The Architect.

This year’s dating blueprint would of never been believed by myself on paper. So here it begins. I think the idea of looking back on my dating journals when Im older and married would be fascinating.

The journals im keeping are of my dating life. I don’t ever consider myself a PUA. I did once and now cringe at the thought of ever having that mentality again. I just wanna be a fucking awesome person.

Ive had 15 women for the year. It is June. Im only just starting this journal now from mid June, for the self beneficial purposes they provide. The rest is history. This is me, The Architect.

Journal 1 Summary.

Its June, Uni Exam period. Its been a great semester. Plenty of women, mainly Same Night Lays, A few dates. I fell for a girl. I lost her. She was a player herself. This year I learnt a fucking hell of a lot, experienced a lot, grew and became a better person.

The literature I give credit to are TSGM, DD, 60YOC and shock and awe. But in the end it is all down to me and who I am.

I passed all my exams, Im really happy. I haven’t been out drinking in a whole month! Uni was my priority and I studied hard and deserved the pass. Previously, I had just got back from my home town after a mates 21st. I slept with my ex’s best friend and she found out about it so that was the only real current drama in my life which is quite minute.

Life in my house has been alright with housemates but its gotten boring and stale so i can’t wait to get away for something different. I sort of get anti-social at study time with all that study, but I still try to hang out with people during the days and get down to football training and go to the gym to stay happy. Thats my outlet. I haven’t had many people to go out with, so its been part of the reason I didn’t go out for a month. Previously I even was going out on my own some nights. Blahh.

Ive become the person Ive always wanted to be. I can sit down and smile, remembering myself as a young prepubescent 12 year old wondering what Ill be like when Im older. I could never have imagined this life. I wouldn’t of believed it.

I have so many friends that I love, so many women, a good relationship with my family, a prosperous career outlook (almost finished engineering at uni, and im blessed with looks that I am happy with, living the young 21 year old bachelors dream.

This is where im at. The rest now can just be about field reports.

After a quiet month of hard study, its time to go fucking relentless- I travelled home for the 2 week winter break. Then im off to America for 3 weeks.


Journal 2 - Thursday June 23rd Bday night in the city

Thursday, its my 21st bday! woo! I wasn’t going to go out, I had a tiring day but it was well spent. My friends call me and are all asking if im going out, because they want to. Its my birthday so i guess its my responsibility to be the most drunk and have the most fun. Lets go.

I opened many sets. Mainly I just went up to people i didn’t know and said hi and go from there. Otherwise I see friends with people I don’t know so I go talk to the people I know and get introduced to the others.

In my home city of about 200,000 people I know almost all of the social circles.
When opening a set of girls, usually I will know them through someone, so It can be easy to get comfortable, otherwise they are tourists and are looking for a local aussie boy just like me – its great. I got my swagga on and met easily over 10 new hot bangin girls tonight, adding them on facebook, got a few numbers and just increased the good rep for myself. Id be one of the most well known guys by now in this city, and am starting to be known as one of the biggest players but in a good way. Its not a contest, but I think i easily get the most girls in my age group, and the girls are starting to catch on, but as long as I stand by my morals and dont turn into someone sleezy or someone who brags, it only will work for the better. They secretly like it. My friends are all really popular, but I meet 20+ new people a night so my rep is continually growing fast.

Tonights highlights I want to pen down

Tonight we were all just dancing most the time. I saw a little hottie and went to grab her and give her a dance, she complied for 10 seconds until her friend pulled her away. I was like whaaat... Perhaps I could have opened the friend first if I realised how bitchy she was. Not to worry! I went for what I wanted. I felt burned at first but it passed. No regrets.

Next club that night on the dance floor I noticed them both again. I have a great social awareness and realised they hinted at dancing closer to me and came nearby. I jumped straight on it again before any other guy could get a shot at her. We danced for about 5 minutes and I noticed she had great compliance to all my moves so I got real close to her by talking in her ear, our bodies completely presses against eachother, then we started kissing. I asked her name and got her phone number etc. But her friend was still cockblocking me. I asked my wingman to take the friend out, but he “didn’t find her attractive” so he didn’t help. Sigh

I got a couple of other kisses that night, but they were just birthday kisses that didn’t create any real sparks that I wanted to pursue. Nowadays I find more thrill out of turning girls down rather than kissing them if theres no spark or interest there for me. The hottie stayed on my mind bigtime though.

