oh boy, this is difficult to explain. ok. let me try. sorry for the long post.

I am taking an acting class and there is this girl that i like. she was my scene partner for one scene. we had a problem because i showed up late to our practice session and I was an asshole to her, told her the only reason i am doing the scene with her is because i have no other choice. the reason for this is that back then I thought you have to be an asshole to someone you like?

anyway, she said she doesnt want to do the scene with me anymore. ever since then things have been awkward between us.

last week she didnt show up to class and I asked one of her close friends (she is always with this other girl) where she was. the girl has a strong foreign accent - both these girls are from a small country in europe.
but I think the friend said "I don't know, I haven't seen her in a week"

so to show that I care, I emailed the girl that I like, saying "your friend told me she hasnt seen you in a week, hope everything is ok, blah blah"
she emailed back saying "I dont know why she would say that, we have been seeing each other every day this past week"

then today we had class again and I wanted to talk to the girl that i like but we just said hi to each other. every time i see her, i get nervous and end up not saying anything.

alright. so today after class, the friend tells me "why did you tell her that I told you I havent seen her in a week? I never said that. She is very angry with me for saying that and she is not talking to me. she called me some bad names too. can you email her and tell her that i never said that?"

I apologized and said yes, I will email.

so at this point, what should i do? my primary goal is to get it on with this girl that i like. how should i proceed?

I have drafted an email but dont know if i should send it:

hi. I don't want to be the guy that breaks a friendship. To be honest with you, when your friend talks I cant understand 50% of the things that she says because of her strong accent. it is very possible that i heard her wrong, she is a sensitive person, she is not a strong woman like you. I know you are strong and you dont take crap from nobody. Please be nice to her. By the way, I owe you another apology, I'm sorry that i was an asshole to you before, i have been meaning to say this in person but every time i see a hot woman like you i get nervous"

is this bad?

Well I don't want to give you the wrong answer but I wil ltell you this. Do not say you dont understand 50% of her friends sentences.

You are insulting a friend of her, imagine someone talking to you and saying your good friend is ... and ... you would be like stfu!

Don't say the last part either, you are showing too much interest, and also it is awkward to read.

if anything you can be like.

Have you ever been in a situation where you were an asshole to someone just because you were trying to impress them and then when they aren't, you try to see if its because of you and then you ruin a friendship... Funny story actually! So you believe in second chances right?

Then like work off of that.

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