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at mall what are good openers? im need at this. Im good a college i just walk around asking college girls what classes they r taking and we go from there but at the mall what do i do? get in dept and let me know what works? something a noob can practice doing. thanks
I don't go to the mall very often anymore as I'm getting out of the age range to make it worth going, but when I do I use a laid back, low-key style. Find a bench either along the main walkway or in the bookstore. Sit down with a book or magazine (your own or one from the store) and just relax until a girl comes along.
Catch her eye and open with something situational base on your observation of her. Or show her the cover of what you're reading and ask her what she thinks (it should be something strange and interesting which will be able to spark more conversation).
When the mall is busy and you have good body language the girl will usually just sit down on a bench near you or on the other side of the bench you're sitting on. This will buy you about 5-10 minutes before she gets back to whatever she was doing and is more than enough time to get her number.
Or you can go with regular game walking around and practicing with the girls working at shops. They are paid to be nice to you so even if your game isn't great it should lift your spirits enough to run at least one good set. That said, mall game is difficult because most guys are going to be trying to game (emphasis on the word try) and it is going to raise her defenses.
An approach that seems to work, along the same lines as my other approach, is to bring an interesting prop that makes people take notice, but at the same time you don't even mention unless it is brought up in conversation.