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A chick that's not into is delivering pussy to my front door twice a week without me having to lift a finger? I think that's pretty damn good lol
Well, if you HAD to say that. Then, here's my answer..
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So I'm in an unusual situation, my current fuck buddy and I see each other about 1-2 Times a week. We make plans to see each other more but it's either me or her flaking. The strange part of this is, she claims to love everything about me. Lovey dovey text messages all the time etc. And then she just won't answer my phone calls for 3-4 days. To which texting me after a week telling how bad she misses me and blah blah blah. Telling me I'm so much different then other guys. She text me two nights ago "baby I miss you soo much!" an then didn't even answer wen I called This has been the cycle for the month we've been talking.
Also she lives on my street so wen we usually hang out, it's me sneaking her into my house for sex late at night.
What's the best way to turn a Fuck buddy into a something more?( honestly I want to have sex with her more than twice a week and get her to invest a lot more time into us)
I had been thinking about disappearing on her for a week or two and have her running back, which would make her more open to some of my ideas but I don't know if it's a good idea.
Firstly, she pulls you in with fluff talk and then she gives you the cold shoulder. And this same cycle has been repeating for a month. Yes, 30 days and you think what? That's she's into you throughout and this is prolonged push-pull? Games are fine, but only for a short time. In the long run, a person's real motives come clear, this girl is undecided. It's that or she likes messing with your head. Either of that can be taken as a red flag.
And no, she's not 'delivering pussy to your front door without lifting a finger', you are going to her place, sneaking in, every single night to get your action.
Also, you need to be clear about what you want.. a sex buddy or something more. You cannot approach both of them with the same mindset. If you're in it just for the sex then do not get affected by her texts and behavior and all of that. But, if you want something more, then remember to not make statements like you did. Those are of the words of someone who cares just about the sex she brings into the equation and nothing more. So, if you want something more with this girl be prepared to face the fact that while she might love the sex, there is just not enough interest on her side to want to explore a deeper relationship with you.