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? How often do you see a women being treated like sh!t who stays with her man? Why? Because it's easy - and to a degree, cowardly.
Look deeper into why people do what they do. When people make a choice they commit to it because they choose it. "Those women" have chosen their significant other. They convinced themselves he is the right decision. And after they commit they will do everything in their power to make their "good" decision become a reality. Why? Because they choose the man, and if the man is bad, then they are bad for choosing him. So they ignore the bad and focus on the good.
Which is actually a good thing to do. Sometimes they make those first decisions based on the good reasons and the man changes. It's difficult for people to realize they have made a mistake. For many people admitting they have made a mistake it next to impossible. Those people never change.
Maybe you have an idea like you would like to help those women? If you tell them they are stupid and cowardly they will resent you. Because you have judged them without understanding why they choose their partner. It's not fair, to the millions of women in the world that you have no idea about, to call them cowardly.
Stop trying to box people into categories. You are just afraid of being or becoming like them. So you are pushing them away. True confidence comes when you are not afraid to respect all kinds of people. After you realize that other peoples decisions don't influence you then you are confident.
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