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There are two types of minorities.
American Minorities and Real Minority.
American Minorities act look, think, eat, breathe like any white person you know. They usually get their "hot white chicks" within their social circle or extended social circle. Those who are tall, light skinned, and looks almost like a white percent except for certain distinct features often get treated as white anyways so they could easily venture out of social circle without more racial limitations. Those with racially pronounced features get whatever girl they want in social circles if they have good game, but venturing out into the field going for white women would have some trouble especially if the area is not used to seeing minorities.
Real Minorities are minorities who have accents and dont get all the cultural slang, all the mannerisms, and basically dont move, think and act white. Those who look white would have an easier time. Those who have pronounced racial features would have a lot of trouble since they look, think, act, and speak foreign.
Bottomline is you need to be able to act, think, and speak white in order to pick up white chicks otherwise they would just wont be comfortable enough. Their attraction is really based on how attractive you are not your race.
Another important factor is the girl's past experience with minorities. Ive had girls tell me stories about being creeped out by either an old white guy, a mexican guy, indian guys, and black guys not because of their race but because of how creepy they approached. Having those kinds of fears in their head, if you remind her of that terrible situation even a little bit, she will completely go into defense mode.
I would have to disagree about the acting "White" part of it, why should someone act like someone he would never be, no matter how much someone tries to act "White", if he isnt' White, it looks like he's extremely insecure of being in his own skin, I wonder what kind of a woman would find someone attractive who isn't comfortable with what he is in the first place.
One of my best friends in the University was an Indian guy, 5'3" at best perhaps and very very average looking, his GF is this HOT Estonian-American girl that's perhaps 5'8" or so, now that might seem that he's a PUA who has a great game, but trust me, he's just someone who has always been comfortable with who he was, and his GF admitted that she liked him for the exotic element and the element of mystery he brings with him, not just her, I have seen him being hit on my a lot of these "White" women that you said would only find someone who acts white attractive. And oh, he's got an accent too, and he's not the only Indian guy I have seen with an accent, who isn't tall, who isn't extremely good looking yet managed to pull off one of those really beautiful women, I have also seen quite a few Asian men do the same, heck, one of these "White" women even told me once that she as well as a lot of her friends found someone who has a little accent and is different from the typical "White" frat boy very interesting to date and that they should just be that way, instead of pretending to be white.
Then you probably live in an area where white people are comfortable with minoroties. Lets flip it then. If a white person goes to a black populated area with mostly black culture. He will have low value if does not know how to think or act black because black culture is the dominant culture in that area. If he goes to a part of town who likes white people then of course he will get accepted better.
But like i said earlier "attractiveness" depends on the person. Comfort level depends on how similar the invidual acts like the culture he is trying to assimilate into.
You friend is just attractive to the opposite sex. It just happens that the people there are comfortable with minorities. If you put your friend in a non minority accepting culture, they might be to uncomfortable to let themselves gey freely attracted.
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