Okay, this is something new i read about and putting into action this week.

Others might benefit or show me that it doesn't work and save us all wasting our time.


I was reading up on how to boost self esteem and the one thing that hit me was "too much focus on the self", this was like a revelation to me! I'd always be analysing day in, day out, 24hours a day. Im an analyser, thinking too much kinda guy.

So starting next week (well already now but for tracking progress sake ill start that Monday). Im going to focus on not thinking about myself and my interactions with people. When im aware that i am thinking about myself or my social skills, life, I will cut the thought out and think of something else.

Then note it down in a pad with DATE, TIME, QUICK DESCRIPTION OF WHAT HAPPENED.

If anyone is like me i also right up an evaluation each week of my daily goings on and if im reach my long term goals and if i did my short term goals. There ill post up my results on here.

Maybe Im a singularity here and people dont NEARLY think as much as me ( I wouldnt be suprised). Anyway who's up for it? Boost self-esteem and im sure there'll be some funny results


peace and love guys x

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
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This seems to me as though you will be creating semi-permanent record of something which you wish to ignore.

I'm just saying.

You use the records for when you do a weekly examination or whenever you like to check your progress.

You might discover a pattern, common theme or some commonality in your thoughts of self. Or maybe you'll notice as the less thoughts of self you had, the easier/harder it became to open or close etc

I did a warm up day today, and its been tough and requires your full attention all the time. I noticed it makes you calmer too.

I didnt game as i was at work but i have the next 5days to do so It should also be interesting as im moving up a step in my game so who knows if itll help or worsen it.

Anyway i hope someone tries it and even more that we'll all benefit from it

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)