So I freeze out this girl, and today decide I will text her back (I was supposed to take her out tonight but she declined after a while)... we talk I talk about a magical date we would have had she said its fantastic and shes inlove with it, then I say so what are you going to do for me (when you take me out) she says lol me take u out, I respond, "So I have to treat you out but you cant treat me out... well than you better get me something on our date to make up for it" she then responds Im at work ttyl...

She just responded how she wants to set her workplace on fire... should I freeze out again or respond and work my mojo?

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-Raphael

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Your message makes it sound to much like you are asking for a sexual favor, unless you have built up comfort and have talked about sexual things jokingly and then switched into serious talk, I would avoid asking a woman "what are you going to do for me" in that kind of context. Re-direct the conversation and then start a different way and get together with her as soon as you can. Avoid sexual innuendos or anything the like. Obviously this is something that she is not ready for due to lack of sexual comfort build up.

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Sounds good I will try and get it going again later tonight, and dodge all sexual escalation until the actual date... is that correct? This girl is really naive and anti-sex we talked about it, she just doesnt want to have sex in life cause she believes her vag will never be the same, crazy but w.e I will work on that later.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

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dude shes anti-vag? With all due respect my friend... you need to move the fuck on. This broad isnt even worth it. even if you do somehow bag this chastity belt wearing princess im sure shed be the worst lay in the world. Spread those wings. Plenty of fish in the sea. This one sounds like too much work and nothing worth having. Good luck

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Um I dont know how to say this exactly without coming off like an asshole, but some girls arenjt for the prize between the legs... Also too much work, really, its called gaming, what game have you ever played that doesnt require work, if you know a systen where I can sit on my ass and take a remote and just flip through some girls then click okay and get her please teach me everything haha

All jokes aside, I like to have girls that I can be consistent with I am not in the game for a quickie, I can get that if I want it.

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-Raphael

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99% of the time, if you have to use a freeze out it's b/c you're game isn't as tight as it should be. Focus on fixing your game rather than "should I freeze her out or not".

If your game was tight, she wouldn't be flakey period.

Now thats constructive, thanks mate, I appreciate that. So what can I do specifically in your opinion that will help from what I have mentioned so far. She didn't actually flake, she had work so we rescheduled it, sometimes a girl is actually busy right?

But I still would like to know how I know I am set to get that date 99% of the time, obviously asking and her saying yes is proof, and I don't mind getting rejected at all, I will simply just work again and do it later, but are there any ways I can know before getting rejected that first time?

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-Raphael

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picking up women isnt as difficult as your making it out to be my fellow pua. Just do your thing man. All im Attempting to convey is that you dont have to focus your energy on this one girl. And it seems like thats what your doing. Shift the focus around theirs many options. Explore them. happy trails sir

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The stronger the wind,
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I speak from experience brother. I was in your spot not that long ago.

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The stronger the wind,
The stronger the trees"

-Celticfan88

Thanks mate, and I have 3 other dates set up haha I just want to date this one as well I am getting around no worries, to be honest I dont know if I am making progress or not.

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-Raphael

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SAounds to me like your doing whatr needs to be done. Gotta make mistakes to learn. Your making progress, might be difficult to see but its all happening guy. let me know how things go

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The stronger the wind,
The stronger the trees"

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Man ever since you told me this I was like fuck it lets test this out, I been gaming facebook chicks or friends i have and I getting mad future dates. Now I just gotta do day gaming and master that and then night game. Seriously, this made me realize I need to see what I learned. I definitely have just gotten even more confident with woman and just not given a shit if I fail I fail, plenty of fish seriously. So thanks for motivating me, I dont know if you posted this yesterday or today, but since yesterday I got like 3 today 2 yesterday, maybe going to a party with a bunch of girls (social value up the ass haha) but yea I am just pimpin it out natural style :p

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

atta boy. Glad to knopw my adivce helped you out brotha man. Im in mass, occasionally make trips the big apple... next time i swing through ill be sure to go hit the town with ya & see what you got. Keep me posted.

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The stronger the wind,
The stronger the trees"

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