Ok, I tried this myself today.
Normally I'm semi-successful with girls, when I'm out clubbing I don't have too many troubles approaching girls, and quite often I'm leaving with 0-2 Numbers from girls per night. Which I always considered quite ok, but I had the feeling that I could do more, as it always takes me ages to approach a certain girl, and I'm missing a lot of good opportunities therefore. That's why I'm heavily researching PU-techniques SPAM, and bought Mystery's Book
So went to our local supermarket and the tanning studio today, and simply tried to be a friendly and open-minded towards everybody I meet. I made strong eye contact first with EVERY girl, and simply said a friendly "Hi"or "Hello" or whatever was suitable in that situation.
Results & Conclusions:
- everybody except one girl said "Hi" back, most of them even in a more personal form than I did (In german there's a "polite" and a "personal" form to greet someone).
- one girl even said "Hi" before I did it, just because I made eye-contact with her.
- after the first few girls it really became easy, I felt into that "confident" mood I often had when I'm successfully picking up girls while going out.
- In the past I always thought that there's no need to be friendly and upfront towards girls when I'm not interested in picking them up. So during normal daytime routine I always just cared about my own stuff, and when going out I tried to switch into "pickup"-mode, which often failed, and I didn't know why, until today!
The little experiment I did today showed me an easy way how I could boost my confidence and openness towards others. So from now on I'll try to always put a nice little smile on and greet/talk to people friendly, once I have that truly internalized I'd imagine that it'll become a lot easier for me to approach girls quickly, without waiting for a dozen IOI from girls like I actually do