I went home alone tonight with my friends. But it was a good warm up after a few weeeks off. and a fun night

Journal 3
June 25th Saturday – This night was my real bday celebration. Ends with a bang


I went out to dinner with my family and noticed a girl waitress at the restaurant. I had hooked up with her before ages ago, but she was friends with my ex so had stopped talking to me, because she didn’t want to hurt her friend. I owned that restaurant, I made friends with all the waitresses, they sung my happy birthday and gave me free drinks. It was so fun. The girl waitress I had my eye on in the meantime had been watching me.

Later I found out how they were all commenting in the kitchen on how good looking the birthday boy was, haha. After dinner I went to another 21st with all my friends. It was so fun! Free alcohol. I received a text from the waitress saying, “i know this sounds stupid but can I please see you?” I replied thats not stupid, you can see me tomorrow night. So now I had a date organised for tomorrow aswell.

We went out to the city after the 21st to party in town. I kissed 3 girls, one who had a boyfriend, one European babe and some other girl i took home.

Most were really quick pickups.
Firstly the European girl I don’t even remember her name, which was an idiot move! Because she was smokin hot. We only really chatted for about 10 minutes before we kissed. I didn’t get her number. DOH!

Secondly I was being real flirty with a girl who had a boyfriend whom ive met a couple of times. I kept getting real close to her and our whole front of our bodies were touching when I was talking to her. Then I just stopped talking and we were looking into eachothers eyes. I let her kiss me. We bumped into eachother a few times again throughout the night and would kiss again. I texted her if she wanted to come home with me. She replied “yes” but then later backed down. Although she texted me at 9am the next day “hehe” pretty much acknowledging that she knew that cheating on her boyfriend was wrong but she didn’t care. She's still texting me now.

The babe i kissed from Thursday in the meantime was texting me all night, “where are you, please see me I want to kiss you.” She sent this sort of message over and over. But then she just went cold without telling me why. I was so confused. I think she was only 18 so this sort of behaviour is immature although nothing new to me at all. ALTHOUGH 2 days later I thought I may aswell ask her why and it turns out... Her friend said I had been vomiting! LOL This was the cockblock friend again from Thursday night!! She clearly doesn’t like me. Thats a horrible cockblock “ew, hes been vomiting.” But damn i can see how its effective. And pretty hilarious now that I think about it. But it does infuriate me that there are people who go out of their way to do that to other people, by making lies up. Its really sad. If I see that girl again I will confront her.

Eventually I took a girl home I met on the dancefloor. I literally told her “im getting out of here. Come with me”

She said “wait 10 minutes and I will.”

I said “nah im going now.”

She came.

I kept my whole family awake for 2 hours in the early hours of the morning. Haha, Woops. Sorry.

Journal 4
June 26th Sunday night – Movie Date sex sleep

I picked up the waitress girl at 6pm, and we went to watch a movie at my place. It was just bread and butter.

-Chatted to her the car ride, stopped to get an icecream.
-Took her to my place to show her around.
-Led her to my bedroom to watch the movie in bed. Halfway into the movie I kiss her.
-Then things get a bit heated and it just led to sex.
-Simple.

I got some last minute resistance for the first time in ages... I think this girl was inexperienced thats why. The sex wasn’t too great, and I was so tired I fell asleep straight after.

I had to ask if I could take her home because I wanted to sleep. I felt a bit sorry for her because I was rather distant, but i just didn’t have the energy. I dont think there will be a second date with this one. She was cute, but just not my type.

I feel like i need to stop and take a deep breath sometimes. I cant wait to settle down for a bit with a girlfriend. But Thats not for after America. 1 month to go. Hold on tight, shits about to get even more wild.

- Stay tuned, More to come.

30th June Drunk and Dry

I guess the nights where I dont get any pussy are the most worthwhile to write about, so I can realise what I did wrong.

Simply, last night i was too pissed. I had a family get together, and thats generally what my family does. drink a lot.

In the clubs I just had a fun time with friends. But when I cant remember much of the night its easy to see why I didnt get any pussy.

I opened a few sets, got some photos with some girls and nearly got into a fight with some girls boyfriend. Yep one of those nights. But he was just a poor guy who couldnt handle other guys talking to his girlfriend. I stood my ground and his friends were apologizing to me. No sweat.

I nearly took a girl home. We kicked it off all night and when it came to home time she was going in a full car already. damn. I couldve done more here.

Although nearly still means nothing. No mental masturbation here.

