Hey man, good luck for tonight!
I see your first problem in the text even before I got the end.
Quote:
'Theres some History social tomorrow night but I dont think im gonna go, but i'll let you know tomorrow cause i dont know whether I have to go or not :S'
I said back 'Ohhh a social? Upto you, I didnt bother with em in first year and Im cool ;D. Loads go to em though'.
The way I'm seeing it is that she's using the "history" social as an excuse
cause she's unsure if she wants to meet up with you tonight. If you had
built up attraction her first response would be that meeting up with
you would be the latter on fun scale. Also, never use emoticons
in texts, it shows that your a needy person and you're
looking for attention. Also take into mind how you
reply in your texts, make it seem
more interesting than what
her situation later will be
like if she were to not
chill with you tonight.
I would have texted back "I'm not sure
about the history but I don't care, I want
to go have fun with my friends. History
is in the past and that is where it
is going to stay. Tonight i'm
looking to the future, and
that future looks like
fun. You're
welcome to tag along"
That entire message demonstrates
to her that you intend on having
fun tonight, with or without
her company. Text her
back with that
message I
gave you and
see what her
response is.
CHAT
