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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2011 12:58 pm 
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So I had really good communication and done a bit of kino with her and when her friends (male) arrived she stands up and goes to talk to them while I sit there looking like an asshole.

I don't really wanna go introduce myself and do the "Is she always like this?" we've had like a 10 minute talk only and I don't think in that time I've managed to get her all over me yet. Should I do that?

This is a classroom setting before class by the way so if I fuck up, I'm still gonna be seeing them for the rest of the year. Any advice guys? It's gonna be day 2 next thursday so I got a lot of time. This one's a very rare 10 in an engineering class. (The 10s in my University are usually Business or Social Science majors..)

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2011 1:15 pm 
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best thing to do is to introduce yourself to her male friend and befriend him. making
friends with guys is easy because theres no or little fear of rejection and face it, guys
have a lot more in common.

try somehow to find her relation to this other friend,
but if you manage to make him your friend, while in the presence of the target, he
wont feel uncomfortable when you try to talk to her, basically, the chances of a
cockblock are drastically reduced. if you're really friendly with him, you could even
use him to help you get the chick. tell him openly that you like her and use him
as your friend to try and get her
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I don't really wanna go introduce myself and do the "Is she always like this?" we've had like a 10 minute talk only and I don't think in that time I've managed to get her all over me yet. Should I do that?
this is just your own social programming, you may feel uncomfortable just rocking
up at their conversation, but if you were a more friendly alpha kinda guy it wouldnt
matter. this is your problem. it is only a social convention because you choose to
look at it in that way. change your mindset and it should help a lot.

btw, i dont think you should place too much value on this one chick. if for some
reason you dont get her, you shouldnt lose self-esteem. you have to be willing to
lose her to get her.

its better to risk everything for something than to hold onto nothing.


goodluck bro


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2011 6:23 pm 
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Trying to befriend the male mates is cockblock central!!! I've had some guys really lead me up the garden path and tell me some huge porkies either to get me to go away or to make me look like an idiot, it's like as soon as a woman is involved all guys turn into total fuckwits.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2011 7:52 pm 
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i think it really depends on how the situation plays out. What i suggested was mystery
method material. it basically neutralises the guy. i really do understand what your
saying vicparkguy83, some dudes are really douches when it comes to chicks.

i suggested it because MM is tested and many guys have used that social pattern. What
alternative do you suggest?

being his mate to his face, and bad mouthing him when with the target just lowers your
value and makes you judgmental. The main solution i see i mentioned above. he just has to be better, cooler and awesomer than his competition.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 7:37 am 
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You need to befriend your targets male friend. Because he is going to act as the main cockblock. Once you befriend him, you've pretty much been given his blessing to engage in sexual intercourse with your target.


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 03, 2011 8:52 am 
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you should befriend targets friends and with what vicparkguy83
was saying, sometimes it can be true but as long as you don't react (tool someone back) but still manage to maintain a stronger frame you should be fine, just call a guy out or make him look bad if he is an asshole e.g. (why would you say that to me? then roll him out of group, or thats cool, anyway blah blah *roll him out* or the exagerate and agree then you guessed it *roll him out*) if some guy is trying to tool you just try to establish strong frame control and talk often without allowing your emotional state to be changed unless you wan't it changed (dictate your own emotions don't allow someone elese to do it) if someone can take you from a positive state and place you in a negative state then you have been sucked into their frame, just practise conversations I would not worry so much about the MM is she allways like this double iod DHV/ ioi-iod crap, just be yourself and hold state/run frame and you should be fine, stay friendly don't seek approval don't seek attention and don't judge people, anyways good luck


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 03, 2011 8:56 am 
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isolate the girl


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