I wont blame alcohol. I blame myself for drinking so much. Although why? Its not always about going out and getting laid. This night was funner than usual, so it was worth it.

oh also. I texted the ex saying sorry about sleeping with her friends. WHYYYYYYY!!! :\:\:\

This whole thread seems like some bragging, why post if you aren't offering what works to others or asking for advice yourself?
Except... That's on the right track. Talk about what works and what doesn't, you have a great style of writing and we'd all love to hear some tips (how you initiate kino, how you open, etc)

As I stated above, this is for me. Im not trying to really offer any advice.

"Event journals are a powerful tool in attaining inner realisation. One writes of any experience that is important, both in a positive or negative way. What you write about is really important in this. If it’s positive, you want to outline how much you’ve improved from where you started at. If its negative, you always must point out ways to improve for next time. "

I guess for my own sake I can try make them more specific in regards to improvements, although that will be just for me. These are MY journals, its not really for anyone else to learn from because they are MY experiences. You need to figure that out yourself. The best way to learn I believe is from your own experiences.

Although I guess than rather be a total jerkoff, I can try get in to detail if people are willing to learn from others.

Ill take it on board.

its 7am. Im writing this via my phone from the free wifi in our hotel in san diego. I just woke my roomate up to let me in. What a night.
In no way are my field reports going to make sense. Its unbelievable here. Ive been in usa for 3 nights now and scored A few nice girls two k closes the first night in venice beach to warm up, then two f closes last night
Me: hey, hows it going(kino)
Usa girl: omg ur aussie?
Me: yea im aussie. (rips off clothes and inserts penis)No exaggeration.

I love this place. Its not even pick up. Its cheating. I had sex with a beautiful portugese girl last night. The best body ive ever slept with. She fucked like a goddess too.

with this much power im gonna need to learn to be humble. Ill write proper reports later. Wow what a couple of nights!!

Im back. Fuck my life.

I didnt want to leave so soon. I will definitely be returning next year for a few months next time. it was hands down, the best thing ive ever done with my life.

Ive fallen in love with the world and its people. I cant stay in Australia after doing that. I honestly dont even want to go out here anymore or bother trying to meet new girls. Its just not as good and it wont compare.

I wont be truly happy til I am travelling the world again. Itll be soon. And itll be for a long time. Im still young, I need to do it at this age. I gotta get away from 21 years of the same culture. I thought moving from my home city was enough, but now I realise, Im not happy with my current city too. Its far from my family, and just as boring.

Fuck Uni commitments! or else there is no way in hell I wouldve come back. My parents would be disappointed if I took 6 months off to work and travel because they have thrown a lot of money at me to finish this bullshit.

I made some mates I will have for life on that trip. we still talk every day on facebook. There is no better way to truly be yourself and learn about yourself than to be thrown into a whole new environment with strangers to find yourself laughing and bonding with people you never would have usually met, exploring new places and experiencing new things together. fuck.

Im already planning my next holiday. Im going to Fiji and Bali in 4 months time. I cant really afford it, but I have a credit card. Eat dessert first, because you never know what life will throw at you.

On the girl side of things. I slept in my own bed 2 nights for the whole trip. The first few nights I was out meeting the locals. Man we got drunk 20 nights in a row, it was crazy. American girls loved us. Its so great there, theyre so good to us! In Australia if you say hello, half the time they will say, "what?"
In america it was "omg are you from australia??"
Vegas was unreal but thats a whole other story.

and ahh. I mightve fallen in love. I dont know.

The first day I couldnt keep my eyes off this german girl, and I caught her looking at me too, so I said gday. I love it when theres just that natural desire present between two people even when you dont even know eachother yet.

I was with my friend, she was with hers, so one night me and my mate tag teamed them. he took one I took the other. We had dinner together, and bonded. I didnt really see much in her at this stage other than a beautiful girl with a gorgeous accent.

I tried to kiss her on the first night, but she declined me. Whatever, I went and had sex with a portugese girl. Oh and then another girl straight after she left.

So day 2, I ignored the German girl all day. (now I wish I had spent the whole time with her !!!!)

Day 3 she asked me if I was angry at her... I told her I wasnt, and we were back to chatting and bonding again. Learning about her culture was so fun. Unlike Australian girls, with the same old shit stories. Its almost like youre meeting the same girl over and over just with a different name.

We ended up sleeping together 2 nights but didnt have sex. We would only kiss. At first I was convinced they were both 'sluts' but now I was realising she was a challenge. I fucking loved it. A girl who isnt prepared to just sleep with any guy she just meets. That's great, I respect that so much.

anyway, long story short, the third night we had sex. It wasnt my best performance, I was just gentle on her because I think it had been a while for her.

after that, we slept together every night. I would go out and drink with my mates, meet the locals, but I was happy to know I was going home to a girl I had an emotional connection with. Some nights I didnt even have sex with her, because I enjoyed talking to her so much that sex didnt matter. i told her this and she reacted so strongly and happily. It was true though.

