Hi,

Looking for ways/techniques/reasons to persuade girls to come over. I guess this applies to relatively new girls.

Im thinking of having some novelty like a collection or a cool pet to say "you have to see it!"

How do you guys convince a girl to "harmlessly" come over

What other techniques do you use? I heard telling them they cant stay too long as you have work in the morning helps relax them

I like having girls over for 'cooking sessions' for example. As she teaches me to cook something (or vice versa), the idea can expand into having a movie night for example.

Using the whole 'you can't stay long' is something I always use too, although I don't think it's absolutely necessary.

Also, I don't suggest you look for 'tricks' to get her back to your place. Be genuine about it: What do you enjoy doing? I like cooking, so I have girls over to teach me to cook something new, or me teaching them to cook something awesome. That's just what I like doing.

Make a list of stuff that you enjoy doing on your free time and see if you can use it as a way of doing it together with the girl back at your place (or hers).

Good luck

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Just be relaxed when you talk with her, be slick and keep it simple. What do you have other there that could draw her over? Use it! Whether it's a movie, or anything she has any interest in. If the girl has any plans to fuck you, she will take you up on that offer. If she says no, it's probably not gonna happen anyway.

As far as the technique about work goes, that's a pretty good idea. That's not necessarily a "technique", just one line of many you can use to help a girl feel more comfortable. If you have a sexual tension with this girl, you dont need to hint towards anything sexual when your inviting her over. Keep it short and sweet and be non-challant about it.

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Old methods are the best, if your meeting up for the first time get her to swing by your place to pick you up, dont be ready when she arrives, or just say your not and spend a few minutes pottering, invite her in so she can have a look around. Then since is familiar with your place she will be more comfortable going back, hey did you see X Y Z when you picked me up, come back and i'll show you it (code word for your penis) you will love it (penis). lol. "okay" (yes I will love it).

Like has been said, just dont make it a big deal, like it's an everyday normal thing to do(this works the same with so many things, even getting them to try anal ) I discovered this by accident in my youngerer years, I was with some rather attractive female friend who had a boyfriend and I asked if she wanted to come back for a few drinks since the clubs were closing and the night was still young (3am lol), completely relaxed, wasnt an issue or a big deal because I ACTUALLY just wanted to have more drinks.

Got back, had a drink little bit of a chat and she just gets on top of me in the lounge, thought wtf for a the briefest of moments then fucked the shit out of her in the living room and in the bedroom(gotta love not being able to come when you have had alot to drink!) Afterwards I asked her what it was all about and she said to me it's usually a given when any excuse is made at the end of the night to come back you want to fuck, but she said I did it in such a casual manner she was curious and figured she could just leave if she wanted too, when we got back and I acted like I didnt give a shit about trying to seduce her, it drove her a little nuts and turned her on and said that I was smooth as fuck. Which was news to me, but I realised I was onto something here! Attitude and confidence is everything!

be careful about suggesting "feminine" or "relationshippy" things. Like cooking.

The old "come over, I'll cook dinner" will turn off as many as it turns on. I know one woman who considers it absolutely creepy.

If she likes movies, and you like movies, then watch a DVD.....laying on your bed.

If she is sporty, and you are sporty, play tennis or some athletic activity.

I live at the beach because I like the beach, so I put "beach" out there early in the conversation and see who is interested.

I don't like the idea of inviting them over for dinner or cooking - food and a full stomach isn't exactly an aphrodisiac.

Im sure I can find their interests and align it with something of relevant interest at my place (particularly with all the movies/tv shows i have), or encourage them to partake in my own interest at home (like my swimming pool), but im looking for actual tactical dialogue. I understand being relaxed and nonchalant about the invitation is important but i want directions on how and when to ask?

Im particularly interested in comments to help them relax and alleviate any feelings of being a slut for coming to my place after having just met me despite having a reason in a shared interest. For example:

Have to work tomorrow, so cant stay long

I live in a big apartment by myself, there are 2 rooms if you get tired afterwards and want to crash.

If you get bored or dont find it interesting, you can simply leave- no big deal. I dont bite

step one...adopt a cat
step two...have cat have kittens...
step three...You need to come see my new kittens!
Worked for me, Once it got out that I had newborn kittens in my house I had HB's literaly lining up to come over.

Brilliant! Great idea! I was actually thinking of getting a cat just because i like them but i now have a greater incentive.

So girls like kittens and puppies. What other shit would they like?