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So are you? ...
Thing is im nearly 17 and still a virgin

yeah i know thats pathetic, its not that im not good looking or that im not a smooth talker its just i think im too picky and hollywood has fucked up my perception. On one hand i wanna get laid, but on the other i want to lose it to someone i actually love and will look back and think yeah im proud. Im thinking about just getting it out of the way with this dirty chick who wants it.
My question really is, are you proud of whom you lost it too? Is it a big deal & do you look back upon it?

Sex for the first time is no big deal actually. Who the f*ck cares who you "lose" it to.
I was like you, very picky, eventually I lost my virginity from a same night lay in the bathroom of a club. I was glad I finally pulled a SNL, but the sex was horrible haha
First time sex is like a fear, it only means something if you give it meaning to.
If I were you I'd get it over with and start getting some sexual experience. It would really suck to finally get with a girl you really love and then not being able to pleasure her in bed....
p.s. No shame in being 17 and a virgin.