
Me- wooowwww... if i had a dirty mind i would think you were flirting with me lol! Whats your special dish? Hot pockets? peanutbutter and jelly sandwishes -_-
She- omg, i can cook ok?
Me- Have you ever read a chinese food menu? like, how the hell do they come up with these names? like "poo poo plater", "bang bang ji", "Ma Po Tou Fu ", "Kung Pao Ming Har" ... and then when they pronounce it, it sounds like they are pissed off! lol
She- lmao!!! youre so right! how can someone eat something called poo poo or bang bang lmao! have you tried it?
Me- actually, i never tried poo poo lol lets go have some poo poo together, you taste it first lol! There is a chinese buffet in Miami called "Foody Goody" ... i was cracking up when i saw it!
She- HAHAHAH that is soooo original! Foody Goody LMAO! no no no ... no poo poo for me! lol
Me- what about some bang bang? lol ... *cough*cough watchout for the dirty minds -_-
She- OMG im dieing laughing ... between poo poo and bang bang, i would prefer bang bang lol
Me- hahahah... i like your sense of humor lol ... well, maybe we can have some bang bang one of these days, but i got to go now ... i got some 16 waiting for me!
She- enjoy ttyl

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loving this last one as much as the rest of the thread, tried a couple out, they dont go down too badly, keep em coming bruv

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Great thread, going to definitely try this. I have been gaming girls on facebook for a week now (on my friends account - practice??? dont ask) but I havent tried any methods wanted to see my natural game and work on it... surprisingly I got him two dates out of 3 attempts and he said he hooked up with both so I must be building good attraction and comfort, cause he met the person for 5 mins and just got fb account

So yea gonna try this on my account now that im more comfortable, you said just like 5 photos some statuses and then black/white

My only remark is, dont you think coffee is a bit boring. Personally I feel that sitting down in a coffee scenario as a date (cant think of word) is just ehhh...

I tried with my friend going swimming in a like, she was a lifeguard so I just did something she has in common, or a different girl I did

Would you say your spotaneous... she said well you just dont know me, I then said well than lets go for a hike, I usually dont hike around here so you gotta show me a good spot and so fourth...

Thanks for response and keep it up your game is brilliant and witty!!

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honestly, I kind of agree with you, but thats part of my strategy. Im gonna explain:
1-Basically, if a girl accepts going for coffee, or for a walk, that means that she is not realy concerned with the activity itself but to spend time with me. If you invite for dinner or to see a show, its like if you are buying her time with you. She might just go with you cause she is wants "free" stuff.

2- there is a marketing concept that says "the higher the commitment, the less likely you will be to buy the product", meaning, if she goes for coffee or a walk, all she is investing is like 30m and a couple dollars, she doesn't have to dress up neither cancel plans. If you invite her for movies, dinner, clubbing, concert, there is a way higher commitment she might not be willing to make.

3- like you said, coffee is not something that triggers that felling of excitement and having lots of fun, so her expectations are not high. Im the kind of guy that can talk about everything, got lots of fun episodes to share, and a good sense of humor. I can guarantee you that they will have way more fun that they thought would be possible by having coffee with someone they just met. next time they meet someone for coffee, they will think of how much fun they had with me, believe me, they do!

4- you can invite them for whatever, depending on how confortable she feels with me. BUT there is something that I always keep in mind: first encounter is either 1 on 1 or with her friends if she invites, and at a time that I know she wont have to cancel plans. She will feel way more confortable. That way is kind of a secret thing. She wont have to tell her friends what she is doing, cause then she will have to either make up an excuse so she doesn't have to explain why she is going out one on one with a "random guy", neither she will have to tell them what happened. I could develop on this concert but it would be out of topic, but believe me, you dont know how important this is for girls!

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Awesome thread, i just barely starting in the pick up community, and facebook i believe now is a major part of the modern game.

So i hav a few questions:

What are good things to post as ur status? because as expected many chicks you've chatted with will start to see if they become interested in you.

And you have any comments for pictures for your profile?

Honestly I appreciated that response, too be honest I would never take a girl to a movie or a show or something for a date, if I want to sit and not talk to you for 1hr30mins i just would not have called you and gone with a bro...

With that said, I think I am going to try this coffee date once, I haven't really done it, but I am entertaining and have done things like go to subway grab food, go to mccdonalds grab a drink, then sit somewhere eat talk, then go up walk more somewhere, and just talk...

I loved your connection to marketing I got a micro final soon and I am studying it and that is on it also the point you made is really just brilliant she will have less of a reason to get uncomfortable and need to over due her outfit and such, thanks I am going to use this right now

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Just wanted to say this is the first thread I have read on this forum and it is pure gold. I'm sitting here laughing to myself at how clever it is. May try a couple out myself, keep it up Brian!

OMG! awesome.

BTW, how can you find new girls who are in the same city on facebook?

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Ok guys ... so this was last thursday ...

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So ... this was a number close WITH a first encounter 1 on 1

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And these are just a couple examples of how i start interacting with someone BEFORE i take it to the chat room!

I just recently added this girl. I saw her at a meeting in school, added her and this was my first comment:




This girl i added her cause i saw that she is from my town AND she has won Miss Brazil contests here AND she has been on magazines and stuff. So she had a picture of 3 or 4 driving tickets she got last month so this was my comment.

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This is amazing. I would have never thought of any of this on Facebook and I was just thinking of this today. The one good thing I did right so far was a number close on this one person. But I still get the feeling it can crash and burn! I am trying the coffee one right now but I don't know about the response yet.

Find her mutual friend

And see I was thinking that too but apparently before the job that we both work at she lived in a different city so none of them live close to her. The coffee opener doesn't seem to working, she messages A LOT so I find that hard to believe where as before she was talking to me but it felt like small talk. Any ideas to keep going? I'm also thinking give more time. Since I work with her also her schedule for work sucks just as much as mine.

Brian, would all this openings work face to face, as in in person?