We had some fucking great sex. one time she screamed german during the sex, it was fucking unreal, I loved it!

She told me my kissing and sex was different to any guy shes had before in Germany and I knew this was meant in a good way. It was so fucking passionate. No one does it like us aussies

We spent all day holding hands walking around seeing sites. Sometimes we wouldnt talk for a while and just cuddle up together on the bus, or look into each others eyes for ages. haha. if any other girl tries this with me I usually cringe and make up some excuse to leave straight away. its shit I never usually do!!

we said goodbye and it was the first time I'd seen her cry. But it was a beautiful thing. I was trying my hardest to hold back the tears too. I gave her a bracelet to remember me by and she gave me a necklace charm that Im wearing right now. She promised me she would see me again in Australia, and Im going to Europe for their next summer.

I just dont know how long the feeling will last. I know all things die, and she will meet other guys and I will meet other girls. I think you miss someone the most at the start, like now. But after time you miss them less because you grow used to them being gone. Whereas at the moment Im still not used to sleeping without her. So I miss her lots.

I think the impact we both had on each other was strong enough that we will see each other again though. She even told me German guys dont do it like I do and how I was so different for them, whilst aussie girls dont cut it for me now either. So I think we will cross paths again sometime soon.

In America I kissed heaps of girls, had sex with a few, but theres only one worth writing about.

On the weekend I hooked up with one of my best mates younger sisters at a party. I think it was probably the wrong thing to do. I never thought Id be one of the blokes to do anything wrong by my close mates, but it happens to the best of us...

Hopefully if he finds out hes not to pissed off, but yea he will most likely try fight me. I didnt just do it thinking I would try and get in her pants, shes a really nice girl and someone I would maybe date if I wasnt friends with her brother. She told me the next day that Im a lovely guy.

Just thought this was worth writing in about.

Im gonna take it easy for a few weeks. I really want to start saving money for my next trip so I wont go out much or even at all.

I feel like ive tuned my game pretty tight over the year. I have solid inner and outer game and am really happy with where im at.

I might just stick to day game (though ive never really been a big fan of it) or maybe just have some movie nights in bed with girls ive met before or even tune some girls straight off facebook. Gotta love facebook.

As long as I dont go rusty or create a self induced dry spell!

Im sure Ill be back out there hard if I dont get laid for a few of weeks.

but I think this will be good for the soul

until then!!!!!!!

Just got a day game number

She started the conversation with me too, so it kinda fell in my lap.

Time to try something new

I REALLY want to try something where I dont have sex with girls on the first night i meet them. I have done that most my life when I get laid and look where its got me. I usually lose interest in them straight after and dont call them or see them again and less im drunk and just want sex. Theres no time to create any real connection other than physically. Its a thin feeling.

I can think of the 2 girls I didnt have sex with the first night I met them are the 2 ive fallen most for. I want them emotions again. Its like a drug and Im a junky on it. I love it.

It needs to be me that decides not to have sex. But I cant sound like a pussy either. I think if I tell the girl that I dont want to have sex for that very reason, she will respect it. But damn I know its going to be hard.

Because afterall. We all want to love and be loved in return. Isnt that what its all about?

as much as i love and respect my morals in this last post. Things have gotten pretty boring for me again.

Ive kept in contact with the German girl I met in America, and she is coming to visit me in 3 months, then I am visiting Europe in June next year....

I kept to what I promised myself. No pointless sex just for the sake of it. Its made me keep in contact with this lovely German girl and something great could be beginning.

On the flip side.

Ive had fuck all sex since I got back. Ok im gonna come right out and admit it. NO sex for 2 months. And its been self inflicted. As Im writing this I got a text from a past lay, asking if she can come over tonight... But I wont answer. Ive gotten over it all. I dont go out anymore. Uni is my only focus in life. (I finish in 2 weeks by the way)

so in 2 weeks holidays begin and I return home.

I think the loving phase is about to end and its time to go wild again. As much as I love having a high level of self respect and standards, I miss my old ways.

Besides, my German girl isnt going anywhere. We will both be single when we visit eachother.. She can be my european love. But in the meantime....

I have
- 3 months holidays
- German girl Visits for a month
- USA for 3 months
- Europe for 3 months

I need to start embracing my youth again and the girls around me, or ill regret it when Im older.

Time to refresh up on my trusty old books. David Deangelo, 60YOC and TSGM

lets do this