Hey Guys, I have a bit of hang up when trying to game chicks in front of my friends. Any ideas to get round this? At the moment none of my friends know that I am using canned material because I do it when they are not around. Also I am new to this so I don't want to mess it up in front them. One example was in a lounge bar sat on couch with some friends when some hot girls sat opposite, but I didn't approach just in case everyone heard me. Worst thing is that none of these guys will do anything. These guys would probably be judgemental and make fun of what I am doing and they don't have much game themselves, but there is no one else that is up for going to bars/clubs. I suppose the easy answer is to find some new friends or go solo! Any thoughts? Cheers.

Haha muggles. Don't worry bro none of my friends game they are just lucky and have hot girls ask them out and end up in relationships. Canned material can be difficult because your not being yourself so if you are going to use it do it away from your friends where it doesn't matter if you screw up and you can find out what works.

I'm in a similar situation my mates either don't even go out anymore or the ones that do go to shit places so I'm thinking about soloing regularly but the first step of is always the hardest..

After awhile your inner game will get strong enough that you won't give a fuck what your friends say or think.

Using game when your friends are around is a great idea. they will see you in a different light. Plus game is all about passing the love around. Maybe you can help them out?

I think you should do it in front of your mates, they are your friends, if they see you talking to a girl I hope they wouldn't cock block and insult in front of her. It also would increase your DHV I believe. You are with a group of people, your the one talking to girls, and they are all watching you. YOU must be the important one in the group, the brave one, the LEADER. Sometimes you learn about others in this situation, maybe one of them is a good wingman and all. Also invite some of your girl friends from work or where ever. They can help!

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the fact is I used to be an afc. Literally everyone thought I couldn't attract a hungry lion. I switched things around and now all my friends treat me differently. they actually come to me for advice.

Thanks guys for your insights. My friends have noticed that I seem to be approaching more women than before, but they still want to put me in the box of the guy who is always alone. Maybe it makes them feel better about themselves. None of my friends would ever want to learn techniques to pull girls because they think it would be silly even though they have no game themselves! Anyway I came up with a way to get everyone involved so that the attention is not solely on me trying to pull girls. We went to a few bars and at the first bar I set up a competition with two teams. You got a points for a simple approach, a number, a kiss and s-close. (Last one never happened though!) It seemed to work because everyone slowly got into the competition, but it was fun as well. It turned out to be good night and nobody gave a shit about what each one was saying! Although some of the guys had to get drunk to approach, which was a bit embarassing. Nevertheless it was a better night than usual. Cheers.