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Fuze excellent! but she is your neighbor if she was not your neighbor perfect situation. here are my nonosssss:

Coworkers
neighbors
friends exes
girls from the same Group(karate etc...)
Girls from the same church
sisters of your friend
Underage
Married
Virgin
Friends' mother
landlords' wife
boss wife, sister, daughter...
Business partner wife, sister, daughter...
Famous starts(draw too much attention), privacy key for pua

Those are trouble in the long run...Listen to me fuzz i have been there done that, NO NEIGHBOR, let me tell you a little stories, once a girl stab my friend in the leg, once my car got egged, flat tires... no neighbors period just trust me...

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 11, 2011 4:33 am 
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A chick that's not into is delivering pussy to my front door twice a week without me having to lift a finger? I think that's pretty damn good lol
Well, if you HAD to say that. Then, here's my answer..
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So I'm in an unusual situation, my current fuck buddy and I see each other about 1-2 Times a week. We make plans to see each other more but it's either me or her flaking. The strange part of this is, she claims to love everything about me. Lovey dovey text messages all the time etc. And then she just won't answer my phone calls for 3-4 days. To which texting me after a week telling how bad she misses me and blah blah blah. Telling me I'm so much different then other guys. She text me two nights ago "baby I miss you soo much!" an then didn't even answer wen I called This has been the cycle for the month we've been talking.

Also she lives on my street so wen we usually hang out, it's me sneaking her into my house for sex late at night.

What's the best way to turn a Fuck buddy into a something more?( honestly I want to have sex with her more than twice a week and get her to invest a lot more time into us)

I had been thinking about disappearing on her for a week or two and have her running back, which would make her more open to some of my ideas but I don't know if it's a good idea.
Firstly, she pulls you in with fluff talk and then she gives you the cold shoulder. And this same cycle has been repeating for a month. Yes, 30 days and you think what? That's she's into you throughout and this is prolonged push-pull? Games are fine, but only for a short time. In the long run, a person's real motives come clear, this girl is undecided. It's that or she likes messing with your head. Either of that can be taken as a red flag.

And no, she's not 'delivering pussy to your front door without lifting a finger', you are going to her place, sneaking in, every single night to get your action.


Also, you need to be clear about what you want.. a sex buddy or something more. You cannot approach both of them with the same mindset. If you're in it just for the sex then do not get affected by her texts and behavior and all of that. But, if you want something more, then remember to not make statements like you did. Those are of the words of someone who cares just about the sex she brings into the equation and nothing more. So, if you want something more with this girl be prepared to face the fact that while she might love the sex, there is just not enough interest on her side to want to explore a deeper relationship with you.

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read the first post.

that's not a fuck buddy.

lovey-dovey text messages? missing one another? mindgames? etc, etc?

that's some sort of weird pseudo-relationship.

fuck-buddies also usually aren't 1-2 times per week.

usually, it's "hey, omg, so long, how've you been, we should TOTALLY do lunch!"

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A chick that's not into is delivering pussy to my front door twice a week without me having to lift a finger? I think that's pretty damn good lol
Well, if you HAD to say that. Then, here's my answer..
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So I'm in an unusual situation, my current fuck buddy and I see each other about 1-2 Times a week. We make plans to see each other more but it's either me or her flaking. The strange part of this is, she claims to love everything about me. Lovey dovey text messages all the time etc. And then she just won't answer my phone calls for 3-4 days. To which texting me after a week telling how bad she misses me and blah blah blah. Telling me I'm so much different then other guys. She text me two nights ago "baby I miss you soo much!" an then didn't even answer wen I called This has been the cycle for the month we've been talking.

Also she lives on my street so wen we usually hang out, it's me sneaking her into my house for sex late at night.

What's the best way to turn a Fuck buddy into a something more?( honestly I want to have sex with her more than twice a week and get her to invest a lot more time into us)

I had been thinking about disappearing on her for a week or two and have her running back, which would make her more open to some of my ideas but I don't know if it's a good idea.
Firstly, she pulls you in with fluff talk and then she gives you the cold shoulder. And this same cycle has been repeating for a month. Yes, 30 days and you think what? That's she's into you throughout and this is prolonged push-pull? Games are fine, but only for a short time. In the long run, a person's real motives come clear, this girl is undecided. It's that or she likes messing with your head. Either of that can be taken as a red flag.

And no, she's not 'delivering pussy to your front door without lifting a finger', you are going to her place, sneaking in, every single night to get your action.


Also, you need to be clear about what you want.. a sex buddy or something more. You cannot approach both of them with the same mindset. If you're in it just for the sex then do not get affected by her texts and behavior and all of that. But, if you want something more, then remember to not make statements like you did. Those are of the words of someone who cares just about the sex she brings into the equation and nothing more. So, if you want something more with this girl be prepared to face the fact that while she might love the sex, there is just not enough interest on her side to want to explore a deeper relationship with you.
I'm not disagreeing with you. However she's the one sneaking in my house. I've never snuck in her house. She calls me asking to cone over. Also she asked me to chill with her 4 times this week, but I've only been available once. And only two of the times she asked were at night.

