Nice thing to say man, i like that a lot. More of that .

Caveman approach;

I see girl, me want girl, girl i want you. what more is there possibly to think about.

girl gone now, me do something else while girl gone and not think about what girl doing as she is now not here

I dont want to hijack the thread but this kind of links in to "the call".

I called a girl tonight with the intention of asking her out - few drinks and dinner jus have a laugh. I ended up on the phone for an hour laughing and joking etc.

a) is that a good thing?
b) how can you cut a call short so as to not talk about the little things and just get to the point of askin her out?

Im shit on the phone and it gets more awkward to ask the longer youre on the phone.

OK..


She texted me. The conversation:


Her: So, who in gods name has entrusted you with their offspring then?


Me: They were my kids*. Theyre gone now. Anyway, are you horny?


Her: Yeah totally. All this talk of kids


Me: Pervert. Well its too late for phone calls. Im in bed. What are your plans tomorrow


Her: Im working until 6 honey bunch


Me: Gross. And friday?


Her: Working. Saturday and sunday are my days of leisure this week

Me: Cool. Im gonna get back to you about sunday. But for now I gotta sleep. Goodnight.


Her: Goodnight retinas (She compliments my eyes alot 'gorgeous' etc haha)



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*I dont have kids...

Some of this may read a little odd but I dont know we both have a weird sense of humour I guess thats what I like.


I will ring her tomorrow after work and sort something out for sunday?


How did I do?

Bump



Based on the above post...I'm gonna call back tonight. Winner?

No contact since those texts.... should I call tonight?

Called her last night.



We had a laugh on the phone...good vibe. I asked her what she was doing sunday, before I could arrange something she said she might be coming along to the rave for a while now after all, but is still out with her girlfriends who want to go elsewhere.


So...I sort of let sunday slide


This was our conversation via text after the phone calll
;

Me: God damn you. Sexual ideals keeping me awake. You are a pest

Her: I suppose your sexual ideals would be actually having sex and not just yknow...think about it:?

Me: Ofcourse. You dont think about getting a wash do you? You get on in the shower


Her: Just try think of other stuff then *******. Like...your dad's facebook (we'd laughed about it the other day...him getting facebook)


Me: I'll do my best but my mind is wandering.


Her: I thought you liked sex dreams? Isnt this exactly the frame of mind you hoped for?


Me: Ha. And the real thing is fun. What is your favourite position? (**Dont think I should have said that :S in hindsight...what do you guys think?)


Her: Striker (referring to the soccer position... IOD?)


Me: haha. I smiled. see you soon


Her: Sure xxx



I really wish I cared less at times. How am I doing based on those texts/the call/ the texts that followed the call?[/b]



Stupid fucking anxiety over this situation...I've k-closed her 6 or 7 times...shes held my hand at a gig... shes been zaney and said her friends brother said were a 'good looking couple' (despite me never asking her out).... I really wont handle this well if I screw up and get put into that F zone.

2:35, a rule I stand by is to never be more interested in a girl, than she is in me.

In this case, it does seem like she likes you, and likes to tease you. In my opinion, you're on the right track.

What you must do now, is see her. She her, build massive sexual tension, and, most importantly, don't kiss her. Kissing releases sexual tension, it's like a relief, when it should be just a tease.

Just like what you (most probably) did with your exes, especially while having sex (for my part at least), it go in for the kiss, but don't kiss, but just stay near her face. Kissing should only happen when you're in bed with her, and having sex.