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PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:50 am 
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So yea I was wondering what clothes do you wear to a bar or club. I really have not been to one so yea I dont want to show up looking like a clown lol. I preferably want to know what kind of shoes to wear. Like dress shoes seem so uncomfortable for clubs. so yea it would be great if i got some feedback on this and also someone suggests me some good club shoes.


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I would wear a decent button down shirt with dark jeans or khakis. I would put on a pair of black dress shoes/black socks.


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So yea I was wondering what clothes do you wear to a bar or club. I really have not been to one so yea I dont want to show up looking like a clown lol. I preferably want to know what kind of shoes to wear. Like dress shoes seem so uncomfortable for clubs. so yea it would be great if i got some feedback on this and also someone suggests me some good club shoes.
I tend to wear either a button down shirt with maybe a tie a sweater or vest depending on mood and matching... I like this preppy style, but it all depends on you (get back to that later)

As for pants, jeans or khakis. Get grays whites light blue and dark blue.

Lastly shoes, I wear vans or flat style shoes. They look nice and can match your outfit, I tend to wear my gray ones since they flow with my sweaters and jeans.

As for the whole style, lets say you pick up a girl, and you are peacocking to such a degree you look crazy, eccentric, and clearly unique, but when you go on a second date you are wearing a polo and what not. The girl will think WDF? Where is this guys crazy style. You have to be consistent. (I read something similar to this on a different post and agreed completely so credit to that person).

Buy something that makes you comfortable, maybe button down shirt, with a nice sweater vest, or maybe you like a vneck with a leather jacket and jeans. It really all depends on your style. Enjoy shopping!

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go to a huge club, go find the hottest possible girl you can find in the club, then check out the guy she is with, look at what he is wearing, now try to emulate it


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I'd get a pair of light, black or white shoes that breath easy and are comfortable to wear. Go into all the shoe stores you can find until you find what you're looking for. If you're not wearing jeans or pants that cover your ankles, wear ankle socks.

There's no one answer, it of course completely depends on your style.


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well all of this is great because I already know about the shirt and jeans but I just want more specifics on the shoes. Like I should only be wearing dress shoes right? to the guy who said he wears vans: do you usually get into a club like that. Because the clubs in my area are a bit more strict.


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Nice ironed jeans, some good shoes, ironed/press bright colored button up, patterned tie worn loosely.


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well all of this is great because I already know about the shirt and jeans but I just want more specifics on the shoes. Like I should only be wearing dress shoes right? to the guy who said he wears vans: do you usually get into a club like that. Because the clubs in my area are a bit more strict.
Yea I get into clubs and bars with vans, they look nice. Let me see if I can get a pic.

http://shop.vans.com/catalog/Vans/en_US ... ryId=91108
http://shop.vans.com/catalog/Vans/en_US ... ryId=91108
http://shop.vans.com/catalog/Vans/en_US ... ryId=91108

Work with the styles and pick one.

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OH. lol i have seen those shoes everywhere and yes technically they are not sneakers lol. I will buy a pair for sure of the black and white. So once again like absolutely no bouncers denied you entry with those shoes? They are not sneakers but still look a tad bit informal lol. but w.e if it works then that is great


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i had great success with guess jeans(clothing jeans,shirts) nice classy and affordable, for shoes since i dance, you can not wear in many clubs sneakers, but the way around it is with nice skeatcher, or steve maiden(mix of nice shoes and sneaker look)... here is a sample of what i wear:

http://www.skechers.com/style/61779/dia ... #Color=BLK

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OH. lol i have seen those shoes everywhere and yes technically they are not sneakers lol. I will buy a pair for sure of the black and white. So once again like absolutely no bouncers denied you entry with those shoes? They are not sneakers but still look a tad bit informal lol. but w.e if it works then that is great
Yea these always worked for me, especially since they look nice if you are dressed nice. I mean I can take a look at what people are wearing, I think by sneakers they mean No BASKETBALL shoes or like indoor soccer shoes. Things that just dont look nice, I actually have worn puma's to a club, they are nice and comfy so why not?

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i go with a nice fitted V neck T shirt, Jeans & brown belt & brown shoes

Wear what you feel confident in- Confidence is much more attractive to a woman than what you are wearing-

It's not what you wear but how you wear it that counts


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I agree with the v-neck shirt, dark jeans and brown shoes... If you can get your hands on some bracelets, like a leather band or something those are cool.
I would definitely go to a hot nightclub, scope out the most banging HB in the place and terminator scan her mans style.. Duplicate it.

For a haircut I would go to the best hair stylist in your city and ask them to give you a wicked sexy style that fits the shape of your head and brings out your looks.. Then have a friend take pics of the cut..

Then you can take the pics to a cheaper barber and have him give you the same cut.

Confidence.

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I like to wear BRIGHT Express dress shirts.

All Asian guys wear are dark dress shirts, I like to show up with mine nice and bright. Even though I think it's too bright for my personal style. I get more eyes & compliments for girls saying they like the color.

Works for me :) It's mini-peacocking.


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