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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 2:12 pm 
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I did something similar in the last month, I really didn't have a lot of time, because I had an exam every week and it was crazy.

But each morning on my way to faculty and back to home (I have like 15 minutes of walking) I was walking down Strossmyer street and I was stopping people and just asking them:

"Hey do you know how do I get to Strossmyer street?"

And the great thing about it was, that I didn't feel any pressure, because I knew that I was fucking around and that it really doesn't matter what response do I get, because like I said I was jusk fucking around. So try that one out!

BTW you would be supprised how many people don't know what fucking street they're walking. :lol:

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 1:09 am 
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Me and my wing went out to the mall to do this, for everyone saying this is a hard mission, just relax after you say that first Hi you will be fine. Since it was the two of us we timed it so that the first 10 minutes i would say Hi to every female walked by and then he would go, we did this for about an hour while shopping all the while, overall must have said Hi to 40+ with both of us put together and a set of 3 counted as 3 Hi's.

Overall result and thoughts on this mission, excellent mission for beginners and really fun as well, with the exception of couple of girls that ignored or "didn't hear," most of them pleasantly said Hi in return and i even had 3 really interesting conversations. Me and my wing had a lot of fun doing this and will probably do it again just make it harder. Just don't get too serious with this guys have fun with it.

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 Post subject: Hi , I'm back ;)
PostPosted: Thu Feb 17, 2011 12:27 pm 
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Not sure if any of you remember me , I'm sixteen going on seventeen this year . I just did the newbie mission recently . As a matter-of-fact , it just seemed to have evolved into a normal part of my social interactions to just chat up strangers of the opposite gender .
Recently , I enrolled into a new school and whenever I meet a new person ( male or female ) , I would begin by just saying hello , introducing myself . and saying 'I'm Awesome' or something along that line (yeah , not much of an opener , I know ) . At first , i was afraid of social rejection , but I realised that people would usually play along , unless you seemed unsure of yourself . I also found out from there , that the more inconfident you appear , the more likely you are going to get rejected by others .
It is a great experience , and I've met lots of people that way , I still do it regularly , however , I realised my problem now is more that I usually lack subjects to converse with others about after my initial introduction and sometimes I might still appear inconfident . Also , I would wish to find out how to escalate with people of opposite gender , as often because of lack of common topics to talk about or of some other unknown reason , I only manage to become friends with them and I have no idea how to get things to the next level .

Thank you for any guidance given :)


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i have tried this and i didn't get anywhere but maybe thats just cuz i live in africa and people are conservative but yeah i failed. Now i have to go out this weekend and try without much self confidence.


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NEVER USE THOSE SELF-DEFENSE MECHANISMS. NEVER HIDE BEHIND ANYTHING.
Such masks and self-defense mechanisms only push you further into your comfort zone and make you more of a pussy than you already are. Man the fuck up and put everything you possibly can on the line. That's the ONLY real way to improve.[/quote]

This made me laugh and It's the frame of mind I'm gonna put myself into before I do this challenge, may I use it as my signature?


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I used this mission in the beginning and it helped a lot. After a few weeks try intentionally blowing out sets as a next step. Walk up to girls and say something like

"you have awesome boobies!"

Once you realize that rejection isn't really that bad you will have both the knowledge of how enjoyable acceptance can be (from this mission) and no fear of rejection (from the rejection mission) then it makes your cost/benefit analysis of approach a no brainer.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2011 7:37 am 
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Did the mission, well I did it walking all the way down to the bookstore and then to a bunch of the people in the bookstore I'de say anywhere from 20-35 people in total. Some people said hi, some looked surprised (even guys) that I said hi, some smiled and said hi, some tried to pretend they couldn't hear my obviously loud "HI", I got a couple grunts, and one woman looked at me like wtf who do you think you are. I just gave her a small smile and went on looking at books. Funny thing I kind of realized a bookstore might not be the best place to do this but whatever I was committed. I did it for guys and girls because It was extremely scary for me either way, my heart was beating and I was talking in my head but It wasn't really that bad. I even went to sit down next to a hb 8.5 juding by her nice bum lol. I asked her if the seat was taken and then introduced myself but she asked a question and my voice kind of faded but I'm learning and this is part of it so whatever, that had taken allot for me. Some guys picked her up later but she looked back at me :P haha My gut was wrenching my heart beating and anxiety eating up but I did it and I'm very proud of myself and I will take all the congratulations any of you might give because this was a HUGE step for me on my approach anxiety (being paralyzed basically of even saying hi to anyone), so please keep it comming lol pms are welcome!

This whole idea is congruent with my thoughts on society. You know how many countries are much more social well I think people should be more social and it's stupid people aren't. When truth is saying hi should really happen a hell of allot more, were social beings it's natural, lighten up you know. Really were contributing to society by making it a happier more social place oh and thanks for the chance to do this challenge, it was great!

