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Amain full if we all have the same criteria of what a 10 is would be in trouble, everybody has their type...My type is coco/kim kardashian type.. i know sinn like red hear, big tetas freakles... everybody is different...I do not like Ferrari, i like escalate, everybody has their tastes...
I disagree. I think the vast majority of men have a more or less same concept of a HB 8-10. I think every man, including me, thinks Kim Kardashian is at least an 8. Men can have a preferance for types, but that would translate in not more than 1 point.
So if these PUA's can't get 8's or higher, I start doubting their techniques, their approach to pick-up.
The way I see it is that when you're getting too deep into pickup, like thinking about certain methods/techniques/pick-upplays, you're doing something wrong. The only things you need to put time in are bodylanguage/confidence and building value. From that point you simply need to improvise and let it roll naturally, in time you'll find out what works and what doesn't. In short, theory should only be the basis.
Of course the old canned opener isn't bad.
I'll make a general post about this because I believe people are treating this 'pick-up' too much as a science, whereas it's more of a rudimentary set of basic principles.