She came to my house just yesterday telling me she told the sugar daddy guy, she couldn't do it anymore. And started telling me she has genuine feelings for me. I don't care much anymore tho. I just wanted the sex more often. She says she the same way with er Freinds an family an she doesn't understand why they get upset about it.


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why do you wanna have sex with this girl more than 1-2 times a week? that's fine, now find another one or two to juggle with her and then you'll have more sex than you can handle, she'll get jealous, and if you really want her then you can have her whenever you want. right now i think you're chasing too much with all the calling her and shit. stop it.


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you do not need to do anything, with time a fuck body will get ATTACHED, and want something more, women are not built to be fuck buddies...Do not dissapear on her just keep doing what you are doing, trust me, she will get attach, as long as you do not get all emotional like you are doing now, you are giving oneitis vibes just by posting this asking for advise, get rid of any oneitis vibe...
Thanks dude. I agree %10,000. my little inner voice was telling me the same thing

Hey Guys Im sorry but... Im a chick and... I don't get attached! i need help here! My fuckbuddy just said I kinda like you... and kissed me in the forehead, without mention that he came over my place b4 taking his flight for holidays... he wanted to see me b4 he leaves town.... I'm about to lose the Mount Everest of the dicks here... wat should I do??? Plz HELP!


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hard catch, one or the other fuck buddy will get attach eventualy, the reason you did not get attach to this fuck body is the same shit i told fuzz, he gave you oneitis vibes...Now that he gave you oneitis vibe you will get kind of pushed away subconsciousnetly , and he will get even more attach...

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yeah I guess... I blowed it up last time, because I said, you should see another people... but it was diferent.. It was a friend.. Friends with benefits, sucks... So, I opted for a 5 years younger guy, 193, QB, small brain big dick...and still the same shit!. wat the hell im doing wrong??? I try no to show who I am, only do booty call after 2am... Even I said to him shut up and fuck me! wat's wrong with this picture??? I'm so adorable???? Thanks babe... I guess I have to make a decision sooner or later


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why do i feel like i've contracted adhd after reading that post?

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why do i feel like i've contracted adhd after reading that post?
You're not the only one. It's especially strange considering the post is in bold.

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She's seeking validation through your attention and even if she does truly want involvement from you she doesn't respect or value herself enough to give it to herself. Unless you can connect with her on a level where she comes to this realisation and changes her entire behavioral pattern and beliefs about herself, then this won't go anywhere and you'll just end up frustrated and unhappy. Worst thing you can do to yourself when interacting with another person is try to change them, people can only change themselves and only if they truly want to. She has a long way to go before she's ready for a proper healthy relationship, so I advise you to look for another girl for any deeper connections. Otherwise if she wants some random sex every once in a while and she isn't playing games when that happens and you enjoy it then go for it, but don't expect her to change, although in time she might do so of her own accord.

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Guys! first of all I'M THE GIRL HERE!!! I'm talking about a GUY who's reaction towards me I don't understand
The thing is, I'm starting to feel confuse by the fact that the sex is awesome... So, I'm over thinking this to much... If I may have any interest in him beyond sex
Besides, is not the kind of guy who has lack of self-esteem... He's extremely good looking, quarter back, 1.93, and 25 years old... (without mentioning his amazing pene...) He's the buddy among his friends... and does not show any sign of insecurity...


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Fuck cutting her loose, bro. If you want a relationship, push for it until she clearly isn't up for it. Make your own decision here, she'll go for it if your game is right.

I think attraction and such are obviously present, so the goal here is to make her feel like you're someone she could have a future with. Emphasize your goals and passions in life, demonstrate that you're a winner and on your way to the top. Use some future pacing, joke about imaginary scenarios where you're supporting each other (her helping you cook, or running away to Hawaii). And change the dynamic of the relationship. Try inviting her out to a club/party some night, enjoy yourselves, then go out for breakfast in the morning. You won't be more serious unless you start to create that investment.


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Guys! first of all I'M THE GIRL HERE!!! I'm talking about a GUY who's reaction towards me I don't understand
The thing is, I'm starting to feel confuse by the fact that the sex is awesome... So, I'm over thinking this to much... If I may have any interest in him beyond sex
Besides, is not the kind of guy who has lack of self-esteem... He's extremely good looking, quarter back, 1.93, and 25 years old... (without mentioning his amazing pene...) He's the buddy among his friends... and does not show any sign of insecurity...
Ummm...did you start this thread as Fuze? If not, then this isn't your thread and you need to make a thread of your own if you want some help with your situation. If you are Fuze, then you shouldn't be switching back and forth between accounts, as it is confusing to other members and becomes difficult for them to help give you accurate advice. I don't think you are Fuze because he was talking about a girl and he said that a guy bought the girl a car, so...make your own thread next time, if it isn't a forum rule at this point, I will make it one.

Guys who are good looking quarterbacks with lots of friends often have massive insecurity problems whether women realise it or not. This is a widely acknowledged fact. This isn't always the case, but more often than not do to the lives that those types of people lead and the image they believe they have to maintain they are at odds with themselves inside and are continuously seeking external validation.

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Rye Lee, fuze(3 legs), hardcash(2legs), no the same person... Fuze, follow my recommendation.

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