Personally if a woman were to tell me that all I want is sex (which HAS happened before), I would simply reply that sex is only one of many things I want, which is actually the truth I need intellectual and emotional stimulation from a woman.

Alright well we broke up a week ago, and I've had absolutely no trouble finding more hot girls. They all like me but, no matter how many hot girls I have all over me, it doesn't help. They're certainly very attractive, but it just doesn't compare to when I was with my ex. We weren't just having a fling; we were truly compatible, and were alike in too many ways to list. This isn't scarcity. This is love.

When I last talked to my ex a couple days ago, it was following a freeze-out I was giving her. She told me how much she loved me, and that she's sorry because she knows she really fucked up. And that she promised she would explain everything... "just not right now." I'm not sure what her reasoning behind this was, but all I could get out of her was, "I hadn't been happy for a long time. And in the last couple weeks when things WERE good, it was because I was killing myself trying." In addition, her cousin (that was with her the entire time after the breakup) was saying that my ex cried and talked about me nonstop. SO MUCH that the cousin felt like she knew everything about me now lol.

I probably sound like a broken record by now, but I need help. By the way, she's no longer talking to the guy she flirted with. She found out about his plan to play ("Bang and hang") her, and cut off contact with him. This girl just can't get out of my mind. No matter how many other girls I'm surrounded with.

maybe it is "love".

even so, you need time apart...

plenty of it.

you know the old saying.....

if you love something, set it free, it comes back to you, it is yours, if it doesn't, it was never meant to be. (i believe that)

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Wow holy crap! I basically tried to end my association with her last night, with a super pissed letter. Telling her that I'm tired of putting up with her shit. And suddenly I become her #1 person to talk to. She's been relentless sending me messages ever since! I've never gotten these kinds of results out of her before! I've pasted two below, so you can give your interpretation of them and what my response/reaction should be:

SUBJECT: I'm sorry
OK, I know I'm by far the last person you wanna talk to right now, but I wanna try and explain some things. First off, I always have been in love with you, so don't think otherwise. And I know I fucked up everything, as always. I don't know why I do the stupid shit I do, I just get scared. And I've never thought that you were 100% mine forever. You go out of town so much and you're so amazing, so I've always been paranoid and thought that you could leave me at any second. And I'm not using that as an excuse, it's jus a small part of why I think I'm the way I am. And I know that I hurt you over and over again when I flirt with other guys. And I wish I didn't do that, but it just doesn't click in my head that we're perfect and we'll last forever. And since Missouri (my month-long vacation) it's gotten worse. I was paranoid everyday thinking you were aound beautiful girls who you could easily leave me for. I know you hate me by now for messing up so bad, but I really am sorry. I thought that going on vacation for a while would be good for me and that I could figure out what I want, but I was so wrong. I spent a little bit of each day crying and wishing I could have been a good girlfriend. I hate myself for being so hateful to you. And now I should jus stop talkig. Anyway, I'm sorry. I hope you some day can forget about everything I put you through. Bye, so sorry.

SUBJECT: Please
Please talk to me. I know that I don't deserve even a second of your time after what I've done to you, but I really want to talk to you. I understand that you can't stand me and that you never will be able to again, but please. You were always the one who was willing to wait for me, and talk to me, and to never give up. And now it's my turn, so please, just say something. I know you hate me, I get it and don't blame you. But I wanna know that you're OK. And I wanna know that you can still be happy. I finally realize that I had the worlds most amazing gift and I just didn't care for it enough. I don't know if I did the things I did because of jealousy, or fear, or just pure hate. But I do know hat since we've been apart nothing's the same. I can't sleep, I can't eat, it's like I forgot how to live. I know that you do not wanna be with me, but I need to know that you aren't feeling the pain I am. The last thing I ever want is for you to be in pain. Just please say something, just let me know you got my messages at least. Please.

don't fall for it.

play nonchalant, say "it's cool baby"

then freeze her out, until she learns to value you

it's too quick.

time is key here.

plenty of time.

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OK so... who was right? Lets hear it.....

Now what you do is this : you meet up, you have sex and you cum..... on her FACE. Very important .... face.

Then you don't call her for a week.

Then you start the relationship all over but you make sure she sees you with other girls, that you take two hours to answer her texts, and that every once in a while you don't answer your phone for 5 or 10 hours.

Once every few days you cum on her face again, or tie her up... the point is - you must keep the drama and the upper hand. With this type of women you must be THE MAN or they lose interest.

Report back...

Ok so I just received 2 different pieces of advice. You advised meeting up with her right away, to fuck her, followed by a week-long freeze out. And Mack recommended a short, nonchalant reply with an immediate freeze out and no meet up. Which route should I go? Haha

That is very disrespectful. She does not like you anymore. She is probably sexing another guy. Dude find yourself a new girl. Women that are into you volunteer sex any time.

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Mate, its not you its her,
She is so much more complex and emotional than you think dude, she told me herself (just kidding dude). But please know that women dont know what they want or what is good for them, they dont know they are ignorant and those who know they r ignorant do not know how to educate themself!

Its not u brother, if u dont fuck enough ur in trouble, if u fuck enough u r just a horny bastard!

I have dated and lost some amazing women and I learned, they dont have to make sense all the times, and they dont make sense. That is a huge head fuck of having a hot girl, cause the hotter they are, the more they are addicted to drama.

Female in general: Give her ur heart, she wants ur eyes too, giver her ur eyes she will ask for ur kidney.

They find out what theyve done when they are in their mid 30's

Mack;

You have great posts on this forum but mate I have to disagree with you on this one.

When I love someone, I dont for 1 second want to leave them. How could you get sick of someone you love? I was with Carol for 2.5 years, lived in the same place, or before her Honey, 1 year,,, not 1 day i wanted them out.

This is just emotional rollocoaster, typical female headfuck!

Cheers dude

I would wait no more than two days... she might come around and decide its better to end it.

The point is this - no more Mr nice guy. From now on just 70% nice guy and 30% JERK. Be the alpha male that doesn't give a fuck.... and the sweet guy, in the same time. Make sweet gentle love to her then all of a sudden grab her hair and pull it strong, then cum on her face and call her your bitch.

She is a drama seeker - give it to her. She will stay with you forever.

this is very important. just stop being so available. hot chicks can get any guy they want any time they want. if you're just available to her all the time by insta-answering her calls and texts then there's no challenge for her. once she knows she has you wrapped around her finger, she's going to lose interest. cat-string theory.

just make it seem that she messed things up with you and now youre exploring other options. but dont outright say it. make it apparent through your actions. giving her a facial and calling her your bitch is optional, though.