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I have been thinking about it: the way i see it in pick up is : drop the shit, be more direct and go for what it is you want. That is pickup. you go fast and you dont waste time on people who arent really interested in you at first sight.
Seduction, true seduction is an art. Its manipulative. It is tempting another person into doing your bidding with a sexual result (yeah, this is my own twisted definition of seduction). at its core, it means manipulating somebody into liking you.
I firmly believe that every person can be seduced because every person has a way he/she wants to be seduced.
cheers
I don't understand what you're saying. You're saying go direct and drop the "bullshit" (which I read as "method") but then you say that every woman can be seduced. You can't seduce every woman without using at least some "bullshit" and HEAVY calibration.
You're also saying not to go after who is not interested in you but that's exactly the opposite from being able to seduce "anyone". A real PUA should be interested in being able to seduce exactly those who are NOT interested in him. If you go only for those who are interested in you - you don't need any skill or to be a PUA.
That's what group theory, push/pull, NLP, calibrated DHV stories, prizing etc is all about - CREATING attraction.
You make good points Phangan.
I make a difference in PU and seduction. PU is where things need to go fast. You look for a balance of mutual interest on first sight/impression and techniques to perhaps increase the interest. I dont believe in 'building attraction'. In the end though, i dont matter you name it. PU = fast, seduction = the time it needs to get the job done.
Its like picking apples. You pick those you can reach, those that look good but are already on the floor. You leave those that hang high in a tree, cause you dont have time nor materials for building a ladder.
Seduction is looking at an apple tree for the largest, biggest apple there is. You look and you figure a way to get it. Sometimes its easy, as it just hangs in front of you, sometimes its unreachable. So you go home and figure out a way to get it. Then you go get it.
that is how i see it. a pick up artist is supposed to go with the flow, directly opening whoever he encounters. Trying to create enough interest to sew a sequel on the encounter. Which doesnt mean that i prefer one over the other. and its not this black and white as life is life, its usually more grey.
This probably sound stupid, but i do make that distinction. Seduction, when properly done, has a much higher success rate imo.
cheers!