I am reading your journal and the FZ- thing
It's something I am facing too, there is an article which may help. I am trying it right now and see how it will work. I hate this sentence so much: Let's just stay friends, I don't want to lose you in a relationship...

This is from PUA Sasha, it's worth reading into
http://www.sashapua.com/articles/get-ou ... dzone.html

Keep it up!

Thanx man. thats a good link. I find that i dont Kino or when i do i dont escelate it enough, i believe thats what puts me in FZ.

Same problem here, I really really fear rejection but it's a thing I'm working on. A year ago I got invited by a girl I was seeing, for a swimming and BBQ party (for just the 2 of us). She walked around in her bikini all day and I didn't do jack shit. Yep pathetic isn't it. So basically I am trying to breach "the nice guy" image too.

And as in tips I can give you there are a few, but when i put theory into practice I'll let you know.

Update

Iv been talking to this chick on FB for awhile now lets call her HB8, at first we would talk alot, the conversations would be sexual and now it seams like she will ignore me , not respond. Than after a day or 2 out of the blue she will FB me or txt me. Last weekend we were suppose to hangout but she flaked on me the last minute and then sent me a msg on FB on how it was to bad we couldnt chill and how she fell asleep. I just told her ya it was to bad. Seams like she wants to be chased or something.

I hangedout with Her and her friend today. I arrived at her friends place, HB8 and her friend were sitting down, HB8 moves somethings off the couch wanting me to sit next to her(IOI) i just stood there talking to them for abit. HB8 kept looking at me and finally asked if i was gunna sit. I told her no i was actually gunna head to the store cause i havnt ate all day. Told them id be back, came back and we watched some Urban Legends tv show on the comp and we talked for abit about how she wants a tattoo and i told her she should get a titty tattoo of the world. That got a good laugh from them. Her friend did most of the talking one of those alpha femla chicks and she was the one who txt me and wanted me to come hangout with her and HB8. Seamd like HB8 was shy. She was on her phone txt or w/e alot and she couldnt keep EC verylong with me when talking to her.

Im thinking of just freezing HB8 out for awhile just to see what happens. Iv tried hangingout with her alone a few times, she ether flakes or just makesup some excuse up but she'll msg me back and be all sorry like. Im not a fan of chasing cars.