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i don't want to derail this thread with a prolix discussion on 60 but lets talk about a few important points.
The top moderator your referring to, lets just say, rhymes with "beef"?
Lets be realistic, if you spent years studying PUA and then the best game you can come up with is "no game" as 60 says, then obviously you have an inner game issue which precludes technique based success. I don't think that's arguable.
Secondly, I do like 60 especially for guys who are young and who have shitty inner game. Once you have inner game set up then you need to build on it with higher level technique. So while grinding chicks on the dance floor an rubbing them up at the bar is all fun, eventually your gonna move out of that demographic and want some more all around appropriate stuff. In which your going to need outer game.
Confidence, boldness, and the ability to escalate sexually very fast are great mindsets but not the answer to the vast majority of game questions. I think we have to separate the parts from t he whole lest we make a fallacy of composition.
Chief, yes. And yes, I could see why coming up with "no game" would be reasonable. It's like ending up like Donald Trump and coming to a single phrase concluding everything he's known about business.. Look, it really is "no game." The vast majority of people on here think that "game" is
doing and
saying a bunch of stuff when in fact it's all about following nature. Why didn't "game" exist 10000 years ago? How how were people fucking 10000 years ago without game?
60 even talks about not grinding and rubbing up chicks. It's much more than that, he mentions it's about creating the "It's On Moment." It sounds like you're generalizing a lot while overlooking the true meaning.
It sounds like you believe in canned lines and routines. Don't get me wrong, the only technique you really need is how to be a male. It's beliefs like yours that lead to cool guys like you becoming frustrated later on where you think your lines aren't hitting hard enough. You'll be disappointed thinking that your hard-earned skills are slipping.
"It’s often widely regarded amongst the community that good game looks like a guy at
the point where he can breeze through a pickup smoothly, like a deer galloping gaily
through a brightly-lit meadow. This is WRONG, and the sooner you can get that first
critical fantasy dispelled, the sooner you will be able to move on towards real results."
The majority of game questions are very easy to answer once you have the mindsets you mentioned. I barely ask any questions nowadays, my mindsets just answer them for me.
"Oh the girl is saying she can't do this, she doesn't like that, she's not like that..why blah blah." ASD.
"Oh the girl feels weird, why did she call me creepy, why did she back up" Sexual tension.
"Oh the girl is all sarcastic saying this and that" Don't break rapport.
You can come up with hundreds of different questions and scenarios for each of the categories above, there's only a few answers.