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 Post subject: good idea
PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2011 7:39 am 
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I used this mission in the beginning and it helped a lot. After a few weeks try intentionally blowing out sets as a next step. Walk up to girls and say something like

"you have awesome boobies!"

Once you realize that rejection isn't really that bad you will have both the knowledge of how enjoyable acceptance can be (from this mission) and no fear of rejection (from the rejection mission) then it makes your cost/benefit analysis of approach a no brainer.
I like this idea would you mind pming it to me...I'm sort of disorganized and I might forget. If it's too much of a problem no worries :)

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:07 pm 
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Ok, I tried this myself today.

Normally I'm semi-successful with girls, when I'm out clubbing I don't have too many troubles approaching girls, and quite often I'm leaving with 0-2 Numbers from girls per night. Which I always considered quite ok, but I had the feeling that I could do more, as it always takes me ages to approach a certain girl, and I'm missing a lot of good opportunities therefore. That's why I'm heavily researching PU-techniques SPAM, and bought Mystery's Book

So went to our local supermarket and the tanning studio today, and simply tried to be a friendly and open-minded towards everybody I meet. I made strong eye contact first with EVERY girl, and simply said a friendly "Hi"or "Hello" or whatever was suitable in that situation.


Results & Conclusions:


- everybody except one girl said "Hi" back, most of them even in a more personal form than I did (In german there's a "polite" and a "personal" form to greet someone).

- one girl even said "Hi" before I did it, just because I made eye-contact with her.

- after the first few girls it really became easy, I felt into that "confident" mood I often had when I'm successfully picking up girls while going out.

- In the past I always thought that there's no need to be friendly and upfront towards girls when I'm not interested in picking them up. So during normal daytime routine I always just cared about my own stuff, and when going out I tried to switch into "pickup"-mode, which often failed, and I didn't know why, until today!
The little experiment I did today showed me an easy way how I could boost my confidence and openness towards others. So from now on I'll try to always put a nice little smile on and greet/talk to people friendly, once I have that truly internalized I'd imagine that it'll become a lot easier for me to approach girls quickly, without waiting for a dozen IOI from girls like I actually do :)


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 Post subject: Great one
PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 10:03 am 
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I actually went to the city to do this as i live in such a small town, it made me even more conffident because i had nothin to lose.. Noone knew me


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I did it to about 15-20 girls. Nobody actually stopped to say much to me, but about 70% of the time they said hi back to me. Even though I did not score, it was a great exercise because it made me much more confident in approaching girls (even though I feel like I was pretty confident with them prior to this exercise, the exercise eliminated fear practically completely).

I think I'll do this for a day or two more.


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 Post subject: Glasses on or off
PostPosted: Thu Mar 17, 2011 8:22 am 
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I said, "hi" to 15 girls today. I also tried the GLASSES ON OR OFF
opener but I dont know how to carry on a conversation afterwards. What would you guys do to conversate next by using Negs?

Let me know, Thanks


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 Post subject: Noob mission
PostPosted: Thu Mar 17, 2011 2:43 pm 
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What up people, i decided to try the noob mission today at work because i go to hospitals and healthcare facilities to market for my company. I can tell you theres alot of HB's in healthcare so I should and will be booking alot more bitches. Anyways, I strolled the halls of a new hospital im working dressed GQ down and greeted all of the women hello and kept pretty good eye contact and got hello's back. I believe women look at me and think, (he's a player) and truly are intimidated to a degree. I have the attributes to pull HBs but i need to polish up on my wordplay to close out some of these women. I just got out of a long term relationship so I wasn't macking as hard as usual for awhile and need to step my game up. Since I've been single ( 7mths) I've been pulling 6's and 7's and would like to pull a good dime or so. Any help is appreciated... Btw, I spoke to 10-12 women and all of them spoke back, 2 of which had the come and get me look but I didnt close for an unknown reason. :roll:

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 Post subject: Wow
PostPosted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 8:35 pm 
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This is actually pretty good. I went there and I did everything and acted real polite. Then i met this person who has the perfect personality and is just like me. I now have crazy confidence and have no fear on anything.


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Yesterday, i found this thread about Newbie game. I set my goal to say atleast ,,hi'' to 200 strangers. I have good confidence, but it have fluctuations sometimes. I learned that i have to maintain a good body language to maintain confidence, but it dont works everytime. I am so fucking happy 3 days in a row and suddenly, there comes 2-3 days of depression and anxiety. I thought, that newbie game could help me, and it really works. Every stuff that is easy to do, and helps in geting confidence works. Today, i said ,,hi,, to about 30 strangers, and it maintained my confidence to be able to play game with one girl in train. Of course that only about 5-6 girls responded, some of them smiled :) this game is awesome. thanks for thread. when i accomplish my goal, i will write again there, to let you know the results :)


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