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Talking about Proximity alert...if you have noticed, quality women dancing together always get surrounded by AFC looking at them, like if they were waiting in line or something (That is how AFC's Proximity Alert...don't do that). If your in that situation don't join the AFC circle approach or move to a next set.
I always see a ton of guys surrounding girls in circle. However, I don't think you should necessarily next them. For those who haven't read my *journal* or a couples of FR I wrote, I really have an unorthodox style of gaming. I basically do a ton of stupid shit but with load of confidence and it works.
If I see a situation like this one, I will actually join the circle of AFC, get in a girl's back (Not touching her or i'll come off too much as a creep) and start doing weird hand gestures, basically making a lame replica of these guys. Normally, those boys won't even understand that I'm making fun of them, girls will laugh and that'll get me in the set.
I just finished reading your 3 first pages and there's 2 things that comes to my mind.
First of all, you are thinking way too much about you kiss-close routines. To be honest, just forget about it. Your kiss-close ability will be much better if you don't have any routines. Improvisation, cheezyness, romance, this is the key to a magical first kiss close. Make the girl think she's in a romance movie and she will go crazy for you. Of course, it usually demands balls to do such things but the results are incredibly better!
For example, I went out this weekend and I gamed a little blond girl for a bit before starting dancing with her. We're on the dance floor and grinding like most people there but I suddenly stop dancing without saying anything, trying to have the deepest eye contact I could get. When I'm satisfied with it, I bend on my knee, grab her and kiss it and look back at her while smiling. She jumped on me without even letting me the chance to get back on my foot. That's not a k-close routine, it's just something I wanted to do at the time and girl loved it! I usually have a cap when I go clubbing, sometimes I will pop some dancing moves, walk up to the girl looking at her, put my cap on her head, grab her and start kissing her. Simple. Effective. Shows a lot of confidence. Those will be your best k-closes.
Now, the other thing I can see from what I've read. You focus way too much on material and not enough on enjoying yourself. I know how you feel. The guy I've been helping during the last couples of weeks had the biggest AA and he had zero social skills. Yet, he is getting better have even managed to bring a girl in his car last time we went out!
That being said, I am certainly not a PUA. I'm just a normal guy who goes out and hit on girls. But I still think you should focus on the basics of PU and not focus that much on a specific system. This will help you a lot.
I will edit this when I have more time.
P.S, in my opinion. Going out au *Foufoune Electrik* on thuersday is the best place for sarging since It's huge (3 floors) and a mix between a club and a bar!
Game on!