i got this girl interested in me by being c n f and i always gives her lots attention just to set it up so i can take it away ,the other day i was buzy and she called,i dint pick up...it ended up 6 miss call and a text saying "yo"....i mean i usually call this girl up n neg at her n chat with her like 20-30 minutes..like every 2 days i will call her once.

now im thinking of slowy stopping that and act really buzy and unavailable but not too much while she is interested in me,i plan to not call her anymore until she calls me and when i do answer i will say like"hey,would love to chat but i really bz now,how bout u call me back later" but if she try enough i will reward her once in a while.i

Will this raise my value more and make her want me more or will this make her go"hes not picking up i will delete his number"?im a bit concern if it will backfire

is this considered push and pull/hot and cold?is this a good move to do?

i wont be just gaming on her only as i need to have lots of girl as option so it wont make me only want her but im trying to do this to see how good will it work after reading the art of seduction chapter give the space to fall,the pursuer is pursued.

how effective is playing hard to get?if im doing it wrong please feel free to advice me on it

sorry for my english and sorry if this question has been ask alot but i do hope i will be getting inputs here..thank you

no inputs yet?

so things are going good, but you want to change things why?

well clearly since im the one giving her the attention,if i dont change things up i think based on my past experience shes gonna get bored n wont put much effort since i know most of u know what happens if your the one who calls her all the time n being too available,and i also wanna try it out so im just hoping some of u guys would advice/comment on it...

i see what you are saying now.

things are going good, but you also realize you might be making some mistakes, such as:

- always being the one to initiate contact
- talking / seeing eachother too much

ok. well, yeah. but you need to be careful as things are going pretty good, you don't want to hurt her by "changing" all of a sudden, especially if you've got a really good girl there. i mean, it sounds like you really like her more than just a piece of ass. so, she's your GF, not just a lay. there is a difference.

i would slowly start setting some ground rules for yourself, but be prepared to explain yourself in a nice and truthful way.

if you want to start initiating time apart from her, then you need to find things to fill your time with, so that when she says "hey, where are you?" you can be like "oh, hey baby, it's wednesday night. you know i go to the gym on wednesday night" (an example)

use these things to actually develop time away from her. maybe studying on one particular night for school/college/whatever, going to the gym (or even working out at home) another night. needing to visit with your family another night. so she knows that you are not always available, and that you have a life outside of her, and that you don't spend every minute thinking of her.

about the initiating contact thing, that can be a little bit trickier as you have already established a pattern that you are always going to be the one doing it, so if you "take that away" her feline senses will tell her that you are powertripping and she will freak out.

maybe some of the other guys will have advice on that part.

yes,i dont consider her just a for fun,i m interested in pursuing a relationship with her,...im not with her yet but it seem im the guy she depends on now and no im not yet in the ljbf,thank god but we have kiss before couple of times..i m also gaming other girls just to keep improving my skill and to not ending up oneitis.

i heard she the type who gets bored easily so that why im trying to pull away n make her be the one who chases me once in a while,in fact i would like it to turn to that way..cause guys should not chase girls rite,we should attract them n let then realize im the price here so she should make some effort

what i m trying to say is im trying to make her not take me for granted and make her miss me

so thanks mack n any other advice would be awesome