I like having a good time and can make people laugh. As a result, I am constantly getting with HB6's and 7's. But i wanted to know about the HB9's and 10's. It seems either they do not have much of a sense of humor or they go for the guys that are big and alpha and are more serious than funny. So is there a thing as too much humor? Should my style that I use to attract the ok looking girls be carried over to the hotter ones? And is it just me or do hotter looking girls show less interest and drop fewer IOI"s (as the worse looking you are it seems the more signals you try to show in desperation).

Yeah you dont want to be a comedian girls dont think that is sexy. Be more playful then funny. Instead of cracking a joke, say to her "what you want to fight steroids?" and she will usually say "Lets go!" then u say "Ill eat u for breakfast!"


You can crack a joke once, but keep going on with it and girls don't usually find you sexy.

Yeah the difference is being a jester or being the king. Joking is good, but not sexy. If you joke too much it could come off that you are trying to hard to please her and make her laugh. Be the king, have power over her, challenge her. Leave her thinking 'wow this guy is different'.

BTW i was in the same boat as you recently, the chick actually said she liked me because I 'challenged' her. I didnt know what she meant (this was before joining the site)...and I was a just the joker and did most of the talking. Now, I've grown wiser.

Uhhh, I have to disagree with some posters. I'm talking strictly about daygame. I've never done nightgame.
Being funny is very sexy. Ask every girl you come up to what they like in a guy personality wise and around 90% of them will say humor. The super hot chicks aren't (usually) superseious drones. They're like anyother girl. THey like to laugh and have fun.

My game is comprised mostly of being funny. I make girls laugh all the time. A lot of guys that use humor in their game fail to close because of a few things. It's not the humor. It's the fact that they aren't making their intentions clear.
If you walk up to a girl and start joking around with her and making her smile, then congrats! You've just made a new friend (uaually). Just a friend. That's it. No benefits or anything else. You need to make her know that you don't JUST want to be friends. An easy way to a accomplish this is to go direct. Tell her what you're thinking. If she is the first cute girl you've seen all day, then tell her. It'll let her know you are attracted to her. Another thing is that most funny guys don't create sexual tension. Start kino.Don't touch her ass or anything. If opportunity presents itself, then maybe touch her shoulder. If you're sitting at a table, then touch your foot to hers. If she feels it and doesn't move, then she is at least 1% attracted to you.

I agree with Kloak that you need to differentiate yourself from most guys. How many guys can walk up to a hot girl and make her laugh and feel sexy at the same time? Not many. So if you think about it, you ARE being different than most guys.

Hmmm, I think that's it for now. Just remember that girls, even HB10s, like to smile and laugh and that you need to create and sustain sexual tension to go anywhere other than the friendzone.

If you need to follow a pua that uses humor in his game, then look up Sashapua. He's great. He also gets HBs all the time.

Oh PS, another thing is to not be immature with your humor. Don't throw a stinkbomb in a building and hide with her. xD

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The trick is to use humour towards the beginning of the interaction to create an emotional spike and get her laughing initially. From there, you can drop it and just be normal, using a bit more humour to spike again if you feel like you're losing momentum. Don't fall into the dancing monkey trap, as THAT's what stops funny guys from getting laid.

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that makes a lot of sense, thanks for the insight. Intuitively I understand that too much humor one on one can be bad. But what about in a group setting, do the same rules apply? In order to display value, should only minimal humor be used and subsequently interesting stories and viewpoints. Or is it fine to joke around a little more? For instance, I often make jokes that make everyone laugh (no dirty jokes), but if I have an unlimited supply of jokes (I rely on situational humor), should I rifle off my artillery or keep it minimal? Granted I do not parade around like a jester, I just like to have a good time. I just feel like when I do that the hotter girls see this as not alpha, but instead just a funny guy (not attracted).

To me, it sounds like you're worrying too much about "displaying value" and keeping people interested in YOU, rather than turning the focus to THEM. Your use of humour, whilst initially getting people to react favourably, is actually ending up pushing them away - everything is some joke, and they have no idea about who you actually are, nor are you bothering to take the time to find out anything about them.

Your model interaction should be

OPEN whole group (you can be funny)
Find out your logistical info about them (how they know each other, who's single, etc.) - you can still be funny doing this
PICK your target - talk to her, and just be normal - find out shit about who SHE is. She's already interested in you, and may ask questions about you. You can give her the old "I'm a drugdealer / disposable lighter repairman" jokes a few times, but then just be serious and actually tell her a bit about yourself, and transition that into talking about who she is and what's up with her
-> "borrow her" from the group, isolate, comfort, kino plough, etc. No more jokes. You gonna crack a funny one right before you stick your dick in her?
I think not

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I am going to use that approach for groups that I open, thanks! However, I should be more specific. What about groups of peers that I already know. What I mean is I have a large group of work friends I have been hanging around. There are several awesome and real cute girls included in this. So as far as humor is concerned, can I continue to joke around more? I have already established credibility in the group and people seem to like me. But will using less humor be in my best interest if I am trying to attract my target (who happens to be the best looking of the group)? Or can I use it more freely?

lol

In short, yes. It's clear your stuck in dancing monkey mode. Once you've made them laugh a couple of times, just drop it and actually connect with them and move things forward.

As for work colleagues, I really wouldn't. There are so many women to choose from, and if it goes well you have to see her every day, if things go badly, you have to see her every day, so either way it's a terrible idea.

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