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PostPosted: Mon Oct 03, 2011 2:57 am 
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Hey i am indian by race.After sarging for 1 year in america(nashville,hawaii,minneapolis,now new orleans) i found the pick up artist stuff doesn't work much for inidans.But still let me make it clear its like 40% work as a man and woman.But when race,country comes into the conversation for most of the white girls its just a turn off but still there are few who likes inidan culture and i got that. To be honest we indians get stereotyped as uncool.Its kind hard for me to break the wall as an indian guy so many times .But still my number is not that bad . I closed around 10 girls and kiss closed and get numbers many.

What i mean to say that we people need to create our own script/notes to sarge girls in the street.we need to re package our way of converstaion or attitude to make it cool.I have note down couple of points which worked on most of the girls yet.Now if there is any other indians here want to share your field experience we can make this as reference point for indian guys


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:35 am 
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I'm assuming you meant south Asian background, i've to agree and disagree with you. The game and the rules apply to all girls regardless of their race, culture, area... cos HBs think alike. Yeah you gotta tweak your material a bit and choose your targets wisely.

I agree with you on the point that we guys do have to overcome some preconceived notions but that just means we just gotta work harder or should i say smarter. If you're really confident and funny, your skin color doesn't really matter then. I'm from Toronto and we have a diverse mix here.

I'll start off with one thing that cocky and funny works like a charm on Indian HBs too and I always throw "Indian" accent to make things fun. Given that you don't actually work at Kwik-E-Mart.

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it has nothing to do with you being Indian, if you think your getting a bad rep just upgrade your look, use your features as a plus instead of a negative. change your hair grow a beard, instead of looking like your trying to be something your not which is white create your own identity and use that to close women. close on your own woman, latin women, chinese there's plenty out there who might dig your style.


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Quite true saam1420 .Any openers which worked well for you?


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You have good chances of success as any other kind of people, too.
A good opener is still "Hi". Or start with asking after the way to the next indian / south asian restaurant in the area ;-)

I have to admit if you are in a city where there aren't so much south asian steoreotypes there you have a better opportunity.

Good luck


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First, I'll talk about what in my opinion constitutes the problem. When Americans hear a non-american accent, there are 2 pre-conceived notions. Either you're from one of the places deemed exotic, cool and interesting Eg: UK, Australia, France and other countries in eastern Europe, or you're from the places most Americans dismiss as "The third world". Eg, Latin America, Africa, SE Asia, India, etc and the image that comes to mind is starving children and corrupt governments.

Now I'll talk about a solution I've found works. Confidence and body language. You've got to believe 100% in your openers and believe they will work. Practice delivering your openers to an empty room if necessary. You've got to be able to say it clearly without them asking "What did you say?". It can be pretty deflating when you have to repeat yourself to girls 2-3 times because they don't understand your accent, and you can easily lose confidence doing this. By the way, if you get the confidence and body language down, you'll realize girls will be even more attracted to "This guy from India, who's actually really cool and confident!". Of the few girls I've had success with, their reaction has always been, "Wow, I've never met a like you"

Btw, I'm from a country in west Africa with as much cultural diversity as India (won't say the country name here), and I face the same problems you do, that's why I understand exactly what you're talking about. Good luck, buddie


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 5:10 am 
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I'm assuming you meant south Asian background, i've to agree and disagree with you. The game and the rules apply to all girls regardless of their race, culture, area... cos HBs think alike. Yeah you gotta tweak your material a bit and choose your targets wisely.

I agree with you on the point that we guys do have to overcome some preconceived notions but that just means we just gotta work harder or should i say smarter. If you're really confident and funny, your skin color doesn't really matter then. I'm from Toronto and we have a diverse mix here.

I'll start off with one thing that cocky and funny works like a charm on Indian HBs too and I always throw "Indian" accent to make things fun. Given that you don't actually work at Kwik-E-Mart.
I completely agree .I need to work hard to present myshelf and the night game is not that easy unless girl is really drunk.The competion is very high in bar and if you are a immigrant and have accent result is not good.Then i tried couple of day games alone myshelf in malls.I found out that is easy to build the communication level.even i have more number closed in day time then in bars.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 5:13 am 
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it has nothing to do with you being Indian, if you think your getting a bad rep just upgrade your look, use your features as a plus instead of a negative. change your hair grow a beard, instead of looking like your trying to be something your not which is white create your own identity and use that to close women. close on your own woman, latin women, chinese there's plenty out there who might dig your style.
Hey let me tell you something i am not that kind of stereotyped indians you are thinking about.I maintain my look that i can say


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 5:26 am 
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Quite true saam1420 .Any openers which worked well for you?
I always try to pick something girl is wearing may be earring,necklace,ring or dress..I try to play with that more.I always go by my name "sam gandhi" because thats helps me to maintain the conversation going.when conversation will move to my profession i say that i am doctor.Thats a big IOI if you say you are doctor not a tech nerd.To girls that's more cool to them as indian.

but make sure when you are lying you must have complete information regarding profession and keep you back up comeback ready if you get caught lying.

and always maintain your look check out some look of jeremy soul.How he maintains his look.He was a nerd couple of years before but now a player.

Hope this helps and Share if you find something


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 5:29 am 
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You have good chances of success as any other kind of people, too.
A good opener is still "Hi". Or start with asking after the way to the next indian / south asian restaurant in the area ;-)

I have to admit if you are in a city where there aren't so much south asian steoreotypes there you have a better opportunity.

Good luck
I agree man when i was in chicago and minneapolis there was no sterotype but now moved to south neworleans for my job.So its hard now even though most hot girls are here


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 5:32 am 
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First, I'll talk about what in my opinion constitutes the problem. When Americans hear a non-american accent, there are 2 pre-conceived notions. Either you're from one of the places deemed exotic, cool and interesting Eg: UK, Australia, France and other countries in eastern Europe, or you're from the places most Americans dismiss as "The third world". Eg, Latin America, Africa, SE Asia, India, etc and the image that comes to mind is starving children and corrupt governments.

Now I'll talk about a solution I've found works. Confidence and body language. You've got to believe 100% in your openers and believe they will work. Practice delivering your openers to an empty room if necessary. You've got to be able to say it clearly without them asking "What did you say?". It can be pretty deflating when you have to repeat yourself to girls 2-3 times because they don't understand your accent, and you can easily lose confidence doing this. By the way, if you get the confidence and body language down, you'll realize girls will be even more attracted to "This guy from India, who's actually really cool and confident!". Of the few girls I've had success with, their reaction has always been, "Wow, I've never met a like you"

Btw, I'm from a country in west Africa with as much cultural diversity as India (won't say the country name here), and I face the same problems you do, that's why I understand exactly what you're talking about. Good luck, buddie
i completely agree.


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