evey time i have sex with this girl i can never cum she always wants me to cum in her or on her but i can never cum and i always end up just stoping because i get tired hahah but its really annoying is it that im not having good sex or im thinking to much what can i do to cum faster or cum at all lol

Have you tried jerking off on her face? If you cant even jerk yourself off with a naked girl kneeling down waiting for your load, then there is definitely something wrong with you PHYSICALLY.

ha! i used to bang this hb10 stripper. like the first twenty times we banged, i never shot my load, i was just so amazed at how hot she was, all i could concentrate on was fucking her daylights out.

it was the weirdest thing. to this day, i'm not really sure why i couldn't bust a nut for the longest time with her. the sex was fucking amazing.

she kept joking and telling me i must be gay! i was like "bitch! take that dick! wahhh!"

when the day "came", she got hers and almost drowned!

Whatever you do, don't listen to ^this guy. Clearly he has no idea what he's talking about.

In most cases, you're over-thinking stuff. It's all psychological and that stress and pressure YOU give yourself is usually the reason for why you, for example, cannot ejaculate. You're focusing too much on the actual act than enjoying it.

Try relaxing and clearing your head next time. Enjoy the moment and don't worry too much of whether or not you will ejaculate.

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I'm willing to bet my doctorate degree that if with that much stimulant available, yet he can't blow his load, there would be something wrong with him. And yes stresses can interfere with your mentality, and hence causing the delaying of your neurotransmitters, this also making it harder to achieve potential threshold for ejaculation. But by all mean if this continues to happen over time, it will affect your active site for neurotransmitter and lead to some physical issue.
It would be another story if he cant get hard, that could be totally psychological. But in this case, he did, he just can't achieve the certain threshold to ejaculate.
Therefore, I give him the best scenario to start with, with a girl kneeling begging for his load which put him the dominant position, looking down on a HB. Don't tell me this never turn you on or boost your confidence which will help him overcome his psychological issue. With all that, if he cant still cum, then he should seek advice from a doctor if this happens to EVERY GIRL he has been with.

@ Panda: I don't appreciate your comment, we're all here to help him with his problem. That was my genuine advice. You don't have to think that I'm right, but please don't bash someone else just because you can't understand his opinion or concept.

i appreciate the advice given in this thread, but just as a personal sidenote (since i can relate to the original poster's problem), i am not aroused by blowing my load on a chic's face. down her throat is another story!

LOL Mack, doesn't having a HB kneeling down waiting for you to blow your load make you feel like on top of the world ? Or at least a king of the jungle lol? That was my point, it boosts your confidence.

i agree with you. it was weird hearing the original poster's explanation of the problem. because when it happened to me it was truly fucking disturbing. i was like "what. the. fuck. is. my. problem." when i couldn't get off with this hb10. and the sex was like un-be-lie-va-ble too. my problem was psychological. i was quite young at the time. and believe it or not, i wasn't used to be sexually dominant in the bedroom. i was kind of a tool up until that age and was used to crazy, aggressive bisexual chics basically being dominant. this girl was two things i wasn't used to: a. insanely hot, and b. submissive (and willing to do ... anything). it was like culture shock. she basically taught "me" how to fuck. so, the problem was that i wasn't comfortable with my role as "sex beast" so i felt like i was more roleplaying fucking her than actually fucking her. if that makes any sense? once i got over the culture shock and realized it was my job to do the fucking and dominating, things went back to normal.

i don't want to hijack the op's thread. i just wonder if he might be having some sort of psychological culture shock.

one question i would pose to him is this: is this girl different from most other girls he has been with in some way?