best thing to do is to introduce yourself to her male friend and
befriend him. making
friends with guys is easy because theres no or little fear of rejection and face it, guys
have a lot more in common.
try somehow to
find her relation to this other friend,
but if you manage to make him your friend, while in the presence of the target, he
wont feel uncomfortable when you try to talk to her, basically, the chances of a
cockblock are drastically reduced. if you're really friendly with him, you could even
use him to help you get the chick. tell him openly that you like her and use him
as your friend to try and get her
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I don't really wanna go introduce myself and do the "Is she always like this?" we've had like a 10 minute talk only and I don't think in that time I've managed to get her all over me yet. Should I do that?
this is just your own
social programming, you may feel uncomfortable just rocking
up at their conversation, but if you were a more friendly alpha kinda guy it wouldnt
matter. this is your problem. it is only a social convention because you choose to
look at it in that way.
change your mindset and it should help a lot.
btw, i
dont think you should
place too much value on this one chick. if for some
reason you dont get her, you shouldnt lose self-esteem. you have to be willing to
lose her to get her.
its better to risk everything for something than to hold onto nothing.
goodluck bro