When a new semester starts normally on the first day of class the professor has everyone do some sort of an awkward meet and greet. I typically use this to my advantage and sit next to a HB or better yet in between two of them.

At the beginning of this semester i sat next to a decent looking girl and we began to hit it off immediately. as we became more comfortable as the weeks went on the sexual banter has picked up quite a bit. things were going good.

I had my laptop up and was on facebook in class. i casually asked her what her last name was so i could add her and she gave it to me and even seemed sort of excited. i waited a couple of weeks and she never confirmed me. when i asked her about it she just said she was really busy and that she had deleted her facebook (even though it was still in my pending friend request).

So then a week or so after while we were walking out i casually asked for her number and she gave it to me with no problem, all while seeming very interested. now that ive had her number i have texted her a few times and have never gotten a response. i possibly may have been given the wrong number.

The reason this is all so confusing is that she seems to be very into me. and whenever i suggest we hang out she seems excited about it. Is it something im doing wrong? or is there some sort of female pick up artist magazine that shes subscribing to. It almost seems like she is using some of the same tactics that i am. and unfortunately there working.

So what the hell does all of this mean?

please feel free to ask any questions or offer any insight.

I really don't think there is a magazine that tells the girl "give fake numbers and keep on hold guys on facebook"...

How is that pickup? I would get annoyed or pissed and forget about her...

Maybe she's just not into you but she doesn't have the courage to tell you face to face. I would say confront her, and if she keep finding lame excuses, freeze her out forever...

Yeah i agree and i think i should freeze her out too. but the way she acts around me and the way i feel around her don't lie.

Maybe she has been in one too many bad relationships?

I also thought that maybe she wants to just get down but doesnt want to make the rest of the semester awkward so shes waiting until its over possibly?

bump

Do you normally get to class later and sit next to her or vice versa? If she's sitting next to you cause you're there first then IOI. If you're getting there late, then you have a very good option, get there late a few classes in a row and don't sit next to her. Then, for a few weeks get to class early and see if she comes to you and asks you why you weren't sitting next to her...again another IOI.

All in all I'm thinking along the same lines as the other guys...Freeze out, move on and if she decides to re-initiate contact then you can tell her alphally (lol) that she's going to have coffee/a drink with you after class. Speaking of which, it's class...do you not have homework/projects to meet up and work on?

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Nothing to say, man. She's playing hard to get or something. Call her out, tell her that if she wants to grow up and get to know each other like to normal people.. she can get back on that.

Otherwise, forget her, man. There are plenty of women around.

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The seat idea is excellent but its not very practical this far into the semester everyone is pretty much "set" if i tried it, then i feel as though it would just be awkward.

It just doesnt make very much sense because she give me all of the IOI's and is very susceptible to any sex related comments and will even blush and smile. it really seems clear that she likes me. it just makes no sense at all. it really does seem that shes a FPUA and may even be on to some of my game but this far ive kept everything pretty natural.

we both have different classes after that class so theres not much time after. and all of the homework and projects are done in class. (blow off class)

I think i need to just straight up tell her what we need to do and see how she responds to that. or just freeze out. i already know that i am very vulnerable to oneitis and would hate to have to go through all of that again, so freezing out in the situation may be the best idea. shit. i didnt even think about it until right this second, the first symptoms of oneitis have already begun to set in. i was just about to type that i know shes just another girl but she would be the perfect girl for me.

ok new plan, tomorrow, i tell her whatsup, if she doesnt respond, FREEZE OUT SEQUENCE INITIATED